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Personal Boundaries

Does Being Spiritual Make You A Doormat?

Natasha Dern | Posted 05.09.2012 | Healthy Living
Natasha Dern

How does one walk the path of love, tolerance, compassion, forgiveness, etc. without becoming a doormat? This is a fundamental question, and one that's rarely addressed, if ever.

Friend Wants More Than Platonic Relationship

George Sachs, Psy.D. | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
George Sachs, Psy.D.

You don't have to tell your friend that you're not interested in dating -- he already knows. My guess is he's not going to be happy with the status quo. Once the cat is out of the bag, it is very difficult to put him back in.

What Can I Do to Try to Win His Heart Back?

George Sachs, Psy.D. | Posted 05.25.2011 | Los Angeles
George Sachs, Psy.D.

Dear Dr. George, My ex-boyfriend and I broke up four months ago. I'm still very much in love with him. I have reason to believe he still cares about ...

The Importance of Boundaries

Wendy Strgar | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Wendy Strgar

Setting boundaries may be one of the aspects of living that most defines our maturity and facility for accomplishing our goals. Learning to define our boundaries, however, is challenging for many.

Boundaries and Priorities: Week 8 of "Mental Muscle" Boot Camp

Paul Katz | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Paul Katz

This is not to say it won't take an enormous amount of work to get rid of my boundaries. I feel the walls in my head buckling and my priority is to keep knocking them down.

How Do I Tell Him He Overstayed His Welcome?

George Sachs, Psy.D. | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
George Sachs, Psy.D.

Dear Dr. George, I live alone and I love it. My personal space and time are invaluable. Recently, I began dating a man who lingers long after our dat...

Sexual Self-Empowerment: Ensuring Healthy Boundaries

Linda E. Savage | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Linda E. Savage

It may seem counterintuitive, but couples need clear individual boundaries and healthy differentiation for great sex. Each must feel both connected and protected.

The Zen of "Yes" or "No"

Tabby Biddle | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Tabby Biddle

There is a fine line between moments when we say "yes" to open up to new life possibilities, and, when we say "no" to honor ourselves and maintain a healthy boundary.

Codependency Pt 2: An Incomplete Sense of Self

Dr. Tian Dayton | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Dr. Tian Dayton

When the attachment with a parent is fraught with fear, the child can become overly preoccupied with getting it right for the parent rather than for themselves.