Manners

Pregnant Women Deserve Courteous Behavior

Robin Wilson | Posted 05.27.2012

Robin Wilson

Perhaps we all need to take a step back and remind ourselves that we all arrived on this earth through a mother -- and the basic humanity deserved by any visibly pregnant woman needs greater attention.

Pompus and Circumstance

Tracy Shaffer | Posted 05.22.2012

Tracy Shaffer

Delivered with aplomb, the speaker took an adeptly right-handed swipe at President Obama. The response from the crowd was a predictable smattering of applause and boos, and while most sat in stunned silence, I was flabbergasted.

To Boycott North Carolina Or Not? That Is The Question

Steven Petrow | Posted 05.17.2012

Steven Petrow

Why single out North Carolina, which is only one of 31 states that now have constitutional amendments prohibiting same-sex marriage? Most importantly, how would such a movement help to change the hearts and minds of the Tar Heels who voted in favor of Amendment 1?

The Trouble with Mr. and Mrs.

Nina Badzin | Posted 05.15.2012

Nina Badzin

Does it bother you when kids call you Mr. or Mrs.? If so, why? On the flip side, if you're teaching your children to say Mr. and Mrs., how do you handle it when adults tell your children otherwise?

May, the Month of Moms & Mentors

Jodi R. R. Smith | Posted 05.10.2012

Jodi R. R. Smith

May is upon us, and with Mother's Day quickly approaching, it is the perfect time to reflect on how our mothers -- and other mentoring figures -- have helped shape our lives.

Having Top-Notch Manners Will Distinguish You

Malcolm Levene | Posted 05.01.2012

Malcolm Levene

To some, having good manners is akin to a "foreign language" in that they are not used to expressing gratitude, giving thanks and being polite.

'Eat My Dust, Hear My Drum': American Modesty Has Died. I Killed It

Peter Mandel | Posted 05.01.2012

Peter Mandel

Modesty has died. You hadn't noticed? Its quiet nature made it marginal. It caught a cold. It stayed in bed. Our fireworks and gunshots killed it off.

Toasting Etiquette

The Splendid Table | Posted 04.30.2012

The Splendid Table

Should you drink if you are being toasted? When my mother toasted our engagement, I said "thank you" by raising my glass and sipping. My fiancé didn't drink.

'So, What Do You Do?'

Emile Hirsch | Posted 04.25.2012

Emile Hirsch

Is there really that much of a gap of conversation etiquette or philosophy between the East and West coast that one can't ask "What do you do?" to a new acquaintance in New York?

Becoming Goops

Sarah Alban | Posted 04.10.2012

Sarah Alban

God knows how long I took forcing these words into a coherent blog. But for the love of everything you hold dear: Please speak English. Speak any language. Speak anything longer than three letters. Speak anything more sophisticated than a LOLcat caption.

Are TSA Agents Too Rude?

Christopher Elliott | Posted 04.09.2012

Christopher Elliott

For those of you reading this who say it's unpatriotic to question the actions of an agency that stands guard against terrorism, let me ask you the following question: What if a real law enforcement agency or a branch of the military treated the civilian population like this?

Being Left Out Never Gets Easy

Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 05.21.2012

Dr. Irene S. Levine

Should I keep reaching out or just forget it?

Leap Day Allows for More Mannerly Ways

Jodi R. R. Smith | Posted 04.29.2012

Jodi R. R. Smith

This is a Leap Year and therefore we have been granted an entire extra day to add civility back into our busy lives. How will you spend your 16 extra waking hours?

Why It Bugs Me When People Say: "I Must Have A.D.D.!"

Lori Day | Posted 04.17.2012

Lori Day

There seems to be an outbreak of self-diagnosed A.D.D. among individuals who simply have no manners. What is going on? Do I need to put Ritalin in my tic-tac dispenser and offer it to the afflicted?

How to Use a Finger Bowl

Lisa Mirza Grotts | Posted 04.15.2012

Lisa Mirza Grotts

While finger bowls may be a thing of the past, they do exist in many private clubs across the country and are still served at some formal dinners, so it's good to know how to use one. Plus, you may want to serve them after some casual dinners yourself.

12 New Year's Resolutions Toward a Politer You

Jodi R. R. Smith | Posted 04.02.2012

Jodi R. R. Smith

If you are finding your New Year's resolutions elusive, why not opt for some easily obtainable ones instead? In honor of 2012, here are 12 New Year's resolutions towards a better, and more polite, you.

Disability Etiquette: Think Ability, Not Disability

Lisa Mirza Grotts | Posted 03.19.2012

Lisa Mirza Grotts

Are you worried about being "politically correct" when talking to someone with a disability? Are you afraid you might inadvertently offend a disabled person? If so, you are not alone.

Is Everybody Rude? Modern Manners Unplugged

Debra Ollivier | Posted 02.29.2012

Debra Ollivier

Rudeness and bad manners - and books about them - are on the rise. Technology clearly has much to do with this. Even "smart" technology has made many of us seem "less smart." (That's a polite way of putting it.) It's certainly made people more distracted and self-centered, both of which breed bad manners.

I Have To Ask: What's A Common Courtesy That Has Been Lost?

Posted 02.22.2012

Is there a common courtesy that you think has been lost? Microphone in hand, I set out to ask perfect strangers that very question. var src_url="htt...

Out Of The Mouths Of Babes: 'Where's My F****ing Baba?'

The Huffington Post | Lisa Belkin | Posted 01.31.2012

Julie Merberg has a very short problem. It's only four letters, which is the length of the words spilling out of the mouth of her angel-faced three-ye...

How Not To Be That Annoying Airline Passenger

George Hobica | Posted 02.11.2012

George Hobica

While there's not much you can do about long lines and delayed departures, there is one little thing you can do to make the trip more bearable for yourself and others: Don't be annoying!

Are You Naughty Or Nice?

www.realsimple.com | Posted 12.11.2011

The holiday rush can bring out both the best and the worst in people. See how you would handle these sticky holiday etiquette situations, then learn w...

How To Handle Social Media Post-Split

Juliet Jeske | Posted 02.12.2012

Juliet Jeske

I would love to write that post-divorce I handled my online social media profiles with grace, restraint and dignity, but that it would be a total and utter fabrication.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Darius A. Gray | Posted 01.20.2012

Darius A. Gray

I was raised by "the help." I don't mean that "the help" served me in my parents' mansion. No, my parents were "the help" in white households -- my mother a domestic servant and my father a handyman.

The Tao of Houseguesting

Jen Sincero | Posted 01.17.2012

Jen Sincero

When you're staying with someone, you're more considerate about making noise, cleaning up after yourself, listening to what they say, paying attention to their needs and rising to the occasion even if you're feeling crabby, because you have to.