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Gay Dating: The Top (And Bottom) Of It All

Posted 06.04.2014 | Gay Voices

Note: Huffington Post Gay Voices is a media sponsor for Pace University and ProofPilot's study, "How We Date, Have Sex, and Form Relationships Today."...

Why Being Gay Makes This Man Appreciate Women

Posted 06.03.2014 | Gay Voices

By Rick Clemons for YourTango.com Being a gay man does not make me feel less manly or more feminine. All it does it make me more appreciative of w...

How To Get Over Your First (Gay) Breakup

Posted 05.26.2014 | Gay Voices

By Rick Clemons for YourTango.com There's nothing like the first time. First kiss, first intertwining of hands and of course first sex (even if it...

Here's 'Why Gay Men Don't Believe In Love'

Posted 05.22.2014 | Gay Voices

By David Cruz for YourTango.com David Cruz of Bravo's 'Millionaire Matchmaker' examines the gay community's cynicism toward love. When I was ve...

What's The Best Way To Navigate The Hook-Up?

Posted 05.20.2014 | Gay Voices

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Let's Be the Love Our Community Needs Us to Be

Josh Hersh | Posted 07.13.2014 | Gay Voices
Josh Hersh

The truth is, we can't change other people. This is an idea we as gay men would be wise to embrace. If the way another gay man acts is getting you down, upset or sends you into a fit of frustration and fury, it's time to change your thinking.

Why You Shouldn't Buy My Gay Wedding Book

David Toussaint | Posted 07.11.2014 | Gay Voices
David Toussaint

Let's be clear: I hope that my last wedding book, The Gay Couple's Guide to Wedding Planning, goes on to sell a zillion copies and people refer to ...

Notes From a Self-Loathing, Narcissistic, Hateful, Shallow Gay Man... Because That's What Readers Insist I Am

David Toussaint | Posted 07.09.2014 | Gay Voices
David Toussaint

Never flirt with another guy when you're on a dinner date. It's rude and tacky and reinforces the stereotype that gay men are pigs. Do the respectable thing and follow him into the bathroom for a quickie when your date's ordering dessert or paying the check.

What Exactly Is Appropriate Orgasm Etiquette?

The Huffington Post | James Nichols | Posted 05.06.2014 | Gay Voices

Note: Huffington Post Gay Voices is a media sponsor for Pace University and ProofPilot's study, "How We Date, Have Sex, and Form Relationships Today."...

The Most Attractive Feature In A Prospective Partner Is...

The Huffington Post | James Nichols | Posted 04.23.2014 | Gay Voices

Note: Huffington Post Gay Voices is a media sponsor for Pace University and ProofPilot's study, "How We Date, Have Sex, and Form Relationships Today."...

The 5 Worst Lies Gay Men Tell On First Dates

Posted 04.11.2014 | Gay Voices

By David Cruz for YourTango.com It's a busy Friday night at one your favorite restaurants in the city and you could not be more nervous. The guy t...

Pubic Hair: To Trim Or Not To Trim?

Posted 04.15.2014 | Gay Voices

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LGBTQ Dating Study Professor Calls To Action

Posted 04.02.2014 | Gay Voices

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How Do We Date In The Modern Age?

Posted 03.26.2014 | Gay Voices

Today a new, six-week online study was launched that seeks to examine how do we date, have sex and form relationships in the modern age. Conducted ...

Rethinking Casual Sex

Omar Sarwar | Posted 05.20.2014 | Gay Voices
Omar Sarwar

There's no reason to feel ashamed about hooking up. But for the subset of young gay men who desire traditional long-term commitment, is our culture's emphasis on the pursuit of sexual novelty and variety in any way harmful?

17 Practical Gay Dating Tips for the New Age

David Toussaint | Posted 05.19.2014 | Gay Voices
David Toussaint

It's a sign of a true gentleman if you walk him to his door and he says it's too soon for you to come inside. It's also more than likely a sign that he still lives with his on-again off-again ex.

Racism Is So Gay

Omar Sarwar | Posted 05.12.2014 | Gay Voices
Omar Sarwar

It is unreasonable to expect people to become attracted to every kind of look, but it is still better to try and fail than to defend brazenly racist attitudes in the name of "preference."

Everything That's Wrong With Gay Dating Apps in One Extended Profile

David Toussaint | Posted 05.11.2014 | Gay Voices
David Toussaint

Plan to Skype first so I know you're worth my time.

Why You Won't Be Getting A Threesome

Kristine Esser | Posted 04.29.2014 | Gay Voices
Kristine Esser

I like men and women. There is no question in my mind. Honestly, I find it hard to sometimes see how you could only be attracted to one sex.

You'll Never Guess How These Two Met

The Huffington Post | James Nichols | Posted 02.25.2014 | Gay Voices

YouTube vlogger MarkE Miller released this adorable video yesterday that chronicles the way he and his boyfriend Ethan first met: through Facebook. ...

Notes From Nicaragua: Listo or Not

Joe Hutcheson | Posted 04.20.2014 | Travel
Joe Hutcheson

Certainly the thought of zip-lining through the jungle was adding a dash of anxiety to my previously eaten breakfast. "I think I'm going to just read," I said. A Stephen King book on the porch was the kind of jungle thrill I was in the mood for.

The Do's And Don'ts Of Gay Divorce

Posted 02.14.2014 | Gay Voices

By Laura Miolla For YourTango.com Not too long ago, while driving in the car, my 5-year-old son told me about two of his classmates that got "marr...

My Special V-Day Gift for You!

Wyatt O'Brian Evans | Posted 04.11.2014 | Gay Voices
Wyatt O'Brian Evans

Well, well, well! "The Big V," Valentine's Day, is upon us. But instead of giving you chocolates, hearts and flowers, I've decided to gift you with something more practical: some juicy and meaty food for thought to digest.

If You Spend Your Entire Date Texting, You Deserve to Die Alone

Nico Lang | Posted 04.01.2014 | Gay Voices
Nico Lang

If you've spent more time looking at Grindr than your date's face, how do you know you don't like him? You have to give these things time to fail in the old-fashioned way, in which you later obsess about him while binge eating ice cream and watching New Girl, waiting by the phone for a call that doesn't come.

'Looking' at Relationships. How HBO's New Series Lays Bare Our Struggle to Find Sex and Love

Carl Sandler | Posted 03.24.2014 | Gay Voices
Carl Sandler

It's a process that all of us must ultimately figure out as we stumble headfirst into adulthood, leaving our conflicted younger selves behind, where they belong.