Celiac disease is on the rise, quadrupling in the United States over the last 50 years. Breastfeeding, too, is on the rise, tripling here during this same time period. Interestingly, new reports boast that breast milk may prevent celiac disease. So how could this be true?

Make no mistake: breastfeeding can be easy, and instantly gratifying. I just want breastfeeding researchers and care providers to look beyond their own experience, listen to what women are saying, and react accordingly.

The truth is, all those people I consulted should have been able to take one look at my chest and know that breastfeeding might be difficult, if not impossible, for me.

Obsessing about breastfeeding was a luxury I simply did not have. With my first child, I was grieving for my Mom. With my second, I was too terrified, just trying to make it through my days.

I believe that women should have the right to choose whether formula or nursing is best for them without the guilt and judgement of other moms.