Fourteen years ago, I was preparing to marry you. I was so excited but, even more, I was so sure. Sure that we were so good together. Sure that we would continue to weather any storm. Sure that we would be together forever.
When people decide to divorce, it is quite common that one or both spouses experience and express an intense desire to have nothing to do with one another... And yet, ironically, one of the most common themes that surfaces over time is a genuine difficulty moving on.