Don't Kill The Messenger
With over eight million people living in five boroughs and the city's fast-paced lifestyle, one would think that the chances of bumping into your soul-mate would be promising. Well, think again.
With over eight million people living in five boroughs and the city's fast-paced lifestyle, one would think that the chances of bumping into your soul-mate would be promising. Well, think again.
Yahoo! Personals | Ylonda Gault Caviness | Posted 02.02.2009 | Living
You're smart. You know life is no storybook. But admit it: Somewhere deep in your subconscious lurk romantic visions of Cinderella, or maybe Julia Rob...
Karen Salmansohn | Posted 02.02.2009 | Living
This year promise yourself that next time you're in conflict with someone you will ask yourself if you really do find it so joyously preferable to feel so very, very right all the time.
Karen Salmansohn | Posted 01.26.2009 | Living
[Image via...] Throughout the ages, there's been one question that's consistently stumped the wisest of gurus and prophets -- and at times even Oprah...
Nicole Williams | Posted 01.17.2009 | Style
Although I'm not a bona fide cougar quite yet (I clock in just under the apparent age limit), I'm certainly not opposed to dating younger men... if only they knew what they were doing.
Alison Armstrong | Posted 02.16.2009 | Living
For many people, achieving balance means cutting back on extremes. In the fall of 1990, I took on a huge project in my career. To balance that out, I ...
Huffington Post via Times Of London | Verena von Pfetten | Posted 11.21.2008 | Living
Today's Times of London has a pretty interesting list of 10 things to think about before you confess to any extra-curricular, um, activities. While ...
Christine Hassler | Posted 11.21.2008 | Living
Dear Christine, The girl I've been dating for six months just broke up with me. But even worse than being dumped is the way she let me know it was ov...
Russell Bishop | Posted 11.13.2008 | Living
The first challenge in communication is that most people don't know what the word means! Now, of course you know what the word means in once sense; ...
Dr. Tian Dayton | Posted 11.11.2008 | Living
We need our thinking to be clear now more than ever as we go into one of the most complicated financial moments in history; we need clear heads.
Mona Ackerman | Posted 11.09.2008 | Living
Q: So last night, my lover got angry at me because I would not finish my dinner. Actually I wasn't very hungry. I told him that even if I tried I ...
Dr. Judith Rich | Posted 11.07.2008 | Living
Lesson 1 Knowing When To Pull the Plug "Should you fi...
Mona Ackerman | Posted 11.02.2008 | Living
Q: I am 62. I am engaged to a man who has been in my life for 32 years. I have been waiting for this moment for 32 years. We have weathered a lot...
Caroline Presno | Posted 10.25.2008 | Style
Trust can be tricky--you want to have confidence in the fidelity of your partner, but sometimes you just can't. There's a nagging feeling in your gut that says, "I think I'm being cheated on."
Keith Leon and Maura Leon | Posted 10.18.2008 | Living
Dear Keith and Maura, I completely agree with and understand the concepts of knowing what I want and being able to satisfy myself. I worked hard to g...
Karen Salmansohn | Posted 10.17.2008 | Living
Woody Allen has some interesting thoughts on love. He says.... "To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering, one must not love. But then, one suffers fr...
Kathlyn and Gay Hendricks | Posted 10.13.2008 | Living
We're big advocates for speaking honestly in close relationships. In counseling thousands of couples, we've seen an incredible amount of destruction w...
The Frisky | Judy McGuire | Posted 10.12.2008 | Living
Despite what that old chestnut Love Story will have you believe, love doesn't mean never having to say you're sorry. In fact, one of the most importan...
Christine Hassler | Posted 10.10.2008 | Living
Dear Christine, My boyfriend of two years and I broke up three months ago and I can't get over him. He was the one that ended it, but we are trying t...
Karen Salmansohn | Posted 10.06.2008 | Living
First, read this list of relationship tips below. When you get to the bottom, I will share with you WHERE they come from -- a surprising source! 1. ...
Val Brown | Posted 10.05.2008 | Style
Sometimes you try to demonize the ex, deluding yourself that it will change what you feel about him. But it can be a fruitless activity, especially when there was no demonic behavior in site.
Phyllis F. Mitz | Posted 10.03.2008 | Living
Dear Phyllis, My husband is a Sag.* I am a Cancer**. He's a wonderfully generous man, but sometimes he rants on and on about politics, taxes, or ...
Keith Leon and Maura Leon | Posted 09.22.2008 | Living
This may sound backwards, but focusing on someone else's behavior does not often get us what we really want.
Tango | Pilar Anderson | Posted 09.21.2008 | Style
During the weeks following the breakthrough, relations improved considerably, making it easy to drag our feet on the apartment hunt. We fell into our ...
Sophie Keller | Posted 09.19.2008 | Living
There are over 6 billion people of people on the planet and it doesn't matter how old you are, the cards are always shuffling and there is someone out...
Matt Titus | Posted 02.19.2009 | Style