Gay Dating

Gay Dating: Can You Be Too Gay Online?

Mike Alvear | Posted 10.29.2009 | Style


Mike Alvear

What if you're too effeminate or too Goth and you know most guys aren't into that? Here's how to, ahem, massage the truth, without actually lying.

Air In the Hands, Mother-Stickers, This Is a F*ck Up!

Mike Alvear | Posted 10.24.2009 | Style


Mike Alvear

The only way to make sure that you're body is in sync with your words and intentions is to be aware of your actions, gestures, and expressions. The question is, how?

Can You Change the Kind of Body You're Sexually Attracted to?

Mike Alvear | Posted 10.15.2009 | Style


Mike Alvear

Most of us live within the narrow confines of our sexual bandwidth: if you're skinny, you'll be attracted to skinny people, and so on. Is it possible to get outside of this paradigm?

Gay Dating: How to Use Texts Like a Pheromone

Mike Alvear | Posted 11.23.2009 | Style


Mike Alvear

Studies show the average person sends or receives over 100 texts a year. If you've met somebody you're interested in, you've gotta learn the art of going from textual to sexual.

Dating in Gay York: The Text Message Kiss Off on the L Train

Justin Miller | Posted 07.24.2009 | New York


Justin Miller

Let me introduce you to 2009 and to an emerging epidemic happening all around the city, everyday: the broken gay heart.

The Secret To Meeting And Attracting Hot Gay Men

Mike Alvear | Posted 07.04.2009 | Living


Mike Alvear

Gays have gone from lurking in bathhouses and public restrooms to checking out bars and parties; from anonymous scrumping to emotionally resonant sex.