How to be Your Own Mediator: It's Me Not You
Identify your contribution to the conflict. By accepting your part and then taking responsibility, you give yourself the best chance possible for getting out of conflict.
Identify your contribution to the conflict. By accepting your part and then taking responsibility, you give yourself the best chance possible for getting out of conflict.
Grande Lum | Posted 08.01.2009 | Living
If you truly want to bridge the gap between you and the person across from you, sitting alongside is still the place to start.
Rachael Freed | Posted 07.31.2009 | Living
Our daughters and granddaughters, texting and twittering, can't imagine a world before computers, or television, a world when American women didn't have the freedom to vote.
Grande Lum | Posted 07.30.2009 | Living
See yourself doing well. Separate that from what the other person has done or will do. Picture success as it relates to you, your body language, volume, tone and words.
Grande Lum | Posted 07.20.2009 | Living
If the the person your butting heads with is feeling safe, they are less likely to lose it.
Lita Smith-Mines | Posted 07.16.2009 | Media
Here's my appeal to certain unemployed friends: step away from your cell phones and computers!
Waylon Lewis | Posted 07.05.2009 | Media
Just three active months on Twitter later, I've gained 4,900 followers -- and, more importantly, Twitter is among my web site's top ten traffic sources.
Margaret Ruth | Posted 07.02.2009 | Living
The rule is that it takes Two Happy Healthy Whole People to make One Happy Healthy Whole relationship -- and there are No Exceptions to this rule.
Emily Bracken | Posted 06.28.2009 | Comedy
Now, I don't mean to belittle those with Aspies-as it's known in the lay-community, but to me, these "symptoms" sound a lot like the characteristics of your average, meat-eating American male.
Russell Bishop | Posted 06.25.2009 | Living
What makes Facebook such a lightning rod for reaction? My article last week on Facebook Friends unearthed quite an array of responses, from those agr...
Simon Sinek | Posted 06.22.2009 | Business
So what can companies learn from the homeless? Stop talking about yourselves and start talking about why anyone should care.
Margaret Ruth | Posted 06.19.2009 | Living
Those of us who want authentic, healthy relationships have no choice but to know ourselves, so that others may know us as well.
Russell Bishop | Posted 06.18.2009 | Living
Do you Facebook? Why do you Facebook? How many friends do you have? How many Facebook friends do you have? Is there a difference? Should there be...
Grande Lum | Posted 06.14.2009 | Living
When you have discomfort, treat it as a learning opportunity. The less you go into denial and accept discomfort as expected, the easier it will be to relax.
Christine Hassler | Posted 06.05.2009 | Living
Dear Christine, I read your posts about spring cleaning relationships and your advice hit a nerve with me. I have a friendship I want to end - I have...
Christine Hassler | Posted 05.29.2009 | Living
Last week I wrote a post on "How To Spring Clean Your Relationships" and the insightful comments inspired me to elaborate a bit more about the process...
Grande Lum | Posted 05.25.2009 | Living
Remember that another person has a positive intention.
Huffington Post Contributor | Jennifer Openshaw | Posted 05.24.2009 | World
By Jennifer Openshaw Most of us use our cell phones for just about everything these days -- texting a buddy, monitoring social networking sites, or c...
Grande Lum | Posted 05.23.2009 | Living
When you have conflict with someone else, look for the conflict inside yourself.
Keith Leon and Maura Leon | Posted 05.18.2009 | Living
Dear Keith and Maura, I need your advice... I met the woman that I love four years ago and we started a long distance relationship. We each had anot...
Maddisen K. Krown | Posted 05.15.2009 | Living
Before you begin practicing the specific steps of successful communication, there are ground rules you must honor in order to make the steps work.
Daniel Lubetzky | Posted 04.30.2009 | Business
Your iPhone or Blackberry could have an application that every 5 minutes or every hour or every day could store your GPS location at that particular time.
Grande Lum | Posted 04.10.2009 | Living
In conflict, heroism may be hidden. Recognize the noble goal that is holed up behind demands and defensiveness to find a constructive way out. Act in ways that live up to heroic ideals.
Karen Salmansohn | Posted 02.24.2009 | Living
Having trouble with a colleague, paramour, parent, sibling, friend - imaginary friend? Here are eight quick constructive criticism tips which work acr...
Greg Lukianoff | Posted 03.08.2009 | Media
Many MSU decision-makers don't have a clear idea of the distinction between the use of university or departmental listservs and the general use of university e-mail accounts.
Grande Lum | Posted 08.01.2009 | Living