iPhone app iPad app Android phone app Android tablet app

Coming Out of the Closet

How I Learned to Be Gay: Almost Everything I Learned in Life I Learned While Working at a Gay Magazine

Benjamin Solomon | Posted 05.23.2013 | Gay Voices
Benjamin Solomon

The year following graduation was a bit of a lost one as I tried to finally come to terms with my new identity. But nothing really clicked until I got a job at Next Magazine. Suddenly, my world had direction.

How to Tell Your Partner You're Transgender

Toni Newman | Posted 05.21.2013 | Gay Voices
Toni Newman

Finding a mate who can love and accept you as you will unfortunately not come easily. Like any person, you will have to deal with rejection, heartbreak and disappointment, but don't be dismayed, because love is out there, and you can find it.

WATCH: After 20 Years Of Marriage, Husband And Wife Both Come Out Of Closet

The Huffington Post | Glennisha Morgan | Posted 05.16.2013 | Gay Voices

In a recent HuffPost Gay Voices blog post, doctor and author Danielle Kaufman wrote about the day when she, still living as a man, learned her wife is...

The British Obsession With Gay Footballers

Wayne Dhesi | Posted 05.14.2013 | Gay Voices
Wayne Dhesi

It's often referred to as one of the last gay taboos in Britain: an out gay professional footballer. But why does a large proportion of the gay (and straight) media, as well as a large section of society in general, seem to be obsessed with the prospect of an out pro footballer?

WATCH: Adorable Animated Short Tells Cartoonist's Coming Out Story

The Huffington Post | Glennisha Morgan | Posted 05.10.2013 | Gay Voices

Have you ever tried coming out to a friend while you're hundreds of feet in the air and riding a roller coaster? Cartoonist Hamish Steele did and ...

From the Archives: How Coming Out in Professional Sports Has Changed Over the Last 30 Years

Jamie Scot | Posted 05.10.2013 | Gay Voices
Jamie Scot

ONE National Gay & Lesbian Archives has been busy this week clearing a space for Jason Collins in our LGBT Archival Sports collection alongside the likes of Billy Jean King, Martina Navratilova, and John Amechi, among others.

Why Coming Out Benefits Straight People As Much As Gay People

Meryl Ain, Ed.D. | Posted 05.09.2013 | Gay Voices
Meryl Ain, Ed.D.

Coming out isn't just healthy, necessary and liberating for gay people; everyone else benefits as well. Lies are destructive, not only to the person telling them but to everyone else who becomes collateral damage.

My First Time

Tom Judson | Posted 05.08.2013 | Gay Voices
Tom Judson

It happened during a student/teacher conference when I was barely 18. Now, before you get your hopes up, I'm not about to divulge that the scene in Through the Woods where I sternly discipline a quartet of truant schoolboys is based on personal experience. This is about a different first time.

A Brief Response To Keli Goff On Outing Closeted People

Ariel Chesler | Posted 05.06.2013 | Gay Voices
Ariel Chesler

Goff is absolutely right that no one should ever be "outed" against his or her will. I also agree that the right to privacy should be extended equally to both straight and gay Americans. However, a missing piece of the puzzle here is straight privilege.

Coming Out in the South

Damon M. Banks | Posted 05.05.2013 | Gay Voices
Damon M. Banks

Over the years, I have come to know a lot of guys who grew up in "the south" -- clearly, a completely different world for gay guys trying to figure out their sexuality.

The Day My Wife Came Out To Me... And Then I Came Out To Her

Danielle Kaufman, M.D. | Posted 05.04.2013 | Gay Voices
Danielle Kaufman, M.D.

Life sometimes presents the strangest coincidences. What are the odds of a husband and wife both realizing they're gay at the same time without even talking to each other about it?

How Do You Come Out To Your Parents As Bisexual?

A.J. Walkley | Posted 05.02.2013 | Gay Voices
A.J. Walkley

This month's question came from a reader who has been struggling to come out to her parents as bisexual, because they view bisexuals as "cheating gross people who should only stick to either same sex or opposite sex partners." She is looking for ways to educate them.

Coming Out Across Cultural Barriers: A Mixed-Race Son's Journey With His Korean Immigrant Mother

Mark Ro Beyersdorf | Posted 05.02.2013 | Gay Voices
Mark Ro Beyersdorf

To my Korean mother, homosexuality was an unfamiliar, white American condition. With my father I could offer books to help him digest my sputtering attempts at explanation, but my mother and I struggled through language barriers, searching for answers to satisfy her.

Coming Out Over Gchat

Emma Tattenbaum-Fine | Posted 04.30.2013 | Gay Voices
Emma Tattenbaum-Fine

My best friend/illustrator/editor Leah grew up down the block from my moms and me. Recently Leah came out. I wanted to share that process on my blog, so we had a Gchat conversation.

WATCH: What To Do If Your Friend Comes Out To You

Posted 04.25.2013 | Gay Voices

Aiming to help teens and pre-teens tackle difficult issues, a new animated YouTube series explores what to do if your friend comes out as gay to you. ...

My Second Coming Out

Tom Bartolomei | Posted 04.16.2013 | Gay Voices
Tom Bartolomei

When Vivian was first created, I think I was afraid of how my parents would react to the news that their son-in-law is a drag queen. For the seven years before Vivian, my relationship with my parents had been amazing, and I was afraid to lose that. Then the unthinkable happened.

NKOTB's Jonathan Knight On Being Outed By Tiffany

Posted 04.15.2013 | Gay Voices

NKOTB's Jonathan Knight opens up about being gay in a new interview with Gay Times. In the interview, which has been excerpted by Queerty and Greg...

A Father's Unexpected Response To His Gay Son's Coming Out

Levi A. Miles | Posted 04.15.2013 | Gay Voices
Levi A. Miles

When my dad left to pick up some dinner, my mom, whom I've been out to for almost two years, said, "Your father saw your Facebook status when I left my Facebook up. The cat's out of the bag." You see, I hadn't told him.

Portia De Rossi Reveals Intimate Details Of Life With Ellen To Out Magazine

Posted 04.11.2013 | Gay Voices

"Arrested Development" star Portia de Rossi positively sizzles on the cover of the new Out magazine. Inside the May issue, the 40-year-old actress...

Is it Easier to Come Out to Mom or Dad?

Joe Kort, Ph.D. | Posted 04.10.2013 | Gay Voices
Joe Kort, Ph.D.

I feel emotional reading this letter from a father to his son and hearing how Magic Johnson led the conversation in a very warm and supportive way to his son. These young gay men are lucky to have these fathers.

Closets Are for Clothes, Not Brands

Crystal Bennett | Posted 04.08.2013 | Gay Voices
Crystal Bennett

Given my personal and professional passion for branding (as owner of a brand design agency), paired with lots of contemplation on gay rights, I have been curious about how the two intersect.

WATCH: Legendary NBA Coach Phil Jackson Says He's Never Encountered A Gay Basketball Player

The Huffington Post | Curtis M. Wong | Posted 04.03.2013 | Gay Voices

Retired NBA coach Phil Jackson sounded off on the possibility of professional gay male athletes in a new interview with HuffPost Live. Jackson, wh...

A Super Gay Easter Pep Talk

Sasha Lotrian | Posted 03.27.2013 | Gay Voices
Sasha Lotrian

The spring time holidays are approaching which means road trips back home to small towns across America. It also means having to deal with families that call your lifestyle "alternative" and your wife of five years, your "roommate."

Coming Out Is Speaking Out

Roy Speckhardt | Posted 05.21.2013 | Politics
Roy Speckhardt

Senator Portman's son Will's decision to come out to his father was a brave one, especially considering his father's public opposition to gay marriage. His bravery is exactly what we all must emulate if we are to defeat those who would see our society divided upon sexual, religious, or other lines.

The Portmans: Profiles In Courage

Tom Carpenter | Posted 05.18.2013 | Gay Voices
Tom Carpenter

Sen. Portman could have remained silent about his son's coming out. That inaction would have been politically expedient for a conservative member of the Republican Party. Instead, he took to the air and wrote an op-ed explaining why he had changed his position on marriage equality.