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Stop 'Shoulding' Yourself: How To Rid Imaginary Obligations

Nancy Colier | Posted 05.21.2013 | Healthy Living
Nancy Colier

What are we afraid will happen if we stop "shoulding" all over ourselves? We have been taught, mistakenly, that if we don't "should" ourselves into action, we will become like those giant sloths that hang on trees -- inert. If not controlled, we would be unkind, ungrateful, un-generous, unproductive and every other "un" you can think of.

Stop 'Should-ing' On Yourself

Mike Robbins | Posted 11.05.2012 | Healthy Living
Mike Robbins

When we stop "should-ing" on ourselves, we're less motivated by guilt, fear, and shame and can choose to be inspired by authentic desire, commitment, and freedom.

Maybe You Should Have

Dr. Susan Corso | Posted 07.24.2011 | Healthy Living
Dr. Susan Corso

We have so many shoulds. And shouldn'ts. Life shouldn't be this. People shouldn't do that. I should never have. You fill in your own blanks.