Perfecting Patience
When we encounter situations that requires patience, can we look at it as an opportunity to be the person we already are?
When we encounter situations that requires patience, can we look at it as an opportunity to be the person we already are?
Jennifer Lehr | Posted 05.15.2012
You are the adult in the relationship and so it is up to you to calm yourself so that you don't take your anger (likely derived from fear) out on your kid.
Ed and Deb Shapiro | Posted 05.15.2012
To find unity, we have to go beyond those differences; we have to surrender our own needs for the benefit of all. In the process, our enemies can teach us great patience and even compassion!
Melissa Van Rossum | Posted 05.14.2012
Isn't it interesting how we expect others to behave in a certain way so we can feel good about ourselves? And then when people don't behave as we want them to, we feel so disappointed and angry -- when really, most times, we're not actually surprised at their actions?
Eldon Taylor | Posted 04.28.2012
When you are both patient and healer, remember to be patient and allow time -- time to listen and time to distance and, finally, time to heal.
Judith Orloff MD | Posted 03.26.2012
You can call me naïve, but I believe that to save the human race and this magnificent planet we are on, compassion must be part of our daily prayer.
Lisa Mirza Grotts | Posted 03.19.2012
Are you worried about being "politically correct" when talking to someone with a disability? Are you afraid you might inadvertently offend a disabled person? If so, you are not alone.
Lillian Daniel | Posted 02.29.2012
Jesus once said that our family members are not just the ones we share a family tree with, but he never said it would always be tidy and reciprocal.
Daliah Merzaban | Posted 02.28.2012
Walking around the Kaaba, I was at a vantage point to know that the jams I would get caught in were temporary -- they would end, literally, around the corner. This helped me be patient even when the pressure was greatest.
Michael Stanclift, N.D. | Posted 01.23.2012
Things are hard all over these days, and the holiday season can magnify our difficulties. Traditionally this was our harvest time, a time to sit down with the community and feast on what we had collectively grown.
Daylle Deanna Schwartz | Posted 01.16.2012
Tired of repeatedly yelling "representative" into the phone? There is a tactic that will actually get you somewhere: kindness. Here's how to make kindness work for you.
Allan Lokos | Posted 01.14.2012
It is essential that we learn to be patient with ourselves if we are to be happy, if we are to be trusted, if we are to be a welcome friend to others.
Sarah O'Leary | Posted 01.08.2012
Imagine if we could look at all of the citizens of the planet with kind-ness. If we looked at how alike we are, rather than how different.
Laura Campbell | Posted 12.21.2011
When Irene came through, I had no idea of just how significantly my property had been affected and how long the clean-up would take. My divorce, like Irene, also came tearing through my life, leaving chaos and a major mess behind it.
The Women's Media Center | Posted 12.04.2011
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Viral Mehta | Posted 09.04.2011
The journey of patience is rooted in knowing that our current reality inevitably gives way to change. But change won't always happen when we think it should.
Judith Orloff MD | Posted 11.17.2011
In communication, patience is a powerful emotional currency. As you're more able to tolerate the discomfort of frustration and not blow it by acting out, your relationships will function on a higher level.
Gretchen Rubin | Posted 11.17.2011
Every Wednesday is Tip Day, or List Day, or Quiz Day. This Wednesday: 8 reasons why waiting in line drives us crazy. I'm a very impatient person...
James Elkins | Posted 05.25.2011
I have been writing about looking slowly, taking time to let the visual world seep into your thoughts. It took me three years, on and off, to learn to...
Rev. Dr. James A. Kowalski | Posted 05.25.2011
Advent waiting is the time of relinquishing our desire to have outcomes our way and on our schedule. Can we trust that what God has in store for us is worthier of wonder and awe than even our deepest hopes?
Amy Chan | Posted 11.17.2011
Love and romantic relationships can be a very hard thing to understand at times. They're complex, irrational and emotional, and without a proper foundation, they're fragile.
James Elkins | Posted 05.25.2011
My subject in these posts is how we look at the world. In future columns, I will be writing about all sorts of things, from hieroglyphs to ice halos, ...
Waymon Hudson | Posted 05.25.2011
The LGBT community has been blamed, cajoled, insulted, courted, and ignored depending on whether our votes and dollars are needed, yet when it comes time for real leadership on issues that matter to basic, day-to-day rights, we are told to wait.
Wendy Strgar | Posted 11.17.2011
Life is nothing if not the details of time and place that identify the work and relationships that define our existence
Terry Newell | Posted 05.25.2011
When President Obama took office in January 2009, 76 percent of Americans believed he would "bring needed change to Washington." Within three months,...
Tsoknyi Rinpoche | Posted 05.23.2012