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It Gets Better

It Gets Better, for Whom?

Mark O'Connell, L.C.S.W. | Posted 05.15.2013 | Gay Voices
Mark O'Connell, L.C.S.W.

There is much to be gained by sharing loss, and much that is lost by shielding ourselves with gains. When our losses are recognized we can face our own wounds in the looking glass, and become empowered to move through to the other side.

A Silver Coming-Out Story

Chris Delyani | Posted 05.11.2013 | Gay Voices
Chris Delyani

Then a slip of paper, not much larger than a sheet of paper you'd write a shopping list on, fell out of the book's pages. On it was typewritten a simple, unsigned message from the Boston Alliance of Gay and Lesbian Youth.

A Golden Age for Baseball in the Golden State

Lincoln Mitchell | Posted 02.06.2013 | Sports
Lincoln Mitchell

Baseball has been experiencing an interesting power shift over the last few years. Just as complaints about east coast bias in baseball coverage became widespread, east coast baseball began to get a lot less interesting.

Yes. There Is a Gay NFL Player in the Super Bowl.

Dennis Trainor | Posted 04.05.2013 | Gay Voices
Dennis Trainor

Among the gladiators hurling themselves across the field and at each other with a ferocity that will shorten expected lifespans -- there will be a pla...

Does It Really Get Better For Gay Teens?

AP | By LINDSEY TANNER | Posted 02.04.2013 | Gay Voices

CHICAGO -- It really does get better for gay and bisexual teens when it comes to being bullied, although young gay men have it worse than their lesbia...

Lily Tomlin, LeAnn Rimes and Dan Savage Join Gay Men's Chorus of Los Angeles to Kick Off It Gets Better Tour

Jason Mannino | Posted 03.30.2013 | Gay Voices
Jason Mannino

This tour will travel to smaller rural and suburban cities to visit college campuses and high schools. In the week leading up to each performance, the creative team of actors and director will work in the community with an outreach program designed exclusively for this production.

'It' Does Not Have a Responsibility to Get Better; We Do

Larry Womack | Posted 03.18.2013 | Home
Larry Womack

If we really wanted to end bullying, we would try to end bullying, both as individuals and as institutions. A good place to start doing that might be actual bullies. And by "bullies," I don't mean "other people's kids." I mean the ones we have influence over.

Curtis M. Wong

'Queer As Folk' Star, Broadway Hunk Sing For Homeless LGBT Youth In NYC

HuffingtonPost.com | Curtis M. Wong | Posted 12.19.2012 | Gay Voices

Broadway stars, TV actors and other top-notch talent helped make the yuletide a little bit gayer than usual Dec. 16 as part of “A Better Holiday" in...

My Third Lifetime

Domenick Scudera | Posted 02.06.2013 | Gay Voices
Domenick Scudera

I will celebrate my 48th birthday this week. Although I am undeniably middle-aged now, I feel as if I have lived two lifetimes. The number 48 is significant to me because I have lived twice as many years as my first boyfriend, who committed suicide when he was 24 years old.

Andrew Losowsky

WATCH: Hachette Makes Moving 'It Gets Better' Video

HuffingtonPost.com | Andrew Losowsky | Posted 12.06.2012 | Books

The 'It Gets Better' Project was founded in September 2010 by columnist and author Dan Savage and his husband Terry Miller, "to show young LGBT people...

Letter To My Best Friend's Parents In Ohio: Here's What Romney Thinks Of Your Gay Son

Nathaniel Frank | Posted 01.04.2013 | Gay Voices
Nathaniel Frank

Many have called LGBT equality the civil rights issue of our time. I think they're right. And Mitt Romney doesn't only oppose marriage for gays, he finds the prospect of gay parenting to be anathema to all that's good and civil.

An Open Letter To Those Being Bullied, From The Set Of An 'It Gets Better' Video

Rob Watson | Posted 12.24.2012 | Gay Voices
Rob Watson

Most of us shared about the creation within ourselves of our own receptive self-bully. That bully is the most dangerous. Our self-bully says that we actually deserve the abuse they are doling out. But the bullies are wrong. All of them. And the bully within is the wrongest.

Making It Better For Today's LGBT And Questioning Youth

James Lecesne | Posted 12.24.2012 | Gay Voices
James Lecesne

With all the discussion lately about bullying and the frequency of reports about LGBTQ suicide, we can sometimes lose sight of the changes that have happened over the past 15 years, and we can forget the ways in which the LGBTQ community is making it better for young people.

Can We Trust Straight People?

Liesel Reinhart | Posted 12.18.2012 | Gay Voices
Liesel Reinhart

I'm writing and directing a new show called it gets better for the Gay Men's Chorus of Los Angeles and the It Gets Better Project. During our whirlwind of development, I wonder if anyone ever thought, "Can we really trust a straight person with this project?" It's a fair question.

It Gets Better Project - Parent's Edition

Kathy Carter Woods | Posted 12.05.2012 | Parents
Kathy Carter Woods

The parenting experience can be, well, rigorous.

Coming Into Coming Out

Jarrett Hill | Posted 12.05.2012 | Gay Voices
Jarrett Hill

Thanksgiving 2004. It was a typical holiday gathering with family, friends, and wonderfully endless calories. But as I spent time with my family, I felt something within me beginning to change. Some conversations were getting harder to avoid, and some truths were getting closer to coming... out.

No Fun, Gaby Dunn! An Interview with a Thought Catalog Editor

Uloop | Posted 12.05.2012 | College
Uloop

Gaby Dunn is an awesome editor for Thought Catalog and a producer for WFMU. She is also a comedian and takes part in People's Improv Theater house team called BIRDS and on her own, she wrote 100interviews.com.

LGBT History Month Icon Of The Day: Janet Mock

The Huffington Post | JR Tungol | Posted 10.05.2012 | Gay Voices

Staring right into the camera, eyes wide open and with a warm smile, People.com Editor Janet Mock says, "I promise that it gets better." She pauses an...

WATCH: 'Game Of Thrones' Parody

Posted 09.26.2012 | Books

Fans of George RR Martin, you know it's true. He's a harsh writer for people who care about his characters not getting hurt. Spoofing the It Gets ...

Get Ready For 'It Gets Better' -- Part 2

Posted 09.17.2012 | Gay Voices

Fans of the Emmy-nominated "It Gets Better" project will be happy to learn that an all-new, 60-minute special will return to both MTV and Logo two day...

Coming Out: An In-Depth Analysis Of My Teenage Diaries

Bernard Lansbergen | Posted 11.06.2012 | Gay Voices
Bernard Lansbergen

Recently, while cleaning out my childhood bedroom, I stumbled upon the diaries I kept during this tumultuous time in my life. I read them with a stomach-turning sense of dread, only to be surprised by how my own memory had misshaped and deformed these events.

WATCH: San Francisco 49ers Become First NFL Team To Join 'It Gets Better' Campaign

Posted 08.24.2012 | Gay Voices

Anti-gay bullying advocates are praising the San Francisco 49ers, who became the first NFL team to join the "It Gets Better" campaign in support of le...

Righting Our Lightly-Breaded Wrong: Why We Created Chickfilaconfessional.com

Natalie Taylor | Posted 10.13.2012 | Gay Voices
Natalie Taylor

So, into Chick-fil-A I walked, placing my order and diving into my nuggets and fries. Although I'd be lying if I said my lunch didn't taste delicious (seriously, how do they get that chicken so juicy?), the tinge of guilt I felt earlier grew with every chew.

From My Wrenching Coming Out To Marrying The Man I Love: How The World Has Changed

James Oseland | Posted 09.24.2012 | Gay Voices
James Oseland

I embody a character whom viewers seem to find polarizing. And in my casual survey of the Not Really Into Its, there's a surprising amount of "ew, I think James Oseland is gay." But when those comments seemed to be at their height, a wonderful thing happened.

WATCH: Unexpected Group Releases 'It Gets Better' Video

Robin Wilkey | Posted 07.24.2012 | San Francisco

Joining the ranks of the San Francisco Police Department and the Gay Men's Chorus, San Francisco General Hospital released an "It Gets Better" video o...