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Do You Believe in Guidance?

Posted: 05/03/10 12:43 PM ET

I'm not just talking about intuitive guidance. I'm talking about angels and spirit guides. Yes, I'm going there.

2010-04-30-angel.jpgIn getting ready to attend the I Can Do It! conference in San Diego in a couple of weeks, I spoke with Sonia Choquette, Ph.D, one of the conference presenters. Sonia is world-renowned author, healer, intuitive guide and spiritual teacher. She is best known for her workshops and books on connecting people with their guidance systems, including angels and spirit guides. She defines angels as "light beings that meet you at the first breath, assist you and walk with you throughout life, and walk you back to heaven at your last breath."

Sonia told me that 30 years ago most people perceived her as a nut, a kook, a weirdo, and a deviant. Now, she says, she is being invited to speak at business conferences, at universities, in hospital groups, and church groups.

Could angel guidance be moving from marginalization to mainstream?

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In my own case, I feel confident now to admit that I have dabbled in spirit and angel guidance over the years. This is something that I have kept mostly to myself because of not wanting to be marginalized. As a non-religious person, but a very spiritually-oriented one, I have relied upon my intuition and occasional assistance from my "helpers" to guide the way. I have noticed that the more I tune into and acknowledge my guides, the more assistance they provide.

"We are now beginning to recognize and even hear from people that we have great respect for - scientists and doctors and philosophers -- that say that there really is actually more consciousness to be accessed and to tune into than just our strict intellectual dialogue." -- Sonia Choquette

So how do you open up to guidance if you've never done it before? (Or if you already have, how do you open up more?)


Sonia suggests a four-step plan.

Step one. Be open to it. This is the most important step. Most people who aren't receiving guidance aren't open to the idea that it's available. Being open to it is like turning on the radio. Being open to it accesses a part of your consciousness that is receptive ... your right brain.

Step two. Expect guidance. Take a little more definitive and risky choice and actually expect that guidance will come.

Step three. Invite guidance in. Guidance will come through your heart. When you want guidance, take a deep breath and let out the sound "HA" because it opens the heart. You can literally feel the opening. It also opens the throat, and it relaxes the mind. Put your hand right on your heart. Pose the question that you are seeking guidance on. Then, without hesitation, answer out loud: "My heart says ..." Just be curious about what pops out. There's your guidance.

Step four. Act on it. Then your life will transform.

Tip: When you receive guidance or synchronicity in your life, instead of treating it as something peculiar or bizarre, talk about it positively. Try saying: "The most beautiful thing came through today. I can't explain it, but I'll take it."

While angel and spirit guidance may still sound marginal to some, you can think of it this way: "We have our national guards, our policemen, our volunteer crew, our army, and our navy. We have many levels of support in the human experience, and we have that same pantheon of support in the Divine realm as well," says Sonia.

It may be fun to give the four-step guidance plan a try. Why not see what happens?

Sonia Choquette will be teaching at the I Can Do It! 2010 conference in San Diego, May 14 - 16. Click here for more information.

Tabby Biddle, M.S. Ed., is a writer/editor dedicated to amplifying the voices of women changemakers. She is the author of "The Goddess Diaries" and specializes in working with women on their books, businesses, and other inspired projects aimed at healing, empowering, and transforming the lives of others. For more information, you can visit her website at www.tabbybiddle.com. .

 

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I'm not just talking about intuitive guidance. I'm talking about angels and spirit guides. Yes, I'm going there. In getting ready to attend the I Can Do It! conference in San Diego in a couple of wee...
I'm not just talking about intuitive guidance. I'm talking about angels and spirit guides. Yes, I'm going there. In getting ready to attend the I Can Do It! conference in San Diego in a couple of wee...
 
 
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11:40 AM on 05/05/2010
The article was simplistic on the issue of spiritual guidance. I noticed there was no indepth analysis of what it takes to be spiritually guided by 'angels' or 'spirits' as they are refered to in common language. Just as human beings have affinity to like or love each other and get closer to themselves, so do spirit beings attract themselves closely because of their level of spiritual purity; like attracts like in the spirit kingdom. In order for them (angels) to be attracted as guides to human beings, there must be a demonstrated effort of purity of heart to become closely attached to them.

Angels only act as guides or surveillance teams to protect one from possible disaster whether socially, businesswise, family or travelling by any form of transportation and these are actualized for those they have affinity with and not just anybody on the street.
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05:18 AM on 05/05/2010
In my opinion the most important sentence in this article is "Be open to it," with "it" equating to an open mind.

My own experiences do not allow me to affirm the existence of angels, but I would not be quick to deny the possibility of unknown forces at work in the universe.
What I can attest to is many hundreds of "flash forward" like experiences, helping to guide me away from bad decisions. As to what is a good decision, that is in the mind of the beholder.
10:46 PM on 05/04/2010
Tabby,
Loved this article. Loved the steps you gave to receiving guidance. I read your bio and I find you to be so impressive and inspiring.
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Tabby Biddle
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11:04 PM on 05/04/2010
Very sweet.

Nice to meet you!
12:33 AM on 05/04/2010
Spiritual guidance is available to everyone. I've used it countless times, always with good results. If you want to find better ways of doing things, then ask for it. If you don't, then don't. Those who make rude, pointless comments on this website are just missing out on a better, easier, way of living.
12:31 AM on 05/04/2010
People who believe in themselves have no need for a supernatural support group of angels and guides.
09:14 AM on 05/04/2010
Kat... what if your "supernatural support group of angels" is part of your higher self? Look inside, not outside, for the answers. Too many times "words" get in the way of similar views.
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Tabby Biddle
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11:05 PM on 05/04/2010
Great point here. Thanks for making it.
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vippy
Carpe Diem!
12:33 PM on 05/05/2010
thank you!
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khanti
Cultivator
11:03 PM on 05/03/2010
Boy oh boy is Ms Tabby in for a hard time!
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RMankovitz
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10:07 PM on 05/03/2010
I was intrigued by the title of this article, but disappointed in the content. From my personal experience, I am constantly being guided by Mother Nature, I just have to pay attention to her clues. I have no need to look up for guidance, I just have to look out - and there she is in all her beauty. Mary Oliver expressed it so well in her poem Wild Geese:

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.
Tell me about your despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting --
over and over announcing your place in the family of things.

Roy Mankovitz, Director
http://www.MontecitoWellness.com
12:57 AM on 05/04/2010
How odd that you think there is nothing spiritual about nature.
07:50 PM on 05/04/2010
Mary Oliver is so great. My own little poem suffers by comparison, I wrote it as an inspiration for young people, but it applies whether or not you believe in angelic or inner quidance.

Beckoning Star

Pity the man who stands
Remorsefully upon the shore,
His feet planted in the sand,
Before the widening sea.

Unknot the mooring rope.
Jump blithefully into you boat
Raise high the bright white sail.
Do your best and you will not fail.
Set a course with compass true,
Towards your beckoning star..
10:47 PM on 05/04/2010
I love "Beckoning Star"! Beautiful!
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08:24 PM on 05/03/2010
No, I don't. Thanks for asking.
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khanti
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08:02 PM on 05/03/2010
I think we should give thanks and appreciation to guidance given to most of us, throughout the years and through thick and thin. Always there when we need them. I am talking about our earthly parents.
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
07:54 PM on 05/03/2010
San Diego! Take note - on May 14-16 be very careful on the roads.
04:46 PM on 05/03/2010
Glad to see something as spiritual as this on Huffington Post. Need more of it here.
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
04:23 PM on 05/03/2010
Pixie power!

Quick, I'll keep her talking, you fetch the clozapine.
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Debbie338
What we manifest is before us
03:49 PM on 05/03/2010
Why isn't this in the Religion section? Angels and Spirit Guides? WTF??
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
08:11 PM on 05/03/2010
New age weirdness seems to settle here, along with the autism vaccine conspiracists and the `quantum wow' crowd.
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Tabby Biddle
writer/reporter dedicated to the empowerment of wo
11:07 PM on 05/04/2010
I don't think of spirituality and religion as the same thing, but I guess some might as you have pointed out.
03:29 PM on 05/03/2010
She has a good scam going. How many people pay to listen to this fairy tale?
12:24 AM on 05/04/2010
Why not try it?
12:51 PM on 05/03/2010
My army of invisible pink unicorns will lay waste to your pitiful spirit guides. This is true because it makes my toes tingle pleasantly.
03:10 PM on 05/03/2010
What I believe is asking the Holy Spirit for wisdom. I don't have to follow 4 steps. Just believe that I am going to choose right.
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11:50 PM on 05/04/2010
My spirit guide got a good chuckle out of that.