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Self Sabotage

Say 'Enough is Enough' to Self-Doubt

Lisa Cleary | Posted 05.14.2013 | Women
Lisa Cleary

While I'll never not be a perfectionist, I do know that I'm good enough for a lot of people. My mom, my family, my friends, my coworkers and my boyfriend all love me for who I am.

Why You're Self-Sabotaging (And How To Stop)

Polly Campbell | Posted 04.26.2013 | Healthy Living
Polly Campbell

You can discard the beliefs that aren't helpful anymore, and rework others so that they propel you toward your greatest dreams. In the short run, you can also choose beliefs that will leave you feeling better, happier, more peaceful.

How Do You Handle Compliments ?

Christine Eilvig | Posted 04.19.2013 | Healthy Living
Christine Eilvig

It can feel unsafe and vulnerable to receive compliments and take them to heart. If we quickly return the energy, we can stay in our comfort zone and we obstruct the intimate and heart-opening growth before us.

The Next Step

Christine Eilvig | Posted 03.22.2013 | Healthy Living
Christine Eilvig

We can only take one step at the time, physically and in life. We can take big steps, which in many ways feel like giant leaps, but we can still only master one big step at the time.

5 Ways To Clean Out The Mental Clutter

Polly Campbell | Posted 05.21.2013 | Healthy Living
Polly Campbell

We all get bogged down, stuck in the same ol' routine, caught up in our feelings of worry and stress that keep us from making progress and enjoying our life. But you can let go of this mental rubbish, and lighten up your life this spring.

Do You Self-Sabotage? 5 Steps To Stop Getting In The Way Of Your Dreams

Posted 02.08.2013 | Healthy Living

By Sam Ferrigno for HooplaHa.com Imagine that we actualize a dream: A mate to start a family with, a job that challenges and fulfills us or even a...

Don't Sabotage Your New Year's Resolution Efforts Before You've Even Started: 6 Simple Steps

Ann Rasmussen | Posted 03.02.2013 | Healthy Living
Ann Rasmussen

If we come at New Year's resolutions with a teeth-gritted determination to change, we inevitably defeat ourselves. Why? Because when we assume a fighting stance, bracing ourselves against temptations, we actually limit the resources that we bring to our challenge.

4 Ways To Beat Writer Self-Sabotage

Posted 12.12.2012 | Books

By Writer's Relief staff: Writers are faced with the task of completing pieces of poetry and prose with not much to guide them but raw talent and ...

Breaking Through a Student's Self-sabotage

Jessica Minahan | Posted 01.29.2013 | Home
Jessica Minahan

"Good job!" rolls off our tongues throughout the day, and most students are pleased to hear this positive reinforcement. But what do we do when a student rejects -- or even sabotages -- our praise?

How You're Sabotaging Yourself At Work

Posted 10.31.2012 | OWN

By J.I. Baker Like all of us, he's been stymied, thwarted and undermined. Yet, not only has he lived to tell the tale -- he's also found smart stra...

Tales Of A Pre-Quarter Life Crisis: Big City, Big Problems

Braden Bochner | Posted 11.06.2012 | Teen
Braden Bochner

We're all pros at putting up those gates, we've all been hurt before. We've programmed ourselves to burn the bridge before we can even build it.

Are You Tricking Yourself Out of Love?

Lisa Firestone | Posted 10.21.2012 | Healthy Living
Lisa Firestone

To be able to recognize and separate from destructive voices, we must first recognize that many thoughts we regard as our own point of view may not really be representative of our true self.

5 Characteristics That Can Distinguish Success From Failure

Eldon Taylor | Posted 10.01.2012 | Healthy Living
Eldon Taylor

What does it take to maximize your income potential at a time when the economy seems uncertain? What does it take to secure some cushion of comfort that promotes peace of mind? If you're like many people today, financial concerns top the list of worries.

Is Your Need for Attention Ruining Everyone Else's Life?

Lisa Haisha | Posted 10.01.2012 | Healthy Living
Lisa Haisha

The narcissist is arguably the most noticeable in the impostor family because it doesn't just expect the spotlight -- this impostor demands it.

Why Thinking Isn't Always Good

Lisa Haisha | Posted 08.29.2012 | Healthy Living
Lisa Haisha

It's a good idea to think things through, especially for major decisions. But sometimes people over-think a situation, even when the decision is relat...

IAMEVE: Exclusive Premiere of the Single "Self Sabotage"

J.L. Sirisuk | Posted 08.07.2012 | Los Angeles
J.L. Sirisuk

June 6 saw the release of Los Angeles based IAMEVE's third single off her concept album The Everything Nothing. The latest single, "Self Sabotage," takes us on the next chapter of our heroine's personal transformation as she continues along a path of self-destruction to self-love.

Do You Mistake Sex-Esteem for Self-Esteem?

Lisa Haisha | Posted 07.31.2012 | Healthy Living
Lisa Haisha

It's always fun to be with someone living a vibrant and exciting life, but sometimes these people are acting out from deep-rooted self-esteem issues.

Is Your Humor Hurting People?

Lisa Haisha | Posted 07.22.2012 | Healthy Living
Lisa Haisha

There's someone in every family and group of friends who always has a joke ready for any situation. Being able to see the funny moments in any situation can be a great quality, but sometimes the laughter is really meant to cover deep negative emotions.

How To Put An End To 'Self-Sabotage'

Forbes Woman | Posted 04.27.2012 | Women

You're frustrated. You feel stuck in a repetitive motion, running at a crazy pace on a hamster wheel-getting nowhere-and perhaps even running the w...

How to Succeed in Business by Spiritually Trying

Walter E. Jacobson, M.D. | Posted 10.15.2011 | Healthy Living
Walter E. Jacobson, M.D.

We can be masters of our fate or victims of our fears, fantasies and foolishness. We can recognize that everything we've tried hasn't worked, so we best do something different.

Fighting The Temptation Of 'I Don't Feel Like It'

Penny Love | Posted 09.06.2011 | Healthy Living
Penny Love

One way to get yourself moving is by using what I call self-backtalk. You have to learn to respond to that voice in your head.

How To Silence That Self-Critical Voice

Robert Leahy, Ph.D. | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Robert Leahy, Ph.D.

Everyone can stand up and put down the voice that puts them down. Here are five steps for answering the voice within you that has made you feel so bad.

How Sticking With The Familiar Could Hurt You

Wray Herbert | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Wray Herbert

Clearly, these gut feelings are untrustworthy. Not only is familiarity a maladaptive guide to what's beneficial, it can lead to choices that actually exacerbate stress -- increasing the likelihood of more poor judgments.

How to Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships

New Harbinger | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
New Harbinger

what if you can't stop feeling insecure no matter how deeply your partner tries to reassure you? Over time, he or she will be angry at you for invalidating the caring that was supposed to make you better.

What Is Really Keeping You From Your Success?

Holly Sidell | Posted 05.25.2011 | Los Angeles
Holly Sidell

I had a conversation with someone over sushi last night about what success means to us, what we want to achieve, and why we haven't achieved those things yet.