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Gay Relationship Advice

Ask MISTER CARL: 'My Boyfriend Can't Top Me! Is Our Relationship Doomed?'

Carl Sandler | Posted 06.10.2013 | Gay Voices
Carl Sandler

From my perspective, one of the great advantages of gay relationships is that we aren't tied to conventions and have more flexibility to create relationships that come from our own needs.

Why I Won't Date Married Men As A Gay Man

Posted 05.27.2013 | Gay Voices

By Rick Clemons for YourTango.com Just a little over 12 years ago, I would have said, "I'm not gay, I just like having sex with men!" Excuse ...

Ask MISTER CARL: 'What Do I Have To Do To Get A White Boy's Attention?'

Carl Sandler | Posted 05.08.2013 | Gay Voices
Carl Sandler

As much as our community loves to wave rainbow flags and talk about equality, there's just as much sexual racism in the gay world as there is anywhere else. Sometimes it's overt ("no Asians!"), sometimes it's subtle ("no thugs, please") and sometimes it's just unspoken.

Single, Gay And Looking For Love In 2013?

Posted 02.12.2013 | Gay Voices

The dating scene can be like diving into a shark tank, but lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) singles are highly optimistic that 2013 will ...

The Unspoken Effect Of Gay Marriage

YourTango | Denise LaFrance | Posted 02.09.2013 | Gay Voices

Despite the joy surrounding the legalization of gay marriage, one sobering statistic remains. On Nov. 6, 2012, Maine became the first state in the ...

Ask MISTER CARL: The Gay Advice Column That Always Gives It To You Straight

Carl Sandler | Posted 03.24.2013 | Gay Voices
Carl Sandler

Welcome to "Ask MISTER CARL." In this new blog series I offer strategies and advice for anyone navigating the marvelous, messy and often screwed-up dilemmas we face in our quests for intimacy, both online and off.

How To Beat The Gay Holiday Blues

Posted 12.22.2012 | Gay Voices

Being gay isn't easy ... especially around the holidays. We're just days before the big "C" — Christmas. Chanukah has passed and Thanksgiving is ...

Survival Guide For Gay Long-Distance Relationships

Greg Hogben | Posted 10.20.2012 | Gay Voices
Greg Hogben

If you have made it this far, you're either riding high on endorphins or you might have actually found the one. Either way, here are a few tips to keeping it together long enough to find out.

10 Tips For Keeping Your Relationship From Ending Up In The Dumpster

Limor Blockman-Michelman | Posted 04.24.2012 | Gay Voices
Limor Blockman-Michelman

Over time, even the strongest long-term relationships can become routine. By addressing your issues and breaking patterns, you can keep things from souring and reintroduce some passion into your lives.

Queeries: 'Avoid Surprises with Facebook Relationship Status Updates?'

Steven Petrow | Posted 01.03.2012 | Gay Voices
Steven Petrow

I turned to my Facebook author page to see how these rules are evolving and was surprised to find a nearly unanimous bias against disclosing any relationship info at all to your "friends" -- especially among those 30 or older.