By Patricia Sellers CNN.com Women face a narrower band of acceptable behavior than men do. Women can be powerful. Women can be likeable. Being both i...

We are a force to be reckoned with. As we enter 2011, we should start calling the shots. We should stop trying to fit inside a man's world.

I do believe it's true that women give away their power. But first women have to have power in order to give it away.

Is feminism about women rising up in power or a mindset both men and women can hold? Any man who stands for choice, equality and inclusion is using feminism to help save the world.

I think feminine power is rooted in our willingness to be seen as women and feel good about it -- truly embodied in our feminine sensualities.

It is not the time to become ambivalent about sexism. It is not the time to call feminism a dirty word.

I love that Alice in Wonderland actually differentiates different types of feminine power so girls don't just define strong as physically tough or verbally demanding.