Listening

The Sopping-Wet Supervisor (a Leadership Lesson)

Liz Ryan | Posted 03.28.2012

Liz Ryan

Meeting Elise in the rain was a huge HR and leadership lesson for me. I realized in the wet car that night that people like Elise want to care about their jobs; they want to take responsibility for other people and make a difference.

2 Steps That Will Make Your Marriage Stronger

Harriet Lerner | Posted 05.13.2012

Harriet Lerner

We naturally become defensive when our spouse begins to criticize us. We listen to refute or correct the inaccuracies, distortions and exaggerations that are inevitably there. The challenge is to listen only to understand.

The Importance Of Mindful Listening

Susan Smalley, Ph.D. | Posted 05.14.2012

Susan Smalley, Ph.D.

To be mindful of speech means to notice your intention before you speak and to listen with full attention. There are certainly times when I've said things I regret.

What Is Literacy?

Pam Allyn | Posted 04.21.2012

Pam Allyn

As we get closer to the celebration of World Read Aloud Day on March 7, I want to take a moment to share why I think this is such an important day.

Communication Goals for the New Year

Fred Whelan and Gladys Stone | Posted 03.10.2012

Fred Whelan and Gladys Stone

It's impossible to be too good a communicator. We all know people who seem to always know the perfect thing to say. What you may not realize is that good communicators work at it.

Join StoryCorps. Thank a Teacher on November 25!

StoryCorps | Posted 01.25.2012

StoryCorps

This Friday, November 25, marks StoryCorps' 4th annual National Day of Listening, and we are asking everyone to take a moment to thank the teacher who made all the difference.

The 100-Day Plan That Isn’t

Rosina Samadani | Posted 01.15.2012

Rosina Samadani

Almost all new CEOs, presidents, and heads of business units develop a 100-day plan. In the context of a startup, a 100-day plan should have two aspects -- the hard and the soft.

A Guide To Learning When To Shut Up In Your Career

The Grindstone | Posted 12.20.2011

"I said I needed to work on listening more and talking less, and not interrupting. I worried that questions I asked about the substance of journalism ...

How To Be Truly Empathetic

Mike Robbins | Posted 12.18.2011

Mike Robbins

Empathy is getting into another person's world and connecting with them both emotionally and compassionately. We don't have to agree with them or fully understand them to be able to empathize.

7 Quick Questions About Obama's Magical Misery Tour

John Hawkins | Posted 10.19.2011

John Hawkins

Our President has just finished his three day bus tour of the Midwest and after that Herculean achievement, he's preparing for yet another vacation. Yet, there are still a few lingering questions people probably have.

Can One Second Of Silence Change Your Life?

Michael Taft | Posted 09.29.2011

Michael Taft

Want to connect with people? Want to really understand where people are at and what's going on? Let some silence happen and make a practice of deep listening.

Do You Need An 'Intention' Support Group?

Anne Naylor | Posted 09.28.2011

Anne Naylor

Never underestimate the power and capacity of your loving human spirit. You might find that you could surprise yourself with what you are able to accomplish.

Mother-Daughter Gay Pride

Ruth Sherman | Posted 09.02.2011

Ruth Sherman

This is a deeply personal story, the most personal I have written, the most revealing. I want to share an aspect of who I am that I've discovered relatively recently, that goes very, very deep: I'm the mother of a gay child.

The Wisdom Of Listening

Anne Naylor | Posted 09.01.2011

Anne Naylor

Taking time out to switch off and listen inwardly to the stillness is an extraordinary investment of my time which pays great dividends.

Entrepreneurs Never Learn Anything While They're Talking

Marty Zwilling | Posted 08.24.2011

Marty Zwilling

Even good communicators average only about half their time listening. Yet experts assert that most people listen with only about 25 percent of their attention, hear about 25 percent of what is said, and after two months, remember only half of that.

Welcome to the Real Social: New Music Apps Bring Listeners Together

Eliot Van Buskirk | Posted 05.25.2011

Eliot Van Buskirk

The most interesting apps we're seeing these days, some of which have yet to be released, buck the decades-long trend towards solitary listening.

Toxic Venting: When To Stop Listening

Judith Acosta | Posted 11.17.2011

Judith Acosta

Good listening seeks to understand, but it is not always silent, and it does not automatically dismiss accountability. As a result, it is decidedly not what some people are looking for: a toxic dump site.

The Sacred Art Of Listening

Krista Tippett | Posted 05.25.2011

Krista Tippett

Bonhoeffer tells us, "He who can no longer listen to his brother will soon be no longer listening to God either ... This is the beginning of the death of the spiritual life."

Listening and Learning: Takeaways From Gov20LA 2011

Alan W. Silberberg | Posted 05.25.2011

Alan W. Silberberg

Gov 2.0 L.A. 2011 is now behind us. Such an amazing experience. Thought leaders and practitioners, entrepreneurs and government leaders all came toget...

How To Talk So That Your Partner Will Listen

Robert Leahy, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011

Robert Leahy, Ph.D.

The guidelines for being a good listener are not just for men. These guidelines for listening and communication apply to both men and women, straight and gay, and for friendships as well.

Spiritual Solutions #24 Listening to Your Inner Voice

Deepak Chopra | Posted 05.25.2011

Deepak Chopra

By Deepak Chopra and Annie B. Bond. Keep Listening to Your Inner Voice No matter how skilled you become at dealing with challenges, in the end every...

Blame is a Trap (Video)

Steven Crandell | Posted 05.25.2011

Steven Crandell

Some people think blame is a way to escape trouble.

2011: The Year of the Brain (and Other Trends)

Marian Salzman | Posted 05.25.2011

Marian Salzman

This is the 12th in a series of 12 posts expounding on the 2011 forecasts in the annual trends report from Salzman, president of Euro RSCG Worldwide PR and an internationally respected trendspotter.

Men and Asking for Help

Dr. Daniel Seidman | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Daniel Seidman

What is it about men that makes them think that asking for help seems like a weakness, not a strength? Why do we place such a high value on "toughing it out," especially when it can cut us off from optimal solutions?

It's Time to Turn Down the Volume on Elections That Polarize

Judy Patrick | Posted 05.25.2011

Judy Patrick

For two months we've been inundated by unprecedented spending on angry campaign ads, and an unbelievable number of robocalls. So much noise made it hard for people to examine their own hearts.