By doing your own inner work to become an emotionally responsible, kind and loving person with yourself and your partner, you can create a healthy, loving relationship!

The aftermath of a relationship with an alcoholic/addict can often parallel that of a natural disaster. At least it has for me when I've ended relationships that were toxic, or for my clients when they have made the painful decision to move on.

You've tamed the laundry, hit a home run at work and dished up a family dinner. Forget anything? Oh, right -- your partner! It's easy to simply c...

Do you know a healthy way of behaving when you are stuck and unable to communicate with someone? What do you usually do when you get stuck with someone and can't communicate?

Cyber-snooping constitutes, in my view, a second betrayal, and this begs the rhetorical question: do two wrongs make a right?

Love may not fundamentally change but our connection with it may: Regardless of Shakespeare's insistence that "love is not love when it alteration finds," this is not how people experience it.

Caring chiefly for each other, your interest, and comfort sums up exactly what a couple should have together. That's healthy selfishness.

If a friend's behavior is ugly, we get to decide when the friendship is over. But afterward, the gaping hole in our lives left by the missing friendship can hurt like a phantom limb.

The rule is that it takes Two Happy Healthy Whole People to make One Happy Healthy Whole relationship -- and there are No Exceptions to this rule.