I wish I could say there is a way to live life without pain. There is not. While it is not pleasant, pain is a part of the human experience. However, there is a difference between pain and suffering. Pain is inevitable. Suffering is something you can overcome.
If you're experiencing pain on any level, I want you to take a good look at the level of resistance that you may be creating. Where do you need to face your problems head on? Where do you need to accept them? And where do you need to release?
While the primary blame for abuse and misdeed against women lies with the perpetrators themselves, we should look next at the good men who say nothing. It's time for good men to hold accountable those who abuse women.