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Survival Guide For Gay Long-Distance Relationships

Greg Hogben | Posted 10.20.2012 | Gay Voices
Greg Hogben

If you have made it this far, you're either riding high on endorphins or you might have actually found the one. Either way, here are a few tips to keeping it together long enough to find out.

Don't Get Mad, Get Empowered: Why You Deserve Healthy Relationships

Nico Lang | Posted 10.02.2012 | Chicago
Nico Lang

No matter who you are, you deserve to be loved, affirmed and listened to. You deserve someone who wants to make it work as much as you do. Don't accept anything less.

How To Woo A Gay Brit

Greg Hogben | Posted 09.30.2012 | Gay Voices
Greg Hogben

I write as a public service to the American men who may need a few words of advice should they happen upon a dapper member of my glorious nation. I write from experience, as I personally have fallen victim to the mistakes of many American men, and the horrors have haunted me since.

What Happened When I Hit On A Hot Guy... And Not On Grindr

Michael Ardan | Posted 09.12.2012 | Gay Voices
Michael Ardan

In this crazy world where impersonal tools like Grindr and (God forbid) Craigslist all too often replace real, human connections, I had swallowed my pride and hit on a hot stranger. That, to me, is a victory in itself. This is how meeting people is supposed to go.

44 Horrible Dates

Eddie Campbell | Posted 09.04.2012 | Gay Voices
Eddie Campbell

I wrote 44 Horrible Dates several years ago to vent after the insane dating experiences I had had in Los Angeles. I had been keeping notes on my computer, not to write a book but because I could not believe what was happening.

29 Days, 29 Dates: My Crazy Social Experiment

Bo Frazier | Posted 05.14.2012 | Gay Voices
Bo Frazier

It all began in January, when I was sitting in my East London flat thinking to myself, "Next month is February, and yet again I will be alone and single." Then a lightbulb went off: 29 days, 29 dates, 29 chances to find love. Surely one of them would be boyfriend material!

Is Grindr Altering Gay Men's Dating Psyche?

Marten Weber | Posted 03.21.2012 | Gay Voices
Marten Weber

There is a growing band of gay males grumbling that Grindr, and apps like it, are turning men into robotic, soulless net cruisers who have lost all ability to communicate. Not everyone agrees.

Man Arrested For Gay Facebook Date In Saudi Arabia

Pink News | Dan Littauer | Posted 01.15.2012 | Gay Voices

As British prime minister, David Cameron visits Saudi Arabia today, activists report the plight of a man arrested by the religious police who may face...

Gay Bears, 'Chubby Chasers' To Be Featured On MTV Reality Show

Posted 01.09.2012 | Gay Voices

Gay men are still stereotyped in mainstream media as gym bunnies -- and judging by the results of a recent British poll, nearly half would be willing ...

WATCH: Whose Photo Does Kathy Griffin Use On Her Fake Grindr Profile?

Posted 12.23.2011 | Gay Voices

In her latest special on Bravo, Kathy Griffin revealed her obsession with the popular gay social networking app Grindr "I know I'm a little late to...

PHOTO: Is This Ad Too Sexy For Billboards?

Posted 11.30.2011 | Gay Voices

A new billboard for a gay dating and social networking website is causing controversy in Los Angeles, particularly among parents who feel the ad is si...

How to Find Higher Quality Guys on Gay Dating Sites

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Some guys are so clueless on gay dating sites that the only thing they attract is dust. You are not going to attract a quality guy with a username like BlondBottom4U. No, really. You're not. So stop it.

The Art of the Sexy Handshake

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

What's the best way to shake hands when you first meet somebody you're interested in? A simple handshake can up your odds of getting a man, a date or a phone number.

The Secret To Meeting And Attracting Hot Gay Men

Mike Alvear | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Mike Alvear

Gays have gone from lurking in bathhouses and public restrooms to checking out bars and parties; from anonymous scrumping to emotionally resonant sex.

What If He Doesn't Look Anything Like His Pictures?

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Now it's okay to lie about your weight online, but it's not okay if the guy's looking for a slender build and you're so fat you were born on the 24th, 25th and 26th of July.

Slut Rehab for Gay Men

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Gay men need to stop caring so much about what other people think or they'll lose their own identity. Here are the options for taming that axis of evil between your legs and restoring a tattered rep.

Is Effeminacy in Gay Men a Function of Nature or Nurture?

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Why do so many effeminate gay men prefer in their partners the very masculinity they've bleached out of themselves?

What If You Could Strike Up A Conversation With Any Attractive Guy?

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Most guys can't get themselves to talk to a guy they're attracted to because of something called Approach Anxiety. From now on, when you go out, your main objective is to be more talkative.

Are Straight Guys in Gay Porn Really Straight?

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
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Mike Alvear

ay-for-pay says, "I have sex with men for money." Straight-to-stay says, "I have sex with women for acceptance." The currency might be different but the dynamic is not: Temporarily thwarting authentic desire for something valuable.

Is Gay Life Too Shallow?

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

I do not believe we have to give up admiring beauty in order to starve the shallowness out of gay life.

The Real Reason Why So Many Gay Men Are Single

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

Like a lot of gay men, I seem to be stuck doing guys I don't want to date and dating guys I don't want to do.

Hot Guy Phobia

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

It goes something like this: You see a beautiful guy at a gay bar or a party and you want to meet him in the worst way. But fear matches your desire. Doubt sets in. Alarms go off.

Meet Men The Way You Lose Weight: By Detaching From The Outcome

Mike Alvear | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Mike Alvear

How do you get rid of this fear of rejection? By disconnecting yourself from results and connecting with the process.

Why Gay Marriage in Washington DC Means Less Straight Divorce

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Mike Alvear

As equality rises, homophobia will fall, and so will the need for using marriage as a bush we can use to shimmy over to the rights trough.

Air In the Hands, Mother-Stickers, This Is a F*ck Up!

Mike Alvear | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Mike Alvear

The only way to make sure that you're body is in sync with your words and intentions is to be aware of your actions, gestures, and expressions. The question is, how?