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Sex and Dating

8 Ways to Make Long Distance Work

Liz Riggs | Posted 03.27.2013 | Comedy
Liz Riggs

People who claim to be in long distance relationships and only see each other once a month (or less) are, in fact, much closer to living in a Monastery than they are to being in love.

It'll Happen When You Stop Looking

Kate Mirkin | Posted 03.25.2013 | Women
Kate Mirkin

Stop with the lectures. No more clichƩs. Don't tell me I'm going to find love when I'm not looking for it, because I refuse to give up. And don't tell me that I have to love myself first -- it's because I love myself that I will not stop looking.

Relationship Advice: Stop The Blame Game

Lisa Firestone | Posted 04.05.2013 | Healthy Living
Lisa Firestone

We can think about what sets us off and what patterns are at play in our relationships. In doing so, we can accept that every couple is just two people with two sovereign minds and two stories that made us who we are today. We can have respect for those differences and compassion when confronting each other's defenses.

It's Time to Bring Back Some Kindness to Dating

Kira Sabin | Posted 03.26.2013 | Healthy Living
Kira Sabin

If you are single and out there meeting people, mingling, texting, hanging out, making out or any other form of general dating, falling off the face of the earth is not an option.

5 Online Dating New Year's Resolutions Worth Keeping

Julie Spira | Posted 01.03.2013 | Style
Julie Spira

Little-by-little, finding love online ends up moving down on the totem pole on your list of daily activities. Here are five simple dating resolutions I think you'll be able to keep, while casting your wide net.

How Writing 'The List' (of People I've Slept With) Helped Me Get Ready For The New Year

Jill Di Donato | Posted 01.03.2013 | Women
Jill Di Donato

Usually reserved for bad rom-coms, frat boys and women who are just becoming familiar with the idea that they will probably sleep with multiple people before finding "The One," The List actually taught me a couple things about myself.

The Pursuit of Perfection

Jessica Baca | Posted 02.27.2013 | Style
Jessica Baca

What if we had a second date? Would that require another round of intensive prep... was this my new normal? I was conflicted: struggling to find the fine line between contrived and authentic while maintaining my confidence.

What Women Want: Fun, Creative Guys

Sadie Dingfelder | Posted 02.10.2013 | Style
Sadie Dingfelder

What do women want? It's really not a mystery anymore, thanks to the burgeoning area of sexual selection research. To attract the attention of the females of the species, all you need to do is...

What Single Moms Can Teach Us About Dating

Neely Steinberg | Posted 08.29.2012 | Women
Neely Steinberg

It occurred to me while watching The Bachelorette the other night that single moms make the kinds of smart dating decisions that single, childless women might want to emulate.

Why So Bleak?

Andrew Smiler | Posted 06.04.2012 | Women
Andrew Smiler

Girls talk about relationships almost exclusively with other girls or women. Boys get to figure it out for themselves, leading the sexes to different levels of understanding about relationships.

How To Get Your Stuff Back After A Breakup

Jezebel | Posted 03.02.2012 | Women

One of the worst parts of a breakup is when you come to from the initial crying and yelling and flouncing off and realize that your can opener/DVD pla...

The Inequity Leading Young Women To Make Dangerous Decisions

| Jessica Grose | Posted 03.02.2012 | Women

By Jessica Grose (Click here for original story) There's a new study from the Journal of Adolescent Health that shows that teenage girls whose prim...

How To Date A Wall Street (Or Just Really Successful) Woman

Jessica Pearce Rotondi | Posted 04.11.2012 | Women
Jessica Pearce Rotondi

Wall Street isn't as popular as it used to be. A more useful guide would help the Finance Men catch -- and, if he's lucky, keep -- a smart, interesting, successful woman.

The Disappearing Date

Alexis Sclamberg | Posted 04.05.2012 | Women
Alexis Sclamberg

What's going on in the dating world that it's become acceptable to just disappear?

Is Sexting Sexy?

Posted 01.18.2012 | Women

To sext or not to sext? Despite the Anthony Weiner scandal, the most compelling example ever of how wrong sexually explicit digital communication can ...

Your Guide To Safe Sexting

SELF | Posted 01.03.2012 | Women

Ninety-two percent of women say they exchange sexy texts. But sexting can be as perilous as it is popular. Learn how to, ahem, give good phone....

The Best Reason To Spend Your Single Time On You

Sophie Keller | Posted 02.06.2012 | Women
Sophie Keller

What are the things that you have always wanted to do but either haven't had the time to do or have even been scared to do? Now's the time to do them!

Matchmaker in the Know: Rules About Sex When Dating

Samantha Daniels | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Samantha Daniels

Have you ever wondered if there are any real rules about sex when you are dating? dating? Here's what I know...