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What Happened When My Husband And I Dabbled In BDSM

Shannon Bradley-Colleary | Posted 06.18.2013 | Style
Read More: Married Sex, Married Sex Life, Bdsm, Role-Playing Games, Fetishes, Bondage, Sadomasochism, Style News
Shannon Bradley-Colleary

Before kids my husband Henry and I decided to walk on the wild side one night when we accepted an invitation from friends to attend a BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, Masochism) Valentine's Day party hosted by the ever discreet and refined Mike Boner.

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People Who Have This Type Of Sex May Be Healthier

The Huffington Post | Emma Gray | Posted 06.07.2013 | Women
Read More: Bdsm Healthier, Bdsm Mental Health, Kinky Mental Health, Bondage Mental Health, Love & Sex, Sadomasochism, Bondage, BDSM Health, Kinky Sex, Bdsm, Sexual Fetishes, Women News

People who are into kinky sex may be psychologically healthier than those who are not, says a new study. Researchers found that people who were involv...

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How I Ended Up in a Sober Living House In Long Beach

Te-Erika Patterson | Posted 05.14.2013 | Los Angeles
Read More: Moving to LA, Long Beach, Rebuild Your Life Project, Sober Living, Bdsm, Te-Erika Patterson, Los Angeles News
Te-Erika Patterson

I am excited to share with everyone why Long Beach is a prime example of big city living with a small community vibe that I didn't find anywhere else in Los Angeles.

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Lisa Ling: Some Powerful CEOs Visit A Dominatrix 'To Be Humiliated Or Spanked'

The Huffington Post | Lindsay Wilkes-Edrington | Posted 01.22.2013 | HuffPost Live 321
Read More: HuffPost Live, 50 Shades of Grey, Taboo Topics, Our America, Live Video, Lisa Ling, Bdsm, Own, HuffPost Live 321 News

Television host Lisa Ling said she used to be uncomfortable with the idea of S&M, but after the wild success of the 2011 erotic novel "Fifty Shades of...

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Why Kink Matters

Peter Acworth | Posted 03.16.2013 | San Francisco
Read More: Pornography, James Franco, Sundance Film Festival, Porn Business, Fetishes, Sadomasochism, Bondage, Fetish, Kinky Sex, Kink, Bdsm, Fetishism, Porno, Sexuality, San Francisco News
Peter Acworth

It became clear that I could make a living creating fetish porn, and I jumped at the opportunity. But for me, porn has never been just a business -- it's about providing access for hundreds of thousands of people like me whose fantasies live outside the bounds of conventional sexuality.

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The Spirituality of Kink: With Raven Kaldera

Amy Shiner | Posted 03.05.2013 | Gay Voices
Read More: Spiritual Development, Religion, Unitarian Universalist Church, Polyamory, Glbt, Vermont, Liberal, Neo-Paganism, Bdsm, Spirituality, Sacred Sex, Gay Voices News
Amy Shiner

When is -- if there is -- a right time to come out to my congregation?

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Madison Young's Sexy BDSM Tips (Part 2)

Jincey Lumpkin | Posted 02.05.2013 | Gay Voices
Read More: Madison Young, 50 Shades of Grey, Sex, Kinky Sex, Bdsm, Submission, Sex Tips, Dominance and Submission, Gay Voices News
Jincey Lumpkin

In my last piece, Madison was here to dish the details on BDSM basics. That piece focused more on how to connect with sexuality and how to open lines of communication with your partner. This week Madison will get into the heavy-duty stuff!

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Harvard S&M Club In Session!

The Huffington Post | Ron Dicker | Posted 11.30.2012 | College
Read More: Harvard Sex Club, Harvard University, Sadomasochism, Bondage, Harvard Kinky Sex Club, Dominance, Fetish, Bdsm, Harvard, S&M, Submission, Harvard College Munch, College News

Harvard University, home to the best and the brightest, now has an official club for the kinkiest. Harvard College Munch for the BDSM set will be a...

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BEHOLD: The Nation's 'Sex Mecca'

Robin Wilkey | Posted 11.19.2012 | San Francisco
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Vice TV's New York-based sex show 'Slutever' took a trip to San Francisco on Friday, dubbing our fair city the "sex mecca." "I heard through the I...

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Sex School With Madison Young: BDSM Basics

Jincey Lumpkin | Posted 01.15.2013 | Gay Voices
Read More: Sex, Kinky Sex, Bdsm, Slidepollajax, Sexuality, Dominance and Submission, Sexual Fantasies, Sex Life Tips, Kinky Sex Advice, Sex Life Advice, Kinky Sex Tips, Kink Advice, Madison Young, BDSM Tips, Madison Young Interview, BDSM Advice, Kink Tips, Kink, Lesbian Sex Advice, Lesbian, Lesbian Sex Tips, Gay Voices News
Jincey Lumpkin

I have invited Madison to share some excellent tips on how to incorporate BDSM into your sex life. If you crave a bit of Fifty Shades action but don't know how to make those fantasies into realities, Madison has tons of helpful info for you.

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Do You Need A Sex Contract?

Petra Zebroff | Posted 11.17.2012 | Women
Read More: Venus in Furs, Great Sex, Bdsm, Sexual Contracts, Venus-in-Furs, 50 Shades of Grey, E.L. James, Better Sex, Love Sex, 50 Shades, Sex Advice, Slideexpand, Video, Women News
Petra Zebroff

Sex can be a difficult thing to talk about. A contract can give a couple a place to start, walking them through the process in a safe, structured and fun way.

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Why Women Love 'Fifty Shades of Grey'

Jennifer Hamady | Posted 11.05.2012 | Books
Read More: Emotional Stability, 50 Shades of Grey, Abuse, Sexual Pleasure, Harlequin Romance Novels, Trust, Relationships, Romance Novels, Fiction, Violence, Pleasure, Bdsm, Passion, Commitment, Submission, Jealousy, Sex Play, Intimacy, Romance, Emotional Health, Sex, Dominance, Respect, Confidence, Communication, E L James, Fifty Shades of Grey, Books News
Jennifer Hamady

The requirement of pleasure, delivered by a gorgeous, skilled, and smitten someone who knows our bodies and desires better than we do.... Is there really any question as to why these books are so popular?

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Poly Breakup: The Ups and Downs of a Mostly Single Person

Amy Shiner | Posted 11.04.2012 | Gay Voices
Read More: Relationship Advice, Polyamory, Relationships, Instant Messaging, Social Networking, Single, Female Empowerment, Bdsm, Breakups, Gay Voices News
Amy Shiner

I'm not fighting to get Eric back. I was relieved that he wanted to break up with me. My therapist offered me some words of advice a few years ago when I was very depressed over another breakup. He told me to fake happy till I make it.

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Forgotten Sex Club Discovered On Whiskey Row

The Huffington Post | Harry Bradford | Posted 08.29.2012 | Business
Read More: Fifty Shades of Grey, Latex Sex Club, Video, Sadomasochism, Rope Sales, Latex, Bdsm, Whiskey Row Sex Club, Louisville Sex Club, Louisville Bdsm Club, Whiskey Row, Business News

When you’re demolishing an old building, you don’t really expect to find a decades-old sadomasochistic swingers sex club. Sometimes it just happen...

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BALLOONEY? She Gets Sexually Excited By Popping Balloons

Huffington Post | David Moye | Posted 08.18.2012 | Weird News
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A popping balloon can be startling, but what's more shocking is that others find that sound sexually arousing. People like Elle, a Denver-based dom...

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Juggling Poly Needs: Different Folks, Strokes, and Needs

Amy Shiner | Posted 10.17.2012 | Gay Voices
Read More: Non-Monogamy, Relationship Advice, Polyamory, Bdsm, Polyamorous, Dominance and Submission, Gay Voices News
Amy Shiner

One thing about polyamory and non-monogamy that's both a blessing and a curse is that working through feelings and needs becomes an art form. It is not a scientific discovery that everyone has different needs.

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PHOTOS: Jilted Bondage Slave Takes Revenge On Her Kinky Ex

The Huffington Post | Michael McLaughlin | Posted 08.17.2012 | Crime
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A submissive S&M role player revolted against her boyfriend and so-called master who had lavished rough love on a new woman, according to the New York...

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Why Fifty Shades of Grey Might Be Your Best Therapy

Sara Gottfried, M.D. | Posted 10.15.2012 | Fifty
Read More: Sex Drive, Bdsm, 50 Shades of Grey, Libido, Orgasm, Sara Gottfried, Fifty News
Sara Gottfried, M.D.

Maybe want to play the edge of power with their partners and shift the power back and forth in an interesting way. Maybe they want to stop accommodating everyone and everything in their sphere.

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Continually Seducing Consent: ForteFemme by Midori

Vanessa Pinto | Posted 10.01.2012 | San Francisco
Read More: Dominant Women, Dominatrix, Midori, Fifty Shades of Grey, 50 Shades of Grey, Bdsm, Midori Female Dominance, Female Dominance, Fortefemme, San Francisco News
Vanessa Pinto

When I began to learn about BDSM, I was fascinated with the image of what I perceived to be a dominatrix. What kind of person derives pleasure from the pain of another, whether physical or mental?

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No More Vanilla: 8 BDSM Moves to Try Now

Debra Macleod | Posted 09.09.2012 | Women
Read More: Marriage, 50 Ways to Play, 50 Shades of Grey, Relationships, Divorce, Erotica, Sex, Spice Up Sex Life, Bdsm, Slideexpand, Sex Tips, Intimacy, Women News
Debra Macleod

It's the interplay of light domination, submission and high-sensory sex -- all elements of BDSM -- that "nice" couples can use to add zing to vanilla sex and rediscover their sexual bond

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What Does the "Fifty Shades" Trilogy Say About Gender Thinking?

Quora | Posted 09.20.2012 | Books
Read More: Gender Thinking, Fifty Shades of Grey, Gender Roles, Bdsm, Books, Books News
Quora

This question originally appeared on Quora. By Christopher Fraser is an English graduate and writer of weird fiction. His debut collection of short...

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Fifty Shades of Gray Meets Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?: Live Blogging Cheryl Dunye's New Lesbian Chick-Whip Flick

Tomas Mournian | Posted 07.14.2012 | Gay Voices
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Tomas Mournian

When I heard about Mommy is Coming, the collaboration between filmmaker Cheryl Dunye and writer-activist Sarah Schulman, I was intrigued. It promised a new spin: S&M lesbian porn by way of FIfty Shades of Gray and Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?

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LIVE DISCUSSION: Has 'Fifty Shades' Shown Us The Future Of Female Pleasure?

Lindsay Wilkes-Edrington | Posted 07.11.2012 | Women
Read More: E.L. James, Fifty Shades of Grey, Bdsm, Female Sexuality, Fifty Shades of Grey Movie, Women News

Fifty Shades of Grey has gotten plenty of people talking about female pleasure. It's also been a boon for business. Sales of the book are expected ...

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Swedish Woman's Secret Sex Chamber Mistaken For Crime Scene

Huffington Post | David Moye | Posted 06.12.2012 | Weird News
Read More: Video, Severe Society Films, Weird Sweden, Dungeon, Sex Chamber, Bondage, Kinky Sex, Bdsm, Bo Blaze, Aftonbladet, S&M, Dee Severe, Weird News News

A Swedish mom has a face that is 50 shades of red ever since police came across a secret sex chamber she set up at an abandoned military bunker near t...

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Are You Fifty Shades of Crazy?

Juliette Fretté | Posted 08.03.2012 | Home
Read More: Women, Abuse, Relationships, Erotica, Fifty Shades of Gray, Sex, Christian Grey, Bdsm, Sexuality, Home News
Juliette Fretté

Ah, how nice it is to have a product exploring women's pleasure, one that doesn't undermine our confidence or power in the way that many beauty products and home cleaning supplies do.

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