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How A Bad Marriage Can -- Literally -- Hurt Your Heart

HuffingtonPost.com | Yagana Shah | Posted 11.24.2014 | Fifty

Previous research has proved the link between a difficult marriage and negative health effects in lab-based studies. Now, the finding has been confirm...

What So Many Middle-Aged Married Women Are Starved For (Not Sex!)

Arlene Nisson Lassin | Posted 11.12.2014 | Fifty
Arlene Nisson Lassin

I recently heard of a few couples in my age group throwing in the towel on their marriage. None of these couples broke up due to abuse, infidelity, or anything that would automatically spell divorce, but rather it was a general malaise in the marriage.

Why I'm Thinking Of Separating From A Wonderful Man After 27 Years Together

Jennifer Beckman | Posted 10.13.2014 | Fifty
Jennifer Beckman

Everyone has their advice, but for the person wrestling with this question, there's no answer that doesn't make your hands sweat, heart race, and leave a permanent lump in your throat -- particularly when there are two young kids at home who adore the person you're considering leaving.

'I Knew The Marriage Was Over Before It Began'

Divorced Moms | Posted 11.20.2014 | Divorce
Divorced Moms

We parted as friends and years later, we're still friendly. Although I knew the marriage was over before it began, I'm glad it didn't end there. The road we traveled was one of love, laughter, pain, tears and, most importantly, growth.

#WhyIStayed: I Wanted to Be a Hero to My Child?

Ama Yawson | Posted 11.19.2014 | Women
Ama Yawson

I was shocked to read, was the following excerpt of Dr. Boyce Watkins's open letter to Janay Rice in which he calls women who stay with their abusers in order to keep their families intact "heroes."

5 Reasons To Settle For A Good-Enough Marriage

Divorced Moms | Posted 11.09.2014 | Divorce
Divorced Moms

By Tara Eisenhard for DivorcedMoms.com One of my missions in life is to inspire society to become more accepting of divorce. I believe it to be a m...

5 Signs Your Marriage Has Gone Cold -- And What To Do About It

2013-02-21-grandparentslogo.jpg | Jennifer Kelly Geddes | Posted 09.08.2014 | Fifty

SPECIAL FROM Grandparents.com Every marriage has its highs and lows, good days and bad. But what if you sense yours has landed in a rut—and you...

What You Need to Know to Save Your Marriage

Mitchell H. Saskin | Posted 11.05.2014 | Weddings
Mitchell H. Saskin

We are all striving, in a relationship, to be more fully connected to another person. When we feel that connection, we know we are part of something bigger than ourselves. This lesson is one of the most important gifts that relationships can bestow.

Dear Family Whisperer: Letting Him Do the Small Stuff HIS Way

Melinda Blau | Posted 10.15.2014 | Parents
Melinda Blau

A lot of women complain about their husbands not doing things their way. They also tend to blow those differences out of proportion. The result, sadly, is that husbands, fearing criticism, often do less and less, a situation that leads to "chore wars."

10 Signs Your Marriage Is On Shaky Ground

Mari Lyles | Posted 09.15.2014 | Divorce
Mari Lyles

If any of these weeds are cropping up in your marital garden, and you want to keep your marriage, try tackling the problem now, before these weeds becomes full grown bushes.

Dear Family Whisperer: How to Make Him Listen When You Need to Talk

Melinda Blau | Posted 09.06.2014 | Parents
Melinda Blau

If you share childcare and housework, bravo! Many women would envy you. But also give your partner a chance to do his share of the emotional work.

When Baby Naming Becomes a Negotiation

Darryle Pollack | Posted 08.23.2014 | Parents
Darryle Pollack

I was a compromiser married to a world class control freak, and I tried not to be putty in his hands. Naming our daughter went down to the wire, narrowly beating out her delivery.

How to Stop Resenting Your Spouse After Having a Baby

Suzanne Barston | Posted 08.12.2014 | Parents
Suzanne Barston

Between hormones, physical discomfort after birth and a complete upheaval of your daily routine, it's perfectly normal to feel resentful of a partner who gets to walk about pain-free without breastmilk-stained shirts or a child clinging to his body.

One Question You Need to Ask to Stop Fighting With Your Partner

Dr. Margaret Rutherford | Posted 08.05.2014 | Weddings
Dr. Margaret Rutherford

We are all headed into a a long, hopefully gorgeous summer. Maybe a vacation. Time together with our partners. Something sometimes we dread. Because we fear fighting.

5 Things To Do When Your Kid's Marriage Is On The Rocks

2013-02-21-grandparentslogo.jpg | Julie Weingarden Dubin | Posted 05.16.2014 | Fifty

SPECIAL FROM Grandparents.com The fighting, the constant sarcasm, the dirty looks—all marriages hit turbulence, but when it's your adult children...

The Bedroom Mistake That Adds Distance To A Relationship

OWN | Posted 05.07.2014 | OWN

Felisha and Don, a couple from just outside Detroit, have been married for 13 years and are in the midst of a relationship crisis. Their past mistakes...

'I Was Married To A Sex Addict'

Posted 02.09.2014 | Divorce

Written by The Stir Bloggers on CafeMom's blog, The Stir Early on in a relationship, the sex is new and exciting and awesome. And you want it. All...

How A Multiple Sclerosis Diagnosis Put My Marriage In Perspective

Posted 02.09.2014 | Weddings

By Diana Frustaci for YourTango.com I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2012. I was 27, turning 28 a few weeks later at the time, and engage...

The Type Of Infidelity Even Cheaters Won't Forgive

Posted 02.07.2014 | Divorce

Apparently, some types of cheating are worse than others. Victoria Milan, a dating site for people seeking affairs, surveyed 5,000 of their membe...

The Trickling Down of Washington Discord: Family Life Deeply Affected

SaraKay Smullens | Posted 01.25.2014 | Healthy Living
SaraKay Smullens

The majority of Americans are disgusted and discouraged by dangerous stalemates throughout Washington power institutions, within and with each other. ...

Is It Ever Okay To Separate Around The Holidays? Experts Weigh In

Posted 11.25.2013 | Divorce

By Kelly Coleman for GalTime.com Getting divorced is hard whenever it happens. But a relationship that crumbles around the holidays can seem unbear...

Why Divorce Is Such An Isolating Experience

Tira Harpaz | Posted 01.23.2014 | Fifty
Tira Harpaz

If you skim my Facebook page, with its sunny messages and abundant photos, you would probably think my life is a whirlwind of lectures, concerts, trips and museum visits. But while I have watched Beyoncé rock the Barclay Center and climbed to the top of Penobscot Mountain, Facebook doesn't tell the whole story, or even the most important part of my story.

The Biggest Relationship Problems, According To Readers

Posted 08.05.2013 | Divorce

When you're in a relationship that's on the outs, it can feel like you and your partner are the only couple dealing with your particular set of proble...

20 Marriage Problems Real Women Face

Posted 08.06.2013 | Divorce

Written by Ericka Souter on CafeMom's blog, The Stir There is one thing every married person will tell you: marriage is hard. Anyone in the midst ...

5 Surprising Emotions You'll Feel After Discovering An Affair

Posted 06.30.2013 | Divorce

By Scott Haltzman for YourTango.com If you're lucky, you'll never have to know what it's like to be the victim of infidelity. Still, the statistics...