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Solitude

Slowing Down to Wake Up

Mitch Ditkoff | Posted 04.03.2013 | Books
Mitch Ditkoff

In today's hyper-caffeinated, attention deficit-disordered world, most of us long for a pause button powerful enough to stop more than just our electronic devices. Like our endlessly spinning hard disk of a brain, for example. Or the downward spiral of the economy.

7 Reasons Spending Time Alone Is Good For You

The Huffington Post | Carolyn Gregoire | Posted 01.22.2013 | Teen

Despite social biases against solitude and introverted personality traits, many find that spending time alone can be an enjoyable thing -- and in fact...

What Happens When I'm Left Alone for 12 Days

Laverne H. Bardy | Posted 03.10.2013 | Fifty
Laverne H. Bardy

Marc visited his family in San Diego for the Christmas holidays. I was invited to accompany him but opted for twelve glorious days of soul-searching, stress-free solitude and serenity.

Yule: Be The Light Of The Returning Sun

Teo Bishop | Posted 02.19.2013 | Religion
Teo Bishop

I would like for us to redeem ourselves to each other, to come to terms with the distance we put between us and our neighbors, to release ourselves from indifference, to recognize that our lives are indelibly interconnected.

6 Signs You’re Spending Too Much Time Alone

Ruth Baron | Posted 11.28.2012 | OWN

By Ruth Baron There’s a fine line between enjoying peace and quiet and forgetting how to live in a world that includes other people. ...

Staying Awake (A Video From Sounds True)

Mark Nepo | Posted 01.20.2013 | Healthy Living
Mark Nepo

No one can be awake all the time. We sleep and wake and go back to sleep. We're clear, then confused, then wide-eyed again. We feel safe, then nervous, then at peace again. It makes being human a practice of return.

Hooked From Above

Mark Nepo | Posted 01.14.2013 | Healthy Living
Mark Nepo

I used to feel inconsistent, because my moods would change. I'd want solitude, then when alone, couldn't wait to be with others. I'd want to be still and walk slowly through the woods, but once there for a while, couldn't wait to hear live music.

Facebook's Awkward Management Trend

The Huffington Post | Britney Fitzgerald | Posted 08.27.2012 | Technology

"The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude," writer Aldous Huxley once said. Silicon Valley...

Reactivity and the Death of Intention

Alex Charfen | Posted 10.22.2012 | Technology
Alex Charfen

It is nearly impossible for us to reach our goals through the constant reacting to other people. Instead of starting the day with email or Facebook, start it deliberately, in solitude and away from all of those reactive devices.

The Need for Silence

Terry Newell | Posted 09.11.2012 | Home
Terry Newell

We have filled our lives with sound, and we are often richer for it. Yet, like any strength pushed too far, our love affair with sounds can become a weakness.

The Silent Leader

Brian Tolle | Posted 08.06.2012 | Business
Brian Tolle

How does one come to know one's own mind? Simply and laboriously, through education, trial, reflection, and meditation, whether religious or secular. And the primary conditions for thoughtfulness are silence and stillness.

Thoughts on a Mother's Life -- and Death

Gigi Levangie Grazer | Posted 07.21.2012 | Women
Gigi Levangie Grazer

I want to say this to women, especially to mothers who've lost themselves, gone through a bad marriage, a bad divorce and are worried about being an imperfect parent...

Isolated on an Island, Dealing With Grief

Lea Lane | Posted 06.27.2012 | Healthy Living
Lea Lane

Alone on the cliffs of Grand Manan Island overlooking the misty Bay of Fundy, I didn't feel any lonelier than I did anywhere else. I felt peaceful. I missed my husband, but now I felt his presence more clearly in my memories.

Feeling Lonely? You're Not Alone

Alexis Sclamberg | Posted 06.23.2012 | Women
Alexis Sclamberg

Solitude can be nourishing and nurturing. It offers space for reflection -- the chance to hear your own voice against a world of chatter.

Why Are So Many Women Living Alone

The New Yorker | Posted 04.09.2012 | Women

As reliably as autumn brings Orion to the night sky, spring each year sends a curious constellation to the multiplex: a minor cluster of romantic come...

Are You An Introverted Or Extroverted Parent?

Lisa Belkin | Posted 06.08.2012 | Parents
Lisa Belkin

How does an extrovert respectfully raise an introvert? How does an introverted parent not become overwhelmed by an extroverted child?

Alone For The Holidays? How To Make The Most Of Solitude

The Huffington Post | Kate Bratskeir | Posted 04.07.2012 | Healthy Living

Holidays have been etched into the our calendars as moments we "should" be sharing with friends and family. But sometimes, for one reason or another (...

Being Alone and Loving It...

Nikki Luongo | Posted 05.15.2012 | Healthy Living
Nikki Luongo

During the 1950s, when actress Greta Garbo walked away from her very lucrative movie career and become nearly reclusive in New York City, she establis...

Don't Dis(miss) The Red Hats

Pamela Poole | Posted 03.04.2012 | Fifty
Pamela Poole

This is the scene: My diminutive, white-haired, almost-70 mother walking through a hotel parking lot in San Diego one morning in a purple satin kimono with ostrich feather trim over boxer shorts and a t-shirt that says "Put on your big girl panties and deal with it!" Plus red cowboy boots and a red cowboy hat.

Solitude: Alone or on the iPhone

Stanton Peele | Posted 02.21.2012 | Healthy Living
Stanton Peele

Human beings are social animals -- they are also solitary ones. Many things in modern life are done alone, even within well-integrated families and social groups.

Face Your Pace: It's OK To Slow Down

D.G. Fulford | Posted 01.18.2012 | Fifty
D.G. Fulford

The epiphany of pace takes place in the oddest of spaces when you aren't raising kids or grandkids, or taking care of an aging parents anymore. When you are alone, you begin to notice.

Longing For Silence And Solitude

Elizabeth Cunningham | Posted 01.11.2012 | Home
Elizabeth Cunningham

In most places in our industrialized world it is impossible to be out of range of machine noise. I am homesick for a place that may not exist any longer.

Ramadan Reflection Day 13: The Blessing Of Solitude

Imam Khalid Latif | Posted 10.13.2011 | Religion
Imam Khalid Latif

Moments of solitude are important depending on how we use them. It's very different seeking solitude in order to remove yourself from frustration versus seeking solitude to grow and develop as you reflect upon and contemplate the world around you and how you fit into it.

The Joy Of Solitude

Erin Joy Henry | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Erin Joy Henry

Being in solitude rather than loneliness is a choice, and we are ultimately in charge of our minds. I believe that the freedom found in solitude will support love.

Chasing Daylight: Some Thoughts on Mortality

Chris Guillebeau | Posted 05.25.2011 | Books
Chris Guillebeau

Last Acts and Chasing Daylight serve as good reminders that we don't always get to choose how things turn out, so it's important to be deliberate in the things we do have control over.