It's very difficult to describe a disease and the overall toll it takes as in my case of stage IV breast cancer.

It is so very unconscionable to falsely inspire the hopes of average humans like my father, my family, his friends, and my breast cancer community.

Since I have been allowed this extra time my passion is now helping others who have just been diagnosed with cancer. Nine years later I hope to continue to make a difference. I am so blessed and grateful. I have put my puzzle all together and now I can put it to rest.

Please remember Oct. 13 throughout year. Those of us who suffer with Stage IV breast cancer want others to become aware of our disease. In so doing, we may not have to wait another 40 years before finding a cure.