Tear Down the Walls: How to Move to Their Side
If you truly want to bridge the gap between you and the person across from you, sitting alongside is still the place to start.
If you truly want to bridge the gap between you and the person across from you, sitting alongside is still the place to start.
Grande Lum | Posted 07.30.2009 | Living
See yourself doing well. Separate that from what the other person has done or will do. Picture success as it relates to you, your body language, volume, tone and words.
William Easterly | Posted 07.20.2009 | World
More in sorrow than in anger, I see that this utopian social engineering craze could encourage people with guns to use them.
Keith Ferrazzi | Posted 07.17.2009 | Living
Conflict forces groups to pause and reflect on the current situation, to bring everyone up to speed, and to try to improve upon the status quo.
treehugger.com | Posted 07.10.2009 | Green
The Democratic Republic of the Congo, scene of the deadliest conflict since World War II, remains mired in violence in significant part because of the...
Grande Lum | Posted 06.14.2009 | Living
When you have discomfort, treat it as a learning opportunity. The less you go into denial and accept discomfort as expected, the easier it will be to relax.
World Vision | Posted 06.11.2009 | World
There are just over 4,000 people currently living in Chota Lahore, the camp set up in Swabi. The majority of the refugees taking shelter at the camp are women and children.
Danny Groner | Posted 06.10.2009 | World
While trying to downplay differences in the world, Dave Cullen is doing his part to make a world of difference. The founder of Full Court Peace (FCP),...
Grande Lum | Posted 05.25.2009 | Living
Remember that another person has a positive intention.
Jim Selman | Posted 05.23.2009 | Living
I have become like so many of us -- a spectator watching war with about the same degree of engagement as I might watch a football game.
Grande Lum | Posted 05.23.2009 | Living
When you have conflict with someone else, look for the conflict inside yourself.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 04.29.2009 | Living
If your friend is unwilling or unable to forgive you, don't lash out in anger. Step back and learn from the experience.
Grande Lum | Posted 04.10.2009 | Living
In conflict, heroism may be hidden. Recognize the noble goal that is holed up behind demands and defensiveness to find a constructive way out. Act in ways that live up to heroic ideals.
Michael J. Panzner | Posted 03.30.2009 | Politics
After almost four decades of relative calm and complacency, there are signs that the social mood is beginning to sour.
Sandy Tolan | Posted 02.24.2009 | World
What is the ethical responsibility of the journalist in telling the story of the Other? And what larger forces come to bear in shaping that story in the press?
Jillian York | Posted 02.23.2009 | World
What is Moroccan identity? Is it Arab identity? The official language of Morocco certainly is Arabic, but it is estimated that 23 of Morocco's 30 million people speak one of three Amazigh dialects.
Jim Wallis | Posted 02.09.2009 | Politics
What we continue to lack is the kind of real political solution to the Israeli/Palestinian conflict that could finally make a "ceasefire" endure.
Virginia M. Moncrieff | Posted 02.06.2009 | World
Perry uses his experiences as a foreign correspondent in Asia and Africa to weigh up the new market theories that tell us that globalization is inevitable, universally beneficial.
Cenk Uygur | Posted 01.30.2009 | Politics
The Bush administration demanded -- against the advice of nearly every expert in the field and the Israeli government -- that the Palestinians hold elections. They did. Hamas won.
Patricia DeGennaro | Posted 01.30.2009 | World
Israelis and Palestinians have been trying to prove to each other that they can survive never ending violence, an eternal occupation, and a perpetual cycle of denial that the two cannot exist together.
Shuja Nawaz | Posted 01.26.2009 | World
If India and Pakistan go to war, the world will lose. Big time. By putting conventional military pressure on Pakistan, is India calling what it perceives to be Pakistan's bluff under the belief that the U.S. will force nuclear restraint on Pakistan?
Andrea Friedman | Posted 01.03.2009 | World
Rwanda is primarily known as the site of a horrific genocide. It is now the first country to have a majority of women in the legislature at 56%, up from a high of 18% before the conflict.
Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 12.14.2008 | Living
Whether in the White House, your house or our house, the same three actions determine the quality of relationships. Relationships between countries an...
Grande Lum | Posted 12.11.2008 | Living
If you are already scratching your head about the other person before you've even engaged with them, then you are missing something.
Grande Lum | Posted 11.14.2008 | Living
Each reaction to a difficult person is a learning opportunity. If rage overwhelms you, then you can learn to control rage. If fear paralyzes you, then you can learn how to gain safety from that fear.
Grande Lum | Posted 08.01.2009 | Living