Gradually, I began to recover the memories of our love. They contradicted the story of betrayal and disappointment I had told myself all those years. And then I had to face a very hard question. After the anger over a betrayal, what do you do with the love?
Maybe it's just me, but the worst part about having a mistress is the 'getting caught' part; otherwise, it's all upside. Your chances of avoiding that 'getting caught' downside are greatly improved by adhering to five simple tips for mistress management:
Having been on both sides of this issue, and after journeying closely with several friends over the years who have confided in me the angst of juggling a second relationship, I offer you my wisdom with hope and humility.