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Fathers and Sons

For Dad

Tony Hawk | Posted 06.14.2013 | Parents
Tony Hawk

My dad (Frank Hawk) died of lung cancer in 1995. He was my biggest fan. He supported me when I chose skateboarding over all other sports.

My Advice to My Graduating Son: I Hope You Fail

David Geller | Posted 05.06.2013 | Parents
David Geller

Failure is a very powerful force. It's in experiencing failure that we all learn, and if we are resilient and recognize the role failure has in our lives, we ultimately become the person we are meant to be, doing what we are meant to do. Failure is the path to wisdom.

What Parents Of Little Kids Need To Admit To Themselves

Steve Wiens | Posted 05.16.2013 | Parents
Steve Wiens

There are many moments when I have no idea how I'm going to make it until their bedtime. The constant demands, the needs and the fighting are fingernails across the chalkboard every single day.

Why the Blogger Scared of Raising Twins Has It Wrong

David Vienna | Posted 05.02.2013 | Parents
David Vienna

Right now, you're worried about you. It's not about you, it hasn't been since your first kid was born. Stop thinking about how raising twins will suck and start thinking about which superhero you want to be when the three of you storm Lex Luthor's fortress in the backyard.

They Grow Up So Fast! And That's Fine With Me

Mike Julianelle | Posted 04.22.2013 | Parents
Mike Julianelle

Parenthood just keeps getting harder and harder and I'm not sure how prepared I am for the James Dean portion of the gig. I have no doubt in my mind that when he's 16, I'll be dying for the days of Thomas the Tank Engine and his insipid brethren.

How I Finally Accepted My Son's Affection For Pink

good men project | Posted 03.19.2013 | Parents

Written by Kyle Wiley for The Good Men Project I’ve always considered myself a pretty progressive dad, riding the wave of modernity in the 21st ...

A Boy's Promise to His Father

Jeff Bogle | Posted 05.06.2013 | Parents
Jeff Bogle

When I was a pup of 6 years experience in this world, I made a promise I honestly believed I had the ability to keep. I promised my father that I'd stay 6 forever. Until the end of days, a 6-year-old boy; wide-eyed and pudgy-faced.

Jesse Jackson Jr.: Can't Buy a Break

Rick Horowitz | Posted 04.27.2013 | Politics
Rick Horowitz

He spent how much money?! He spent it on what?! ...

The Moment I Knew My Son Was Growing Up

Serge Bielanko | Posted 04.06.2013 | Parents
Serge Bielanko

There are times when you know something is really the matter. It's a gut instinct -- or a chip floated into your head by insurance companies. Either way, as a parent, you know.

A Generation of Spoiled Brats?

Rym Tina Ghazal | Posted 01.28.2013 | Parents
Rym Tina Ghazal

Like three princesses, they sat ready to be served: hair perfectly set, one was in a pink dress, another in a lilac one and the third in a peach colou...

Why It Meant So Much To Hear My Adopted Son Call Me 'Dad'

Posted 01.23.2013 | Parents

This is the nineteenth post of "30 Adoption Portraits in 30 Days," a series designed to give a voice to people with widely varying experiences, includ...

What I Will Miss Most About Being A Stay-At-Home Dad

Zach Rosenberg | Posted 03.11.2013 | Parents
Zach Rosenberg

'm not here to tell you that it was a perfect world being home with my son day-in and day-out. I'm not here to say that it was easy. But I'm here to tell you that if I could do it again, I would.

Tongues Untied: Our Fathers -- Invisible Men?

Darnell L. Moore | Posted 02.03.2013 | Gay Voices
Darnell L. Moore

Wade: Recently, while speaking to some friends about my upbringing, one asked, "Why do you not talk about your relationship with your father more?" It was an observant and valid question. Why are fathers always the last ones we tend to love?

His First Shave

John Malik | Posted 01.28.2013 | Parents
John Malik

Both shirtless, we stood in front of the mirror, razors in hand. My son carefully mimicked my actions as we apply a thin sheen of Gillette's best before he hefted the razor suspiciously.

Reflections on Veterans Day... From a Vietnam Vet Who Went to War on November 11

Doug Bradley | Posted 01.09.2013 | Impact
Doug Bradley

I first became a soldier in a war zone on Veterans Day in 1970. My father, a World War II vet like all the other dads in our working-class, Philadelphia neighborhood, was helpless to save me.

Song for My Father

Doug Bradley | Posted 01.01.2013 | Fifty
Doug Bradley

My father's voice was like an instrument and I loved it, loved listening to it, especially in the shower when he would catch just the right echo, just the right timbre, the acoustics so perfect that it sounded like he was singing a duet or was on stage in a 1940s nightclub.

Interpreting 'The Language of Men'

Lisa Solod | Posted 12.25.2012 | Books
Lisa Solod

There are many of us who search for ways to communicate better with the men in their lives. Such is Anthony D'Aries journey in his compelling memoir The Language of Men.

Boys Are Going Through Puberty Earlier -- Dads, We Need Your Help!

Claire McCarthy, M.D. | Posted 12.25.2012 | Parents
Claire McCarthy, M.D.

It's less embarrassing to talk to a guy than your mom -- and it can be really helpful and reassuring to hear about someone's personal experience; to know that they've lived through what you're living through and understand how you feel.

Finding Julian

Andrew Cotto | Posted 11.10.2012 | Parents
Andrew Cotto

Upon hearing that our second child would be a boy, I walked out of the doctor's office, crossed 8th Avenue and stepped into a Mexican restaurant to drink something with tequila in it.

A Gay Dad’s Perspective On The Hate-Note-Writing Father, And A Letter To My Own Sons

Rob Watson | Posted 10.23.2012 | Gay Voices
Rob Watson

I'm a gay, divorced, single parent, the nightmare of the religious right. And yet here I am, about to step up and share my perspective on these fathers' letters to their sons. I would like to address the two fathers and their notes, and then address my sons with a note of my own.

10 Reasons I'm Jealous Of My Son

Adrian Kulp | Posted 10.03.2012 | Parents
Adrian Kulp

Charlie turns 1 year-old today. I can't help but feel a little jealous of his lifestyle.

'I Promised Myself I'd Be A Better Man Than My Father'

Zane J. Vanderberg | Posted 10.01.2012 | Teen
Zane J. Vanderberg

I remember the last few years he lived here. He was depressed, drinking and always texting in the bathroom. I overheard his whispered phone conversations with his mistresses after Mom went to bed.

Father's Way

Jacques Aboaf | Posted 08.18.2012 | Fifty
Jacques Aboaf

My atheist friends tell me it was my subconscious. Others are convinced it was angels or God. Whomever or whatever it was guided me to a priceless gift when I accepted my father's invitation.

How Dad Made Me See the Whole Package

Patrick O'Connor | Posted 08.15.2012 | Detroit
Patrick O'Connor

I learned a lot about my Dad's work whenever we went to the hardware store, which was just about every Saturday.

A Salute to 'Old School' Fatherhood

Ed Hooper | Posted 08.15.2012 | Parents
Ed Hooper

Mr. Mazarriello reached beyond the stereotypical portrayals of American fatherhood and seized an opportunity for his sons to teach themselves about something more important than sports or toys.