Why Do You Blame?
Why do we blame ourselves and others? What is the payoff?
Why do we blame ourselves and others? What is the payoff?
Vivian Diller, Ph.D. | Posted 01.18.2012 | Fifty
Despite what the advertisers and surgeons may tell us, no one has figured out how to stop the clock. And as our clocks tick longer and longer, we all face physical and emotional challenges.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 01.10.2012 | Healthy Living
Relationships are fertile ground for learning about ourselves -- about our unloving behavior that creates the very disconnection we don't want, and about the loving behavior that brings aliveness, joy and passion to our relationship.
Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 12.23.2011 | Healthy Living
It's not at all unusual for people to feel more anxious, exhausted, frustrated or depressed at this time of year than they typically do. And what's more, we feel like we are alone in our unhappiness. This common misperception only adds to our pain.
Stanton Peele | Posted 12.22.2011 | Healthy Living
Human beings are social animals -- they are also solitary ones. Many things in modern life are done alone, even within well-integrated families and social groups.
Nancy Deville | Posted 02.13.2012 | Women
"Are you going to get married again, Grandma?" I asked her. "NO!" Her vehemence was startling enough to spark my curiosity, and for the next few years, I observed her and her friends.
Posted 12.12.2011 | Healthy Living
By YouBeauty.com There are many festive signs that the holidays are upon us: Christmas carols on the radio, department store Santas, holiday window...
Anastasia Rubis | Posted 02.08.2012 | Parents
My husband works two weeks per month in Eastern Europe. When I mention this to people, they give me the sad-eyed look. "It's fine," I say, and, really, it used to be more than fine: I was actually enjoying myself the first year.
Dr. Susan Corso | Posted 01.23.2012 | Books
What a remarkable book Susan Ni Rahilly has written about her odyssey through her past in the Catholic Church (caps intentional). Daddy's Girl's Guilt...
Judith Johnson | Posted 01.17.2012 | Healthy Living
If you find yourself on a trajectory of anticipating an awful Thanksgiving, consider what you might do to change that. Ultimately, how you experience that day is a reflection of your attitude.
Sandra Ingerman | Posted 01.21.2012 | Healthy Living
Many people during this time of year buy Christmas trees. During our solstice celebration this year I would suggest a new way to bring in this holiday season.
Wray Herbert | Posted 01.10.2012 | Healthy Living
Facebook is a social lubricant for many of its 500 million users, facilitating fast and effortless and widespread connection. But does this innovative technology actually change the quality and texture of relationships?
Agapi Stassinopoulos | Posted 01.10.2012 | Healthy Living
If you are feeling lonely, try to identify what you are feeling lonely for. We often associate being lonely with longing for the company of others, but loneliness can also stem from not giving voice to our longings.
Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.07.2011 | Healthy Living
Every Wednesday is Tip Day. This Wednesday: eight tips for making new friends. Last week, I posted a list How to make friends -- or at least think a...
Lorraine Devon Wilke | Posted 10.15.2011 | Healthy Living
I remember the moment I truly understood my mother, a woman I couldn't understand for the life of me ... I saw her loneliness that day. I saw it because, for the first time, I felt glimmers of it in my own life.
Heidi Grant Halvorson, Ph.D. | Posted 09.12.2011 | Healthy Living
Persistent loneliness is not only emotionally painful but can be more damaging to our physical and mental health than many psychiatric illnesses. Psychologists have created dozens of interventions designed to try to tackle this epidemic.
Shasta Nelson, M.Div. | Posted 08.30.2011 | Women
Summer brings up a lot of idealized pictures: family vacations, backyard barbeques with neighbors, street festivals with friends. In that gap between our hopes and our reality often comes the surprising feeling of loneliness.
Constantin Bjerke | Posted 07.19.2011 | Arts
It is some years ago that London-based photographer and filmmaker, Laurence Von Thomas, started his pictorial...
Dr. Susan Corso | Posted 07.18.2011 | Healthy Living
There are plenty of other people in this world who are as miserable as you are right now.
Vicki Larson | Posted 07.01.2011 | Divorce
Midlife is a great time to reinvent yourself. It just isn't a great age to get divorced, especially if you're a woman who isn't ready to give up on sex and love and a partner.
Alex Pattakos | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Despite connecting with new "friends" via online social networking, living in cities with thousands of people and working in large organizations, the incidence of people who say they are lonely keeps rising.
Mike Robbins | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
I still find that in my darkest moments, I feel like there's no one who really gets me, knows what I'm going through, or even cares enough to truly have my back. Do you ever feel like this yourself?
Meg F. Schneider, MA, LCSW | Posted 06.05.2011 | College
It's hard to eat alone because of what you assume others are thinking. Your own destructive thoughts ruin a manageable, quiet, dining experience.
Kristin Tennant | Posted 05.25.2011 | Divorce
Soon after my first husband and I separated, in 2003, I bought the book How to Be Alone by Jonathan Franzen.
Youth Radio -- Youth Media International | Posted 05.25.2011 | College
Originally published on Youthradio.org, the premier source for youth generated news throughout the globe. By Joel Carela I've always been put off b...
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. | Posted 02.08.2012 | Healthy Living