I often teach that to find where the G-spot is in a woman, and how it might feel, you can simply put your thumb in your mouth and feel the rougher, ridged area just beyond your teeth, on the top part of your mouth. Beyond that ridged area is the upper palate and halfway between the ridges and the upper palate is the area that is analogous to the G-spot. I find it fascinating that the interior of the mouth seems so close in structure to the yoni (vagina in Sanskrit) and the G-spot area.
The upper palate area is filled with nerve endings. Try putting your little vibrator up there sometime and see how it feels! It's kind of intense. Obviously suckling and eating creates the evolutionary nerve aspects of the sensitivity of the mouth.
The erotic feeling of sucking, whether it be a lollipop, water bottle or beer or some aspect of the anatomy like a nipple, thumb or lingam (phallus in Sanskrit), was developed during infancy to not only create a sensory experience while eating but to provide intimacy training for the child and mother (or primary care giver). Both the mother and the child produce the 'bonding' neuro-hormone Oxytocin during nursing. The accompanying eye gazing that occurs between mother and child trains the baby to seek the intimacy of faces, and specifically the eyes, as it grows older. Interestingly, Oxytocin is also produced during orgasm.
The upper palate is also the area you place your tongue during advanced breath, energy and meditation work. The tip of the tongue points straight to the fontanel at the top of the head (the 'soft' spot) and is reputed to open up the nadis or energy channels in the body. When a person has a Kundalini * energy experience there have been reports of an ambrosia like nectar of immortality -- Amrita (Sanskrit) -- that drips precious drops from the back of the throat. Experiencing female ejaculation, also called Amrita by many Western Tantricas, is associated with G-spot stimulation. It has been noticed by many Western practitioners that a marked difference in age appearance of skin quality and facial vibrancy is also associated with female ejaculation. Well, I'll take any kind of Amrita I can get.
So, there seems to be the potential of a G-spot in the vagina and one in the mouth, too. During Tantric sex certain positions have the ability to facilitate the movement of energy upwards. If both the upper palate, with the tongue applying pressure, and the G-spot, with the lingam applying pressure, are activated during sex, an aligned channel is opened up to activate all of the body. This is a tool that can be used to align and open up the chakra channels for Kundalini energy to flow. This same effect can be discovered and utilized by connecting the tongue to the roof of the mouth, sitting in an up-right, meditative pose and doing PC muscle (Kegels) exercises while visualizing the energy movement. This is the simpler way to play with the effects of this practice before you take it into the sexual arena.
I discovered this dual connection between the mouth and the yoni quite a few years back and have never heard anyone else refer to it before. I love oral sex and had wondered why that might be so. Yes, I love to eat, so that is a part of it -- OK, I'm oral! I have also noticed that during oral sex it's the slow out-stroke that always gets me. It's the same with intercourse. The long, slow out-stroke is the one that triggers orgasm for me. So what is it about these two very similar areas of the body? Why are they so similar in construction and what might that mean for our pleasure and our ability to build and expand erotic energy?
I would love to have feedback from anyone who has experienced orgasm through mouth contact or who recognizes the connection of both G-spot orgasms and erotic stimuli in the mouth, too. Oh, and could you please let me know what you think about these Sanskrit words like lingam and yoni (vagina is such a 'hard' sounding word) -- do you like this or do they just get in the way?
* Various interpretations of the origin of the word Kundalini (Sanskrit) are Kunta, Cunta and Kun all of which mean female genitalia, Shakti (Shiva's consort), queen and Mother Earth -- a distinct later degradation being 'cunt.'
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Spiritual sex is very simple, described in Bhagavad-g
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Looking at human embryology you'll see that cells line up first as a midline. Everything organizes around the midline. As the primitive spine develops the head is at one end and the pelvis is at the other. They reflect each other. For example if you have a lot of dental or trauma to the mouth you may experience tension in the pelvis and visa versa. Same with pleasure! It is why opening the mouth during intercours
The diaphragms also all connect: the pelvic floor diaphragm, the diaphragm involved with breathing, the diaphragm called the roof of the mouth and the diaphragm around the third eye all communicat
The point being as living organisms our midlines make us whole!
The psoas is the core muscle of the midline. Beginning just under the heart, It is the tenderloin - the filet mignon - juicy, responsive and expressive - what I call smart tissue! It is the only muscle to connect midline to legs and it is responsibl
The romantic prefer to call a significan
Actually, after reading this I might try going down on a guy (or a girl, I guess) and see if I like it.
I personally would prefer that the words "yoni" and "lingam" are not used in an American English setting. English has suitable words for the genitalia, and if they sound clinical or embarrassi
To the normal, not widely-rea
How about "vulva"? From dictionary
But seriously, as an English speaker, I prefer the English words, even the alternate names, depending on the situation.
As for the oral, I've always enjoyed it with my husband and now I know why.
Keep using the Sanskrit, the words are so beautiful, less clinical.
Blowing your nose has a secret affinity with orgasm, male and female; and if you undergo a rhinoplast
Truly, Homo sapiens is a marvel of symmetry.
Phallus is a good term for the male member and more familiar (and dignified) to most Western ears than lingam. I try to use it consistent
Yoni is nice for the female parts. Anything but vagina. That sounds like a speculum.
My favorite terms are translated from (I think) the Japanese : Cinnabar Stalk and Jade Crevice.
This theory rings with more feminine power than how I usually describe the g-spot as the "female prostate." Not sure how it really helps birthing, though, if the fluid is released through the urethra. Maybe it's the accompanyi
Humans are part of a select group of mammals with no penile bone.
We needed another way for quick arousal.
millions of years later...
Women love giving oral....
The use of yoni is cool, sounds sweeter than the norm.
Vagina is an awful word. Vagine is a much better pronunciat