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Are Compassion and Community Evil?

Mike Lux | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Mike Lux

To my conservative friends: The fact that I care about keeping you from starving, freezing to death, and dying due to lack of good medical care does not mean that I eventually want to send you to a death camp.

Religion: Nothing More Than Politics in Drag

Rabbi Irwin Kula | Posted 05.25.2011 | Religion
Rabbi Irwin Kula

Religion has become the art of fancy proof texting, liberal or conservative politics in drag, adding little or no value to the public discourse, hardening people's preexisting political beliefs and fueling their sense of outrage against anyone with whom they disagree.

Shocker: Empathy Dropped 40% in College Students Since 2000

Maia Szalavitz | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Maia Szalavitz

What can be done about what President Obama as a candidate presciently labeled the "empathy deficit"? The key thing is to recognize the value of relationships and the fact that we are not independent but interdependent.

Taking a Stand to Keep Sitting Legal

Randall Amster | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Randall Amster

San Francisco is poised to become the latest in a string of cities to adopt a law making it a crime to sit on the sidewalk. While it is the case that ...

Protest Against Muslim Imam Fails

Carol Howard Merritt | Posted 05.25.2011 | Religion
Carol Howard Merritt

False rumors about Imam Abdul-Malik, a leader of D.C.'s interfaith movement, serve as reminders that religious intolerance often beats in the heart of conflicts.

The Greening of the Dalai Lama

Susan Sawyers | Posted 05.25.2011 | Green
Susan Sawyers

Would the Dalai Lama shed his saffron and cranberry robes for green? His Holiness the Dalai Lama said Thursday that America should start a Green Par...

Ahimsa Eating Re-Considered

Pavel Somov, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Pavel Somov, Ph.D.

Zero-sum" is when one's needs cancel out another's needs. I learned the meaning of this violent doctrine as a Russian kid playing "nozhichki." Nozhi...

Pray Immigration Reform Into Passage

Jim Wallis | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Jim Wallis

If our political leaders won't make room for the "strangers" among us, we, the people of faith, will. It's time to stop playing politics with people's lives.

Moving From a 'Me' to an 'Other-Centered' Universe

Srikumar S. Rao | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Srikumar S. Rao

If you live the vast majority of your time in a "me-centered" universe, then you are going to get more than your share of depression, angst, sorrow and all of the things that make life terrible.

How to Feel More Connected, Centered and Purposeful

Terry Tillman | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Terry Tillman

This simple Samburu greeting is one of the latter. It is a simple method for coming present and connecting at a heartfelt level. We can do it anytime, anywhere with anyone.

The ABCs of Mindful Learning: Attention, Balance and Compassion (VIDEO)

Susan Kaiser Greenland | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Susan Kaiser Greenland

It's important our kids learn a new set of ABCs too -- one that draws upon the very old values of Attention, Balance and Compassion.

A is for Amy & Adonis: Double Post -- Chapters U and V

Steven Crandell | Posted 05.25.2011 | Books
Steven Crandell

Ferguson had a hard poo. He grunted on the toilet like a baby mastodon. Unnh! Unnh! The poo wouldn't come out, and so his grunts grew more impassioned. And desperate.

The Etiquette of Funerals

Lisa Mirza Grotts | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Lisa Mirza Grotts

Funerals provide closure, a necessary part of the mourning process. But the subject of death is difficult for many, and we are often at a loss for what to say. Here are tips to help you along the way.

Is President Obama Addicted To Nicotine?

BJ Gallagher | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
BJ Gallagher

Under ordinary circumstances, giving up an addiction, any addiction, is hard enough. But Obama isn't living under ordinary circumstances. Shouldn't we allow him his occasional cigs?

"The Compassionate Instinct": Uncovering the New Science of Human Goodness

Jason Marsh | Posted 05.25.2011 | Books
Jason Marsh

Where once science painted humans as self-seeking and warlike, today scientists of many disciplines are uncovering the deep roots of human goodness.

I Can't Think Of One Religious Reason Against Health Care Reform -- Can You?

Paul Brandeis Raushenbush | Posted 05.25.2011 | Religion
Paul Brandeis Raushenbush

Health care reform is fundamentally about keeping health care costs affordable for those who already have some kind of insurance, and making it available for the millions who do not have it.

Concentric Circles of Service

Jeffrey Abelson | Posted 05.25.2011 | Impact
Jeffrey Abelson

There's a missing link in our quest for a good and equitable society. In addition to volunteering, we must educate ourselves and impact our government to achieve lasting change on prominent issues.

Why Do We Lie To Make Our Friends Feel Good?

Ed and Deb Shapiro | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Ed and Deb Shapiro

The balance of these two qualities--compassion and discernment--is essential in order to see where pity is masquerading as kindness.

How To Help Others Without Hurting Ourselves

Merete Mueller | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Merete Mueller

I would so much rather know that I am getting all of a person --especially a person that I love so dearly -- than have it be easy and know that I was only seeing the surface of them.

The Seven Costs of Perfectionism

Pavel Somov, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Pavel Somov, Ph.D.

Perfectionists like to stick to the protocol, play by the book, and not take chances in order to avoid mistakes and imperfections. A closed mind is a poor prerequisite to creativity.

"Do It to Julia!" Betrayal-Inoculation Pre-Valentine's Day Special

Pavel Somov, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Pavel Somov, Ph.D.

When we talk about willpower or integrity, we tend to mean a certain fixed amount of some kind of moral stamina. It's not like that. Breaking points can be attenuated by a variety of factors.

Why Are You Boring?

Lisa Haisha | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Lisa Haisha

Whether you believe you are boring or not, now is the time to look at your life and make some changes for the better. It's time to get excited about life again.

Diary Of An Insomniac: How I Survived The Wee Hours

Amy Hertz | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Amy Hertz

I started to think about all the other insomniacs like me who were sitting up feeling lonely, depressed, stressed out and wondering how they would function the next day.

Gradual Versus Sudden Enlightenment

David Nichtern | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
David Nichtern

In training ourselves through meditation, it is very practical to start with mindfulness practice to pull the mind in from a habitual state of distraction into a focused and clear state.

The State of the Union: Unfinished Business

Jim Wallis | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Jim Wallis

Rather than the inspiring rhetoric of a campaign speech, Obama's State of the Union address was a more sober reflection on unfinished business.