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Opting Out

The Retro Wife Opts Out: What Has Changed, And What Still Needs To

Lisa Belkin | Posted 05.19.2013 | Parents
Lisa Belkin

Until we find that new path, women (and men) who can afford to step off the existing path, will continue to do so. And we will have the cover story equivalent of "Groundhog Day" -- as each new cohort finds itself conflicted for the first time.

WATCH: Filling The 'Resume Gap'

Posted 01.05.2013 | Parents

It’s called the resume gap, and standing on one side (where you have taken a few years out of the workplace to raise children) and looking across to...

A Mother's Departure Memo

Lisa Belkin | Posted 01.09.2013 | Parents
Lisa Belkin

"I...have chosen to leave private practice, and the practice of law (at least for now).I truly admire all of you that have been able to juggle your career and family and do not envy what a challenge it is trying to do each well."

Four Extraordinary Women Explain How to Balance Work and Family

Susan Moeller | Posted 08.26.2012 | Women
Susan Moeller

"It's not that Anne-Marie was being blocked by attitudes that are keeping her from her definition of the top, but that she's being blocked by the reality of her needing to be available to her family,"

Think That Woman Has It All? You're Wrong

Lisa Belkin | Posted 08.21.2012 | Parents
Lisa Belkin

Women have done all the contorting that they can possibly do to cram their dual desires for work and children into the workplace as it exists. Now it is time for the workplace to cram, contort and change instead.

Are You ___ Enough?

Barbara & Shannon Kelley | Posted 07.15.2012 | Women
Barbara & Shannon Kelley

Would a man's choice to embrace his traditional breadwinning role with gusto be marked as an end to progress, or to opt out of parenthood as a harbinger of the downfall of society as we know it?

Two Poems for the Month of Testing

John Merrow | Posted 04.24.2012 | Home
John Merrow

For many public school students and perhaps for teachers as well, April is the cruelest month of the school calendar. April days that are not devoted to 'test prep' are spent on testing itself. And some of what is going on in this crazy month defies the imagination.

Why Men Opting Out Should Make You Angry -- And Create Change

Lisa Belkin | Posted 05.23.2012 | Women
Lisa Belkin

I have always wondered whether there would be the same anger at a story about men choosing to ratchet back their careers -- work less, earn less, climb less of the ladder. It looks like I am getting the chance to find out.

New Generation, Same Story?

Barbara & Shannon Kelley | Posted 05.21.2012 | Women
Barbara & Shannon Kelley

When young women declare themselves optimistic about women in the workplace in the very same survey in which they point out gender-based inequities, you kind of have to worry.

Go Big or Go Home?

Barbara & Shannon Kelley | Posted 05.14.2012 | Women
Barbara & Shannon Kelley

I've opted in, out and all things in between and what I can tell you is this: It's way more complicated than those two little words tend to imply.