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The 3 Lies We Tell Ourselves About Mother's Day

Barbara Goldberg | Posted 05.08.2013 | Divorce
Barbara Goldberg

It is that dreaded time of year for stepmothers everywhere -- Mother's Day. It is reasonable that children spend Mother's Day with their mother. Meanwhile, stepmothers are left to justify why they do not care about Mother's Day.

A Stepmom's Secret Confession

Jenna Korf | Posted 04.16.2013 | Divorce
Jenna Korf

Stepmoms, do you find yourself up against a mental block when it comes to cleaning up after your stepchild or nurturing her?

A Stepchild’s Sad Confession

Mary T. Kelly, M.A. | Posted 03.22.2013 | Divorce
Mary T. Kelly, M.A.

Having a "blended" family isn't a sign of success, but children who know they are seen for who they are, understood and their feelings respected, is.

The Secret To Being A Great Stepmom

Tracy E. Clifford | Posted 11.19.2012 | Divorce
Tracy E. Clifford

My mother and I grew up in divorced homes, and we endured the experience of having both stepmothers and stepfathers. This was, of course, a situation neither of us desired as children, and it caused us both to deal with a great amount of adjustment as adults.

What Kind of Impact Are You Making on Your Kids?

Kathy Kaehler | Posted 07.07.2012 | Parents
Kathy Kaehler

What we do now as parents is going to play out in our kids' lives later on. I witnessed this in something that just happened with my teens.

Bubba and Me

Don McNay | Posted 06.09.2012 | Sports
Don McNay

Bubba's wife and son couldn't make the Masters ceremony. Instead they get the rest of their lives to have Bubba in his role as an adoptive dad. It's not as exclusive as being a Masters winner but in making any impact on the world, it's more important.

WATCH: How To Stay Connected To Your Stepkids Post-Divorce

Posted 04.05.2012 | Divorce

Video by Janie Lacy for YourTango Are you getting divorced? Do you love your stepchildren as if they were your own? Are you afraid that the end o...

What it Means to be a 'Mature Mom'

Ann Blumenthal Jacobs | Posted 05.21.2012 | Fifty
Ann Blumenthal Jacobs

Mom was in her late 30s when I was born. In the suburbs of the 50s, that could have gone down in Ripley's Believe it or Not, but, it was dealt with directly -- she lied about her age.

How Much Money Should You Give Your Step Kids?

Suzanna de Baca | Posted 04.29.2012 | Divorce
Suzanna de Baca

Today, blended families are a dime a dozen, but the politics and etiquette of paying for stepchildren is still unique to each family. Which parent pays for what -- and for whom -- can be complicated.

In Praise of Stepfamilies

Janice Van Dyck | Posted 10.11.2011 | Parents
Janice Van Dyck

Stepparents have bad reputations. Just ask Cinderella and Snow White. But from my arguably unenviable position of stepmother, I'd like to talk about the better side of stepfamilies.

English Lacks Vocabulary for Safe Discussion of Stepchildren

Tony Phillips | Posted 09.25.2011 | Weird News
Tony Phillips

English, in all its richness and intricacy, includes no safe vocabulary for talking about one's stepchildren, not, at any rate, if one is talking about one's stepchildren to their mother.

Confessions Of A Wicked Step-Mother

Nina Lorez Collins | Posted 09.20.2011 | Divorce
Nina Lorez Collins

When I got married, at twenty-three, I became a stepmother to a seven-year-old-boy. I'd known Jonah since he was four, and his parents had divorced wh...

When Guilty Father Syndrome Threatens Your Marriage

Donna Estes Antebi | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Donna Estes Antebi

The greatest challenge to a second marriage is not usually direct conflict with the stepchildren, but rather, conflict over the parenting of the stepchildren, especially if the new husband suffers from Guilty Father Syndrome.

How To Deal With An Out-Of-Control Stepdaughter

Susan Stiffelman | Posted 05.25.2011 | Divorce
Susan Stiffelman

Dear AdviceMama, My stepdaughter recently moved in with her mom because she disrespected everyone here, especially her dad. She hits him, curses at h...

The Holidays: How Stepfamilies Can Be Happier

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Wednesday Martin

Stepfamilies often experience extraordinary stress as the holidays--with their pressure cooker of "family" expectations--get underway. So, let go of the Three Big Myths of Stepfamily life.

10 Parenting Tips Every Stepmom Must Know

Rachelle Katz | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Rachelle Katz

Being a stepmother can be one of the most challenging roles in society, and one that often receives little support, understanding, and appreciation from others.

Let's Stop Expecting Sandra Bullock to Be a Stepmartyr

Wednesday Martin | Posted 05.25.2011 | Entertainment
Wednesday Martin

Many women suffer from what I call Stepmartyr Syndrome--embracing the notion that they are going to make it all better for everyone, whatever the cost to them personally.

What Every Stepparent Needs To Know About Stepmonsters

Donna Estes Antebi | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Donna Estes Antebi

Most of these exasperated stepmothers don't understand that children who turn them into stepmonsters often do it as a coping mechanism because their little hearts have been ripped out by divorce.

Stepfamilies To Uncle Sam: Learn To Count!

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Wednesday Martin

We're hearing a lot about the new U.S. Census these days and many might wonder what, precisely, is at stake. For stepfamilies, the answer is: quite a bit.

John McCain and Barack Obama -- America's First Campaign Where Divorce May Be a Good Experience for Leadership Skills

Jill Brooke | Posted 05.25.2011 | Politics
Jill Brooke

Being in a divorced household is like living in two countries, with two different sets of traditions, rules and expectations. Brokering peace becomes a necessity. And some do it better than others.