I believe in monogamy, but based on my own personal experience, I am not convinced that all of us are meant to find one mate to last our entire lifetime, although I have great admiration for people who do successfully mate for life.

Relationships and all their pitfalls are still the most important and life-changing circumstances that define our life. When it is all said and done, it is the only really meaningful markers we have to remember our lives.

The enemy has morphed from teenagers touching themselves to husbands and wives wandering from the strict confines of married monogamy.

Over the next two weeks, I'll be writing about ways to break up the monotony in your monogamy, and creating a plan full of amazing things to reignite the flame in your relationship.