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13 Signs Your Partner Is Cheating On You

Abby Rodman, LICSW | Posted 11.11.2014 | Divorce
Abby Rodman, LICSW

We know the typical telltale signs: weight loss, new music or food interests, the purchase of a new wardrobe. But if your affair radar is up -- because your partner's behavior just feels off or out of the ordinary -- here are 13 not-as-conspicuous signs you may be overlooking.

The #1 Question Cheaters Should Ask Themselves

Lindsey Ellison | Posted 11.02.2014 | Divorce
Lindsey Ellison

As long as you continue to rely on someone else to give you a sense of purpose and belonging, no relationship will ever work out. So ask yourself, 'Have I found my purpose in life?' Until you find your purpose, you will never be happy in any relationship.

The 5 Dumbest Things Cheaters Say (And How To Respond)

Tracy Schorn | Posted 10.19.2014 | Divorce
Tracy Schorn

Haven't you wanted the perfect rejoinder? Wouldn't you love to know what's going on inside their noggins to make them spout such nonsense? Well, wonder no more. Here's five stupid things cheaters say and how to respond.

Study Confirms Your Worst Fear About Cheaters

The Huffington Post | Taryn Hillin | Posted 08.25.2014 | Divorce

According to new research, the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" holds true. University of Denver psychology graduate student Kayla Knopp ...

9 People Who Might Cheat On You, According To Science

Posted 08.11.2014 | Divorce

By Michelle Toglia for YourTango.com Let's face it, no one wants to date a cheater. But oftentimes we don't see the signs that our boyfriend or gir...

The Sidepiece Agreement: 10 Rules for The Other Woman

Zondra Hughes | Posted 08.29.2014 | Chicago
Zondra Hughes

A close male friend (who used to cheat on his wife) has enlightened me that some of us otherwise intelligent chicks enter into the Sidepiece Agreement -- that is, knowingly becoming the mistress or other woman -- without fully understanding the terms of the deal.

5 Signs You're About To Cheat

Posted 06.10.2014 | Divorce

Written by Sasha Brown-Worsham on CafeMom’s blog, The Stir Most of us aren't born wanting to cheat on our spouses. We all walk down the aisle (m...

Sleeping With the Enemy: Saving Your Family After an Affair

Natalie Gregg | Posted 06.08.2014 | Divorce
Natalie Gregg

Please understand, I am not selling divorce. You are not abandoning your marriage: That was your spouse's choice. You are not to blame for the death of your marriage. But if you delay, you could spend the rest of your life blaming yourself for the disaster of your divorce.

8 Telltale Signs Your Spouse May Be Cheating

Corri D. Fetman | Posted 03.30.2014 | Divorce
Corri D. Fetman

It is amazing to me how many people ignore the telltale signs only to learn that the person they shared a bed, their body and innermost dreams and secrets with has instantaneously become a "frenemy."

Cheaters Reveal How They Avoid Getting Caught

Posted 01.24.2014 | Divorce

If you're a cheater who wants to remain married, simply wiping the lipstick off your collar isn't going to cut it any more. These days, cheaters put a...

What My Affair Taught Me About Love

Wendy Gaynor | Posted 01.23.2014 | Divorce
Wendy Gaynor

My parents stayed unhappily married for 38 years, until my father died, and as my mother so inelegantly and bluntly put it shortly after his death, 'I wish he died 20 years before!' I so didn't want to be her, to look back on my life with regret.

Can Cheating Make Us Feel Good?

Robert Weiss | Posted 01.23.2014 | Women
Robert Weiss

A recent study finds that behaving in unethical ways creates positive feelings in many people, especially if they know or believe that their behavior is not harming anyone.

WATCH: Why Cheaters Will Never Change

Posted 07.24.2013 | Divorce

Once a cheater, always a cheater? Yes, according to sociologist Eric Anderson. The author of "The Monogamy Gap: Men, Love and the Reality of Cheati...

Why Are Cheating Wives On The Rise?

Posted 07.09.2013 | Divorce

When it comes to cheating, men are still more likely to stray -- but women are catching up. According to recent data from the National Opinion Res...

LOOK: We Doubt This Guy Will Cheat Again

Posted 07.10.2013 | Divorce

Well, this is embarrassing. On Wednesday, Redditor Brunetteness shared a photo showing the humiliating punishment one boyfriend was forced to endu...

10 Signs Your Spouse May Be Cheating

Posted 07.09.2013 | Divorce

Written by Kiri Blakeley on CafeMom’s blog, The Stir. When it comes to your partner cheating, I don't believe there are any definitive clues. He ...

I Want to Believe

James Koole | Posted 06.08.2013 | TED Weekends
James Koole

2013-01-18-TEDplayvideo.jpgIf he says he held his breath underwater for 17 minutes and four seconds, and that he did it through intense training and a deep understanding of the physiology of his own body, then that should be good enough. I should take him at his word. I want to believe.

Actions to Turn the Tide of Cheating

Tim Elmore | Posted 08.04.2013 | Parents
Tim Elmore

Is cheating a lost cause? Is it so rampant, all we can hope for is to punish offenders? I sure hope not. Today, I will offer five big action steps I believe we can take to turn the tide.

The Sad Truth About Words With Friends

Ann Brenoff | Posted 07.23.2013 | Fifty
Ann Brenoff

How does it feel if you beat someone who doesn't know you had the help of a computer to find your words -- words you don't even know the meaning of? How does that possibly feel good? Do you high-five yourself in the mirror after? Just you and your nasty little secret?

Muppets and the Married Man

Cameron Frye | Posted 06.26.2013 | Style
Cameron Frye

I don't know why I pick these fools or why these fools pick me, but for some reason, I've evidently turned into the Spanish Fly for married men.

Rethinking Infidelity

Tracy Schorn | Posted 06.23.2013 | Divorce
Tracy Schorn

We need to stop excusing infidelity. Let's begin by putting the responsibility for cheating back where it belongs -- on cheaters.

3 Signs He's Going To Cheat On You

Posted 04.18.2013 | Divorce

By Joe Amoia for YourTango.com Let's face it, men cheat. Well, some of them anyway. And according to numerous studies, it's more than a handful: ap...

'I Received Death Threats For Cheating'

Posted 04.12.2013 | Divorce

Should we have compassion for cheaters? Yes, according to HuffPost blogger Wendy Plump, the author of "Vow: A Memoir of Marriage (And Other Affairs...

LOOK: We Wouldn't Want To Piss This Scorned Lover Off

Posted 04.05.2013 | Divorce

Looks like someone took Carrie Underwood's "Before He Cheats" a little too seriously. That's the impression we got after taking a look at the phot...

Once A Cheater Always A Cheater? From Rachel Sussman (WATCH)

Posted 08.14.2013 | MarloThomas

If your significant other has cheated on a partner in the past, does that mean he or she will cheat on you? Relationship therapist Rachel Sussman set ...