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The 3 Lies We Tell Ourselves About Mother's Day

Barbara Goldberg | Posted 05.08.2013 | Divorce
Barbara Goldberg

It is that dreaded time of year for stepmothers everywhere -- Mother's Day. It is reasonable that children spend Mother's Day with their mother. Meanwhile, stepmothers are left to justify why they do not care about Mother's Day.

Relationship Status with Mom: It's Complicated

Penney Berryman | Posted 05.07.2013 | Women
Penney Berryman

You love your Mom... and you find her alternatively infuriating and embarrassing, irreplaceable and overly dramatic, irksome and endearing. As far as I know, Hallmark hasn't yet created a line of cards expressing familial disharmony.

My Stepson Is a Marine

Judy Osborne | Posted 05.07.2013 | Divorce
Judy Osborne

There are few guidelines for stepmothers and stepfathers about how to understand child development or to parent effectively, instantly. They jump into middle of a kid's development and try to make sense of it. Usually with little support.

16 Ways To Be A Better Stepparent

Posted 03.28.2013 | Divorce

When you marry someone with kids, it's understandable to want to win over your new stepkids quickly. But the road to a stable relationship with your s...

How To Win Over Your Stepkids

Posted 03.26.2013 | Divorce

It's a rare stepparent who hasn't tried, in their own way, to win over their stepkids. Whether it was snapping up two Justin Bieber concert tickets or...

Why Is It So Hard Being A Step-Parent?

Henry Gornbein | Posted 02.13.2013 | Divorce
Henry Gornbein

Think of the fact that nearly 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriages. Why is this? He...

Life As A Bonus Mom, From Trisha Yearwood (WATCH)

Posted 12.10.2012 | MarloThomas

When Trisha Yearwood joined me on Mondays With Marlo, we had an interesting chat about her role as a stepmother. Trisha told me that she prefers to ca...

Why Does Society Hate Stepmoms?

Elisabeth Gruner | Posted 08.06.2012 | Divorce
Elisabeth Gruner

Once Upon a Time and the other stepmother tales suggest that, as a culture, we may still harbor deep anxieties about non-biological mothers.

The Title of Mom

Kristen Houghton | Posted 07.10.2012 | Women
Kristen Houghton

Like the title of "Queen," mother is a name you have for life.

Why Single Moms Aren’t 'Heroes'

Vicki Larson | Posted 07.08.2012 | Divorce
Vicki Larson

As we slide into Mother's Day, it's clear that we're somewhat murky on what we're celebrating. Somehow, we moms are revered and problematic at the same time, and some are more problematic than others.

I Want Breakfast in Bed! When is Stepmother's Day?

Raina Wallens | Posted 05.08.2012 | Parents
Raina Wallens

It's stepparents -- the very people who don't actually have an official day -- who could, well, kind of use one.

Natasha Burton

Why Stepmoms Get Shafted On Mother's Day

HuffingtonPost.com | Natasha Burton | Posted 05.05.2012 | Divorce

To stepmother Judy Osborne, Mother’s Day is ā€œthe hardest day of the year.ā€ Osborne, a Brookline, Mass.-based marriage and family therapist, ...

What it Means to be a 'Mature Mom'

Ann Blumenthal Jacobs | Posted 05.21.2012 | Fifty
Ann Blumenthal Jacobs

Mom was in her late 30s when I was born. In the suburbs of the 50s, that could have gone down in Ripley's Believe it or Not, but, it was dealt with directly -- she lied about her age.

The Case Against "Stepmother"

Joel Schwartzberg | Posted 11.29.2011 | Parents
Joel Schwartzberg

What message does the word "stepmother" convey more clearly than "You're NOT a mother"? And why does a father's new wife need to be contextualized in relation to the mother at all? It declares a winner... as if society doesn't already halo moms over non-moms enough.

Confessions Of A Wicked Step-Mother

Nina Lorez Collins | Posted 09.20.2011 | Divorce
Nina Lorez Collins

When I got married, at twenty-three, I became a stepmother to a seven-year-old-boy. I'd known Jonah since he was four, and his parents had divorced wh...

Cops: Son Couldn't Conceal Parents' Murders With Car Crash Cover-Up

AP | JOE MANDAK | Posted 09.13.2011 | Crime

SLIPPERY ROCK, Pa. — A man killed his father and stepmother in western Pennsylvania, then tried to cover up the slayings with a story claiming t...

Do Stepmoms Get Short Shrift On Mother's Day?

cnn.com | Posted 07.04.2011 | Divorce

Mother's Day is a sad occasion for many, but not all of the 15 million U.S. stepmothers who have stepchildren under the age of 18. As it approaches...

Are Divorced Parents Doomed To Die Alone?

Vicki Larson | Posted 06.12.2011 | Divorce
Vicki Larson

I wouldn't say that I'd been cocky about my aging parents -- I knew at some point they would pass. But for a long time, as I watched my friends strugg...

How To Make Your Second Wife Feel Special On Valentine's Day

Joel Schwartzberg | Posted 05.25.2011 | Divorce
Joel Schwartzberg

Old habits die hard, but when it comes to Valentine's Day traditions you had with a former spouse, die they must. When you're in a subsequent marriag...

Being A 'Step' Still Carries A Stigma

washingtonpost.com | Carol Morello | Posted 05.25.2011 | Divorce

Call them blended families, bonus families or para-kin. Just don't call them stepfamilies. The term -- seared into our consciousness through fairy tal...

Honor Thy Stepmother: 6 Things Remarried Dads Owe Their New Wives

Joel Schwartzberg | Posted 05.25.2011 | Divorce
Joel Schwartzberg

The stepmother is probably the least-defined role in the contemporary family structure: She is a parent, yet not the parent. A caregiver but not alway...

The Holidays: How Stepfamilies Can Be Happier

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Wednesday Martin

Stepfamilies often experience extraordinary stress as the holidays--with their pressure cooker of "family" expectations--get underway. So, let go of the Three Big Myths of Stepfamily life.

10 Parenting Tips Every Stepmom Must Know

Rachelle Katz | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Rachelle Katz

Being a stepmother can be one of the most challenging roles in society, and one that often receives little support, understanding, and appreciation from others.

Let's Stop Expecting Sandra Bullock to Be a Stepmartyr

Wednesday Martin | Posted 05.25.2011 | Entertainment
Wednesday Martin

Many women suffer from what I call Stepmartyr Syndrome--embracing the notion that they are going to make it all better for everyone, whatever the cost to them personally.

Stepmother Sisterhood: The Pros and Cons of Online Support

Rachelle Katz | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Rachelle Katz

As a psychotherapist and stepmother, I know from both personal and professional experience the difficulties faced by many stepmothers. Have you considered joining a support group?