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Are You Stuck in This Trap?

Jen Picicci | Posted 09.23.2014 | Women
Jen Picicci

If reading women's magazines always makes you feel like you have to go on a diet, take a break from them. If a particular person's Facebook feed is making you feel out of shape and depressed, unfriend them or stop reading their stuff.

5 Ways to Overcome Overachievement Disorder

Amanda Smear Baudier | Posted 09.23.2014 | Healthy Living
Amanda Smear Baudier

We all have a unique purpose to unfold in this lifetime and the sooner we stop trying to one up one another, the sooner we'll find the path to that which will truly bring us joy.

Is Envy Controlling Your Life?

Kristen Houghton | Posted 08.05.2014 | Healthy Living
Kristen Houghton

Being satisfied with what you have now does not make you complacent and "stuck" with what you have in your current life. Let that little spark of envy work for you not against you. Let it energize, not exhaust you. Look around and make needed or wanted changes to your life.

Feel Like You'll Never Be As Good As That Person?

Natalie MacNeil | Posted 08.24.2014 | Women
Natalie MacNeil

Ever fixate on someone else's success to the point that you think they shine the "brightest," just like the North Star? (But guess what? The North Star isn't the brightest star in the sky, not even close!) Their "star" doesn't shine any brighter than yours!

Beware: To Compare May Lead to Despair

Andrea Wachter | Posted 07.08.2014 | Healthy Living
Andrea Wachter

In my psychotherapy practice, I commonly hear clients comparing themselves to others and usually not coming out too favorably. I often hear statements...

How To Get Over Facebook Envy

Lisa Earle McLeod | Posted 03.18.2014 | Healthy Living
Lisa Earle McLeod

Humans are called the "comparing creatures." Comparing ourselves to others is how we make sense of life. Comparisons can inspire us to grow and change. Comparisons can also provide helpful examples of what we don't want to be. But comparisons without context don't tell the full story.

Lindsay Henry: The Moment I Knew I Had to Put My Phone Down

Lindsay Henry | Posted 03.09.2014 | Women
Lindsay Henry

Snap, snap, snap. Head goes back down towards the phone. I see the girls on their phones, my own eyes locked on the edit button of my screen. Suddenly, it hits me. I am missing this. And so are these girls. We are missing this.

The Important Connection That Will Help You Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

Elizabeth McKenzie | Posted 03.08.2014 | Healthy Living
Elizabeth McKenzie

The good news is, it's actually not that hard: once you connect to your center, there is literally no room for comparison. It doesn't exist. All there is is you and your truth. In fact, you are your truth. And that's a pretty amazing way to live.

The Thing I Do Regularly That You're 'Not Supposed to Do'

Stephenie Zamora | Posted 11.19.2013 | Healthy Living
Stephenie Zamora

No matter how small or little your progress is, you absolutely must acknowledge all of it. Celebrating the little wins, accomplishments, shifts and gains is so important to building a life you love.

The Game I Want to Quit

Christine Organ | Posted 08.26.2013 | Parents
Christine Organ

I want to enjoy swimming with my kids and proudly display photos of our family at the beach without worrying about whether I look three-months pregnant or if other people will notice my cellulite-covered thighs.

Who Said You Should Never Compare Children?

Howard J. Bennett, M.D. | Posted 08.04.2013 | Parents
Howard J. Bennett, M.D.

Not only do we compare our children to each other, but we also compare them to other people's children. Why? Because it's impossible not to.

The Discovery of Meaning and the Search for Purpose

Mousa Alshanteer | Posted 05.19.2013 | College
Mousa Alshanteer

We all have our ups and downs, make mistakes, and have regrets, but rather than succumbing to unnecessary comparisons and self-absorption, we ought to realize that our unique differences serve to further the discovery of our purpose, whether we know it or not.

The Danger In Comparing Yourself To Others

Grown And Flown | Posted 05.18.2013 | Fifty
Grown And Flown

I am over 50 and I should know better. I should know that life isn't always what it seems, that everyone is just doing their best and that perfect is a dangerous fantasy. But somehow, deep, deep into adulthood, I still hold on to childish dreams.

Compare and Despair

Liana Gergely | Posted 03.05.2013 | Healthy Living
Liana Gergely

How do you take off the "lack glasses" that are keeping you from the abundance of your own life? Keep the focus on you and practice gratitude. It's not about going into a comparison and being grateful because what you have is better than what the other person has.

One Key To Happiness: Story-Busting

Andrea Wachter | Posted 02.16.2013 | Healthy Living
Andrea Wachter

When we acknowledge that everyone experiences pain, that every person struggles with difficult issues, and that most everyone is making up stories too, we can let go of comparing and contrasting and simply see us as all in this together.

6 Things That Are Not Worth Your Jealousy

Thought Catalog | Posted 10.05.2012 | Women

While there are definitely instances in which a healthy attitude of competition can be beneficial — a coworker whom you emulate and want to become a...

Janell Ross

Julián Castro Delivers DNC Keynote, Is Compared To Young GOP Rising Star

HuffingtonPost.com | Janell Ross | Posted 09.05.2012 | Latino Voices

When Julián Castro took the stage at the Democratic National Convention Tuesday night, there were probably few in the arena or watching on TV who did...

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Judith Orloff MD | Posted 06.25.2012 | Healthy Living
Judith Orloff MD

Your life is explicitly designed for your own growth. Every person you meet, every situation you encounter, challenges you to become a stronger, more loving, and confident person. Try to appreciate the grace of both the hurdles and the joys you've been given.

Why Comparing Yourself to Other People Is a Good Thing

Lisa Earle McLeod | Posted 05.13.2012 | Healthy Living
Lisa Earle McLeod

People are always telling you not to compare yourself to others, but it's part of human nature. Humans are called "the comparing creatures." It's not always a bad thing.

COMPETITIVE ART: Fight! Fight! Fight! Why Artists Must Be Rivals

guardian.co.uk | Posted 05.25.2011 | Arts

Why do critics insist on comparing one artist with another? More to the point -- why do I do it so obsessively? I have just published a review of two ...

A Comparitive Study of All Three Punisher Films...

Scott Mendelson | Posted 05.25.2011 | Entertainment
Scott Mendelson

In this current age of rebooting one comic franchise or horror franchise after another, it is still something of a milestone that we have a single property that has been rebooted twice in just four years by the same studio.

Sam Stein

Reagan Advisers See A Bit Of Their Former Boss In Obama

HuffingtonPost.com | Sam Stein | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics

Barack Obama found himself under fire on Thursday for having compared his candidacy to Ronald Reagan's 1980 presidential run. "I don't want to presen...