Girls get caught up in how others rate them and often lose their own selves in an obsession for perfection. A simple number on a scale can automatically categorize a girl into large vs. petite or cool vs. uncool, but do these numbers really tell you who you are?
Sex crimes are on the rise. Day after day girls are sneaking out of the house to meet men that have chatted up on the Internet. I am surrounded by it every single day in my job.
You're not ugly. Not in the least, so don't make those videos. Take them down if they are up. You don't need people to tell you how beautiful you are on there. You don't need to put yourself in the position to be judged that way.
What girls say to each other on Facebook matters more than the possible threat of cyberbullying. It reflects what we teach kids about what's important and has real consequences.