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Red Flags

16 Red Flags Men And Women Ignored Until It Was Too Late

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 12.04.2014 | Divorce

It's easy to overlook your partner's flaws when you're in a new relationship. You're in that heady, honeymoon phase and any behavior or character flaw...

Relationship Deal Breakers

Natasha Burton | Posted 12.09.2014 | Weddings
Natasha Burton

We all have those non-negotiable standards when it comes to relationships -- habits, qualities, characteristics, details and so on -- that we will simply not stand for. However, it's important reevaluate these from time to time in order to make sure you're not automatically ruling out someone who could totally be husband material.

The Pitfalls Of Online Dating Over 50

Joe Seldner | Posted 12.06.2014 | Fifty
Joe Seldner

When most of the over 50 set was last seen dating 25 years ago, meeting took place at work, school, through well-meaning if usually misguided friends, or through that urban myth of going up to someone in the grocery store (did that ever happen, or at least happen without the police being called?)

5 Signs That You Should End Your Relationship

GalTime | Posted 09.13.2014 | Women
GalTime

It's right out of a Sandra Bullock movie. Two completely opposite people meet and, in spite of their polar opposite personalities, they fall in love. Opposites attract! Well... sort of.

How to Spot an Abuser Before It's Too Late

Laura Riley, Ph.D. | Posted 08.30.2014 | Women
Laura Riley, Ph.D.

In my 30+ years of clinical experience, I've seen that abusers are often unable to solve conflicts verbally. Under stress, words fail them. Instead of using the small muscles around their mouth to discuss a problem, they lash out with large arm or leg muscles to relieve the tension.

ATM Skimming, Cyber Fraud Keep Bankers up at Night

Robert Siciliano | Posted 08.13.2014 | Business
Robert Siciliano

Last year there were hundreds of cyber fraud incidents that struck banks and put consumers’ personal data at risk, even though the one involving...

3 Relationship Red Flags That Should Send You Running

Posted 04.29.2014 | Divorce

Written by Adriana Velez for The Stir You've found your soul mate, you've been together for a while, and you feel like you're ready to take it to t...

Firing Your Client: When Is the Customer Not Always Right?

Debbe Daley | Posted 06.12.2014 | Business
Debbe Daley

As the old adage goes: "The customer is always right." When is the customer not always right? What is proper business etiquette in regards to how much...

Workplace Violence: 12 Signs Of A Dangerous Person

Robert Siciliano | Posted 06.08.2014 | Business
Robert Siciliano

Workplace violence is something everyone needs to be educated about. Know the warning signs to protect yourself and your employees. The Navy Yard sho...

15 Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore

Brenda Della Casa | Posted 05.14.2014 | Divorce
Brenda Della Casa

Ever feel as though you always find yourself in situations with the slightly shady? Take off the rose-colored glasses and pay attention to these bright red flags.

10 Relationship Red Flags You're Probably Ignoring

The Huffington Post | Brittany Wong | Posted 04.25.2014 | Divorce

Face it: You let a lot of annoying things about your significant other slide when you're in love. Your girlfriend orders something at a restaurant and...

5 Reasons Longer Marriages Produce Red Flag Daters

Susan Campos | Posted 11.03.2013 | Divorce
Susan Campos

In the middle of enjoying a dinner with a male friend recently, all of a sudden the mood shifted when he asked in a terse tone, "So what's the longest relationship you've ever been in?"

Is This The Biggest Relationship Red Flag?

Posted 07.31.2013 | Divorce

Dating after divorce is tricky. First you have to figure out if you're really ready to get back out there, then you have to find someone you'd actuall...

Never Married And Middle Aged: Dating Dealbreaker?

Posted 07.29.2013 | Divorce

Would you be wary of dating someone who had never been married by the time they hit middle age? That's the question Boston Globe advice columnist ...

24 Red Flags I Overlooked Before Marriage

Posted 07.19.2013 | Divorce

Ever since we launched HuffPost Divorce, we've been asking readers to share the moment they knew their marriage was over. But as anyone who's been ...

The Shocking Thing My Father-In-Law Said Before My Wedding

Posted 06.14.2013 | Divorce

Author Pam Evans reflected on her second wedding on HuffPost Live on Tuesday, and there were several aspects of the nuptials that she deemed "red flag...

What Relationship Experts Get Wrong About Marriage

Lisa Arends | Posted 07.22.2013 | Divorce
Lisa Arends

I don't know about you, but I used to hold my marriage up to those checklists and, upon finding none of the warning signs in my own relationship, felt a sense of smug satisfaction.

10 Signs Your Marriage Is Doomed

Posted 04.16.2013 | Divorce

By Susie and Otto Collins for YourTango.com Have you ever wondered whether or not something your partner just said or did is normal and okay? Many ...

The 10 Types of Guys You Should Never Date!!!!!

Meg Favreau | Posted 06.12.2013 | Comedy
Meg Favreau

Omg ladies, dating is awful, right? Make sure it isn't even worse by avoiding these types of guys!!!

4 Major Red Flags You Should Never Ignore

Posted 03.23.2013 | Divorce

You know what they say: hindsight is 20/20. But it's not until you've been through divorce or a tough breakup that you begin to realize how much truth...

Dating Advice: Want to Know What Kind of a Man he is? Look at His Friends

Holly Sidell | Posted 04.17.2013 | Women
Holly Sidell

I admit that I am 100% guilty of not taking this advice in the past. I met one ex-boyfriend after his married best friend hit on me. Then, there was the guy whose friends all made a group pact that they would never get married.

Two Mental Health Red Flags That Could Save Someone's Life

Kim Gorgens | Posted 03.27.2013 | Healthy Living
Kim Gorgens

As a psychologist, I've been asked frequently about red flags or warning signs that may contribute to violent or aggressive behavior. For the most part, dozens of interpersonal red flags can be summarized by two alarms: change and disclosure of information.

Red Flags For Mr.Unavailable, From Dr. Gail Saltz (WATCH)

Posted 08.15.2013 | MarloThomas

Psychiatrist Dr. Gail Saltz described how to notice the red flags for "Mr. Unavailable" when she met with me on Mondays With Marlo. Oftentimes, these ...

Red Flags: Dating and Presidents

Holly Sidell | Posted 12.25.2012 | Women
Holly Sidell

I would never get into a relationship with a man who was constantly contradicting himself and constantly changing his views on things based on appeasing other people... and I would never vote for a President like that, either.

Top 13 Red Flags In A Relationship

Maryjane Fahey | Posted 09.24.2012 | Women
Maryjane Fahey

You can't help but wonder about all the waving neon flags that Cruise managed to miss. Here are 13 ON FIRE red flags to watch out for while you are still in a relationship... drum roll please...