Relationship Advice

Don't Kill The Messenger

Matt Titus | Posted 02.19.2009 | Style


Matt Titus

With over eight million people living in five boroughs and the city's fast-paced lifestyle, one would think that the chances of bumping into your soul-mate would be promising. Well, think again.

7 Things No One Tells You About Marriage

Yahoo! Personals | Ylonda Gault Caviness | Posted 02.02.2009 | Living


You're smart. You know life is no storybook. But admit it: Somewhere deep in your subconscious lurk romantic visions of Cinderella, or maybe Julia Rob...

How To Find Happiness In 14 Words

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 02.02.2009 | Living


Karen Salmansohn

This year promise yourself that next time you're in conflict with someone you will ask yourself if you really do find it so joyously preferable to feel so very, very right all the time.

Quiz: Are You In Lust Or Love?

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 01.26.2009 | Living


Karen Salmansohn

[Image via...] Throughout the ages, there's been one question that's consistently stumped the wisest of gurus and prophets -- and at times even Oprah...

10 Tips for Catching a Cougar

Nicole Williams | Posted 01.17.2009 | Style


Nicole Williams

Although I'm not a bona fide cougar quite yet (I clock in just under the apparent age limit), I'm certainly not opposed to dating younger men... if only they knew what they were doing.

Finding Balance In Relationships With Men

Alison Armstrong | Posted 02.16.2009 | Living


Alison Armstrong

For many people, achieving balance means cutting back on extremes. In the fall of 1990, I took on a huge project in my career. To balance that out, I ...

Having An Affair? 10 Things To Address Before You Confess

Huffington Post via Times Of London | Verena von Pfetten | Posted 11.21.2008 | Living


Today's Times of London has a pretty interesting list of 10 things to think about before you confess to any extra-curricular, um, activities. While ...

Dumped Over Email

Christine Hassler | Posted 11.21.2008 | Living


Christine Hassler

Dear Christine, The girl I've been dating for six months just broke up with me. But even worse than being dumped is the way she let me know it was ov...

Keys To Life: How To Be Clear In Your Communications

Russell Bishop | Posted 11.13.2008 | Living


Russell Bishop

The first challenge in communication is that most people don't know what the word means! Now, of course you know what the word means in once sense; ...

Bring Your Anxiety Back to Normal So Your Thinking Can Be Clear

Dr. Tian Dayton | Posted 11.11.2008 | Living


Dr. Tian Dayton

We need our thinking to be clear now more than ever as we go into one of the most complicated financial moments in history; we need clear heads.

Relationships: Fighting For Control

Mona Ackerman | Posted 11.09.2008 | Living


Mona Ackerman

Q: So last night, my lover got angry at me because I would not finish my dinner. Actually I wasn't very hungry. I told him that even if I tried I ...

Lessons In Living: The Wisdom Of Eckhart Tolle and Warren Buffett

Dr. Judith Rich | Posted 11.07.2008 | Living


Dr. Judith Rich

Lesson 1 Knowing When To Pull the Plug "Should you fi...

On Knowing When To Trust Again

Mona Ackerman | Posted 11.02.2008 | Living


Mona Ackerman

Q: I am 62. I am engaged to a man who has been in my life for 32 years. I have been waiting for this moment for 32 years. We have weathered a lot...

Four Ways to Tell if You're Being Cheated On

Caroline Presno | Posted 10.25.2008 | Style


Caroline Presno

Trust can be tricky--you want to have confidence in the fidelity of your partner, but sometimes you just can't. There's a nagging feeling in your gut that says, "I think I'm being cheated on."

In Search Of Intimacy

Keith Leon and Maura Leon | Posted 10.18.2008 | Living


Keith Leon and Maura Leon

Dear Keith and Maura, I completely agree with and understand the concepts of knowing what I want and being able to satisfy myself. I worked hard to g...

What Woody Allen Can Teach Us About Love

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 10.17.2008 | Living


Karen Salmansohn

Woody Allen has some interesting thoughts on love. He says.... "To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers fr...

15 Reasons People Don't Tell The Truth

Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 10.13.2008 | Living


Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks

We're big advocates for speaking honestly in close relationships. In counseling thousands of couples, we've seen an incredible amount of destruction w...

8 Ways You Should Never Apologize

The Frisky | Judy McGuire | Posted 10.12.2008 | Living


Despite what that old chestnut Love Story will have you believe, love doesn't mean never having to say you're sorry. In fact, one of the most importan...

Dos And Don'ts Of Breaking-Up

Christine Hassler | Posted 10.10.2008 | Living


Christine Hassler

Dear Christine, My boyfriend of two years and I broke up three months ago and I can't get over him. He was the one that ended it, but we are trying t...

10 Secrets To A Happier Love Life

Karen Salmansohn | Posted 10.06.2008 | Living


Karen Salmansohn

First, read this list of relationship tips below. When you get to the bottom, I will share with you WHERE they come from -- a surprising source! 1. ...

Tenacious V

Val Brown | Posted 10.05.2008 | Style


Val Brown

Sometimes you try to demonize the ex, deluding yourself that it will change what you feel about him. But it can be a fruitless activity, especially when there was no demonic behavior in site.

Ask Phyllis: Astrology and Beyond

Phyllis F. Mitz | Posted 10.03.2008 | Living


Phyllis F. Mitz

Dear Phyllis, My husband is a Sag.* I am a Cancer**. He's a wonderfully generous man, but sometimes he rants on and on about politics, taxes, or ...

You Better Believe It

Keith Leon and Maura Leon | Posted 09.22.2008 | Living


Keith Leon and Maura Leon

This may sound backwards, but focusing on someone else's behavior does not often get us what we really want.

How To Live With An Ex

Tango | Pilar Anderson | Posted 09.21.2008 | Style


During the weeks following the breakthrough, relations improved considerably, making it easy to drag our feet on the apartment hunt. We fell into our ...

How Happy Is Your Home? 5 Tips To Finding Your Perfect Partner

Sophie Keller | Posted 09.19.2008 | Living


Sophie Keller

There are over 6 billion people of people on the planet and it doesn't matter how old you are, the cards are always shuffling and there is someone out...