If 15 percent of the kids in your school have bullied others, that's a bad thing. But rather than emphasize the bad, turn the numbers around to report that 85 percent of kids don't bully. That's a number worth emulating and increasing.
I know what you're thinking. This party is a set-up. You're going to be on the hot seat. Don't worry one little bit about that. I made strict rules that you are not to be bullied, and I plan to enforce them. Everyone must act respectfully toward you or they will be asked to leave.
A girl's social networking profile is a persona she constructs, a salve for the anxiety so many girls feel about relationships. All this, however, at a cost: the same tools girls use to alleviate insecurity are just as likely to inflame it.