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Breaking Out Of Good Vs. Evil Morality

Deepak Chopra | Posted 01.22.2012 | Healthy Living
Deepak Chopra

Only when you realize that you have set yourself up as both judge and victim does the scheme of fear and guilt break down. It dawns on you that you are divided against yourself, and then your goals change.

'If You Really Loved Me, You Wouldn't...'

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 01.13.2012 | Healthy Living
Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

One day I suddenly saw all the uncaring behavior in a completely different light. I saw clearly that it had nothing to do with me! It wasn't about me at all!

Is Karma Real? Explaining Why Bad Things Happen

Deepak Chopra | Posted 01.09.2012 | Healthy Living
Deepak Chopra

Because suffering is part of human life, everyone asks why it exists, and the answers we give to ourselves make a great deal of difference.

Beyond Blaming

Christopher Holshek | Posted 01.02.2012 | Politics
Christopher Holshek

In the more than three decades I've been involved in nation-building, civil-military coordination, and just trying to help make peace in broken places...

Are We All Suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress?

Deepak Chopra | Posted 01.01.2012 | Healthy Living
Deepak Chopra

You can't figure out how to fix bad tings until you know why they happened. This applies to society but also to our personal lives.

Are You Trying To Rebuild Your Life Out Of The Rubble?

Russell Bishop | Posted 12.03.2011 | Healthy Living
Russell Bishop

By surrendering to the seemingly daily collapse of our failed institutions and societal values, and falling into the failed cycle of blame and complain, you may be dying a death of your own choosing.

How To Strategically Place Blame (To Reduce Your Own Anxiety)

Ben Michaelis, Ph.D. | Posted 11.27.2011 | Healthy Living
Ben Michaelis, Ph.D.

If you can be flexible in how you assign responsibility for the rain that falls your life, you can ride the storm out with confidence and prepare for the next bright day.

My Son Blames Everyone For His Problems

Susan Stiffleman | Posted 11.07.2011 | Parents

Dear Susan, My nine-year-old son never apologies or confesses to things, even if it’s obvious that he’s the one who took something that wasn...

Can You Discipline Your Children Without Using Blame?

Carl Alasko | Posted 09.20.2011 | Parents
Carl Alasko

It requires a shift in thinking. Once you realize that criticizing, accusing, punishing or humiliating your child does not create a collaborative atmosphere, does not bring your child closer to you in a shared purpose, and instead focuses attention away from solving the problem, you will begin to enforce your rules in a far more constructive way.

Stop Playing The Blame Game!

Dr. Cara Barker | Posted 09.19.2011 | Healthy Living
Dr. Cara Barker

Regardless where we look, the blame game is in full swing. If we are honest we'll admit we've been there, ourselves, some of us more recently than others. I know that I am raising my hand on that score, too.

Stop Blaming Yourself for Your Life

Hale Dwoskin | Posted 08.20.2011 | Healthy Living
Hale Dwoskin

"You are responsible for your life." At one time or another, you've probably heard this. And although it's true on many levels, it doesn't tell the whole story.

Letting Go Of Blame

Mike Robbins | Posted 04.18.2012 | Home
Mike Robbins

Letting go of blame allows us to be free, to take back our power and to avoid the trap of thinking that someone or something else has the ability to dictate our experience of life. Whether our life is "wonderful" or "difficult" is always up to us.

State Rep. Larry Brown to the HIV-Positive: You Can All Go Rot!

Alex Blaze | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Alex Blaze

Well, with all the states facing budget crunches and looking for something to cut, someone in this homophobic society was bound to come right and say ...

The Problem With Asking Who's To Blame

Terry Newell | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Terry Newell

The question of responsibility can quickly lead to invective instead of insight. That has already begun in the typical attempt to fix blame. But blame is not the same as responsibility.

Friday Talking Points [151] -- Obama's Speech

Chris Weigant | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Chris Weigant

To honor the fallen this week, we're going to refrain from our usual heated political rhetoric here for a change. It's only fitting, really, after su...

Now and Forever the Deepest Cause

Gary Zukav | Posted 05.25.2011 | World
Gary Zukav

Blaming right wing politicians and commentators for the Arizona massacre, even those that are righteously brutal, cruel, and inciting to violence, def...

And the Winners Are ...

Liz O'Connell | Posted 05.25.2011 | Sports
Liz O'Connell

The racing community is in the final moments of debating the merits of the finalists for the Eclipse Horse of the Year Award. Who will be the MVP of horse racing in the United States?

Why Are Americans So Angry? Arizona and Beyond

Carol Smaldino | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Carol Smaldino

Why we are in effect ignoring the widespread nature of the acts and attitudes of violence throughout our human climate in general?

Blame is a Trap (Video)

Steven Crandell | Posted 05.25.2011 | Divorce
Steven Crandell

Some people think blame is a way to escape trouble.

Happy Trails, Zenyatta

Liz O'Connell | Posted 05.25.2011 | Sports
Liz O'Connell

It's just a month since Zenyatta ran her final race -- the Breeders' Cup Classic. We all know she lost by a nose. When Blame edged her out of the win, the race was over, the horses galloped out unharmed and the crowd was not ready to let Zenyatta go.

Blaming Teachers or Finding Solutions?

Meredith Ely | Posted 05.25.2011 | Education
Meredith Ely

The rise in educational thought leaders challenging the status quo is a pivotal step toward bringing low-income schools the teachers they need.

Live From the Toronto Film Festival: Last Day

Marshall Fine | Posted 05.25.2011 | Entertainment
Marshall Fine

My last full day at the Toronto International Film Festival was a day of hits and misses.

Racing Superstars Readying for $25.5 Million in Breeders' Cup Purses

Liz O'Connell | Posted 05.25.2011 | Sports
Liz O'Connell

A total of $25.5 million will be disbursed as winnings, earning the Breeders' Cup (BC) the distinction of being the world's richest prize money event.

BP To Accept Some Blame For Oil Spill In New Report

Posted 05.25.2011 | Green

BP is set to release a 200-page report Wednesday in which the corporation will accept some, but not all of the blame, for one of the worst oil spills ...

6 Tips for Letting Go of a Toxic Friendship---Gently

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Dr. Irene S. Levine

Question: How do you back away from an unhealthy friendship without hurting someone's feelings? Answer: Here are a few tips to help you handle a ...