How do I raise my baby girl to love -- or, at the very least, not to hate -- the same features I have picked apart for so long?

I had a baby, my first, earlier this year. After over a decade of telling parents how to raise their girls, I'm now tasked with raising my own. I have no doubt I'll take back some of what I said from a childless perch -- and hopefully feel gratified about the rest.

Helping my clients learn to accept who they are -- and who they aren't -- is essential, and it is so liberating for them when they finally do.

Research hasn't quite pinpointed why women don't make as much as men. But maybe, just maybe, it has something to do with ideas that have been subtly ingrained in us since we were very young.