Dating

Navigating The Internet Dating Wilds With JDate

New York Times | Michael Winerip | Posted 08.06.2009 | Style


IN July 2006, Ron James's marriage of 13 years ended, and that same month, he joined JDate, an online matchmaking site for Jewish singles. "I'd fallen...

First Date: Who Pays?

Victoria Namkung | Posted 08.06.2009 | Style


Victoria Namkung

As if there wasn't enough anxiety around the topic of love. Then you throw in money and etiquette and a first date can become about as exciting as a trip to the dentist office.

Ten Pieces of Wisdom For Young Women

DivineCaroline | Posted 08.03.2009 | Living


I've learned some valuable things about life, love, and being female over the past half-century. Here is the advice I try to pass on to younger women ...

Everyone Has A "Type" What's Yours?

YourTango | Posted 08.02.2009 | Living


What's your type? Talk, dark and handsome? Short, bald and chubby? Muscular, unavailable and angry? How about Explorer, Builder, Negotiator or Directo...

Six Warning Signs You're About To Get Dumped

Lisa Daily | Posted 08.02.2009 | Living


Lisa Daily

Want to know when you're most likely to get the axe? Most experts agree it's somewhere in the neighborhood of the first 3-5 months if you're dating, or around the eight-year mark for married couples.

Break Your Bad Dating Pattern

Margaret Ruth | Posted 07.31.2009 | Living


Margaret Ruth

The healthy happy whole folks would not sooner date a very troubled person that a troubled person would date a healthy happy one. They are not attracted to each other.

Why Do Girls Like Geeky Guys?

DivineCaroline | Ashley Nelson | Posted 07.27.2009 | Living


When my boyfriend announced that he was getting Lasik surgery a few months ago, I was unnerved. Glasses are my thing--one of those obscure attributes ...

Is Your Crush Into You -- Or Is He Or She Just Being Friendly?

The Stimulist | Posted 07.26.2009 | Living


Boy meets Girl where boys meet girls: online, in a bar, at the gym, through a friend. He finds her cute, but it's not love at first sight. No. It's lo...

Don't Text Spencer: Using Eating Disorder Recovery Skills in Everyday Life

Jenni Schaefer | Posted 07.20.2009 | Living


Jenni Schaefer

My challenge today is to recognize insane ways of thinking and then to move in the direction of positive change.

Are You Playing Dating Roulette?

Sara Davidson | Posted 07.18.2009 | Living


Sara Davidson

"What do you want to do?" I asked Billy. He smiled and said, "Date all three of you. You're all busy, and I have enough time for all of you."

20-Somethings, Like College Students, Hook Up Rather Than Date

npr.org | Brenda Wilson | Posted 07.17.2009 | Living


The hookup -- that meeting and mating ritual that started among high school and college students -- is becoming a trend among young people who have en...

He's Just Not That Into You...

Karen Luniw | Posted 07.11.2009 | Style


Karen Luniw

We all will move heaven and earth to be with the person we really want to be with and if someone is not doing that for you, don't make up excuses for them.

Why Age 28 Is A Turning Point For Many Single Women

Pauline Millard | Posted 07.10.2009 | Living


Pauline Millard

There is something about being a 28-year-old urban woman that makes them flip the switch from party girl to marriage material that often has nothing to do with a ticking biological clock.

What Single Women Can Learn From Michelle Obama

The Root | Jenee Desmond-Harris | Posted 07.09.2009 | Style


America has fallen for the Obamas. The history, the high glamour, the PDAs on the White House lawn. It's a universal picture of love. But for many suc...

Turn a Spring Fling into Summer Love

Jodi Lipper and Cerina Vincent | Posted 07.07.2009 | Style


Jodi Lipper and Cerina Vincent

If you're single, why not take this opportunity to find yourself a magical, memorable spring fling, one that will invigorate you and might end up being the birth of a significant relationship?

Unemployed Men Struggle In Dating Game

AP | MEGAN K. SCOTT | Posted 07.05.2009 | Business


NEW YORK — Sean Hamilton considered stopping his search for that special someone when he lost his job in January. With 90 percent less income and...

How to Toss Toxic Mates in 3 Simple Steps

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 07.05.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

If he's putting you down instead of lifting you up, it's time for him to go. Like, now.

The Obamas' Date Night Sets A Healthy Example

Momlogic | Dr. Michelle Golland | Posted 07.04.2009 | Living


The firestorm around how they got to NYC and the issue of spending taxpayer money is not one I care to address. However, I do believe seeing the First...

It Takes Two Healthy Joyful Whole People to Make One Healthy Joyful Whole Relationship

Margaret Ruth | Posted 07.02.2009 | Living


Margaret Ruth

The rule is that it takes Two Happy Healthy Whole People to make One Happy Healthy Whole relationship -- and there are No Exceptions to this rule.

Reader's Question: There is Chemistry, and She is Ready, But He Won't Keep His Dates

Margaret Ruth | Posted 07.02.2009 | Living


Margaret Ruth

I really feel an intense heart connection with this man and I can't seem to let it go. I have been in tears and my soul is aching.

Recession-Friendly Dating: Take A Hike

YourTango | Tom Miller | Posted 06.29.2009 | Living


Every week or so, this space throws out a fun relationship suggestion that's easy on the wallet. This time around, it's exercise. First of all, exerc...

5 Recession-Savvy Dating Tips

Recessionwire | Laura Rich | Posted 06.28.2009 | Living


First dates at Le Cirque and second dates in St. Barth's are out (for me, and maybe you, they were never in, but you get the point). Everyone's feelin...

Like A Virgin, Again

Vicki Iovine | Posted 06.22.2009 | Living


Vicki Iovine

One of the few bright promises sustaining me while trudging through a divorce is Sex With a Stranger. I haven't had it yet, nor do I see any immediate...

Red the Book: He Called His Penis John Wayne. He Lied.

Amy Goldwasser | Posted 06.20.2009 | Entertainment


Amy Goldwasser

So I loved a storyteller. Don't we all? Is there anything more seductive, really?

4 Very Good Reasons to Have Acute Self Awareness

Margaret Ruth | Posted 06.19.2009 | Living


Margaret Ruth

Those of us who want authentic, healthy relationships have no choice but to know ourselves, so that others may know us as well.