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Being Right

What's Motivating You: Being Right or Being Kind?

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 12.03.2014 | Healthy Living
Jinny Ditzler

Is your attention on being right? Do you have chapter and verse about what they have done wrong? Are your thoughts and feelings leading to the result either of you want? What is your real motivation?

Lights Go On -- New Year's 2014 Resolutions -- 'Toward and Away'

Thomas Bähler | Posted 03.08.2014 | Healthy Living
Thomas Bähler

It occurred to me -- what about accomplishing in regard to moving away from something, stop doing something, use my resources to put to rest habits and tendencies that are counterproductive to me and therefore others?

Why Art Sucks

Melanie Curtin | Posted 03.04.2014 | Women
Melanie Curtin

It blows to be misunderstood. It's shitty to not have control over how other people take your art, take your words, take your meaning. It's really annoying not being able to control other people's perception of you -- especially when your perception is that their perception is that you're weak.

Righty McRighteous-son and the Bane of Being Right

Christine Sachs | Posted 08.27.2012 | Healthy Living
Christine Sachs

If needing to be right is my operating principal, then fear of all the judgments, opinions, and negative facts about being wrong come along with it.

You Don't Have to Do it All

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 07.09.2012 | Healthy Living
Jinny Ditzler

After a moment of desperation, I laughed out loud. Hopeless! The list is getting longer, not shorter. Do I really have to do everything I think I have to do? And my inner wisdom whispered, "No."

Personal Transformation: And How to Stay That Way

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 06.30.2012 | Healthy Living
Jinny Ditzler

To maintain your personal transformation, remember that what you focus on is what you get. Mindfulness means keeping your mind on positive thoughts and actions and pulling it back when it wanders off course.

Personal Transformation: Anything Is Possible

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 06.05.2012 | Healthy Living
Jinny Ditzler

In all my many years of coaching people, I've never met anyone without a "monkey mind" -- the little voice that runs a commentary on what's wrong with us and why we can't get what we want and need.

Personal Transformation: Personal Responsibility

Jinny Ditzler | Posted 05.27.2012 | Healthy Living
Jinny Ditzler

Few would say that personal transformation is easy. Or as our friend Lew Epstein put it -- "It's simple, but not easy."

Is Being Right Getting In The Way Of Your Success?

Russell Bishop | Posted 08.13.2011 | Healthy Living
Russell Bishop

We seem to spend more time arguing with each other, trying to prove our position, than we do trying to understand what the other person may be saying and how it might work.

Getting Unstuck, Finding Some Fun

Dr. Cara Barker | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Dr. Cara Barker

"...I am on my own journey/battle with forgiveness...and I find it very difficult. I feel as if I have reached a standstill. ...perhaps there is a d...