A Meatless Thanksgiving
No one wants a turkey-less Thanksgiving. I resigned myself to a meal at someone else's house, cringing at the sight of a gravy-dripping bird proudly displayed in the center of a dining room table.
No one wants a turkey-less Thanksgiving. I resigned myself to a meal at someone else's house, cringing at the sight of a gravy-dripping bird proudly displayed in the center of a dining room table.
Tina Traster | Posted 10.27.2009 | Living
Certain things are beyond your control when you become a parent. You lose sleep, worry a lot and embrace Halloween, even if it is your least favorite holiday.
James Block | Posted 10.21.2009 | Entertainment
That Mad Men chronicles the rise of contemporary advertising should be our first warning. The fantasy machine that propels the American consumer culture achieves this leverage simply with make believe.
Tina Traster | Posted 10.14.2009 | Living
A few weeks into kindergarten I felt air leak from my chest every time I picked my daughter up. A bunch of tattooed, nose-ringed counselors did little more than supervise a band a wilding children.
Tina Traster | Posted 10.01.2009 | Living
Who among us wouldn't thrill at the idea of humiliating not only a man who is behind on child support but inadvertently shaming his children, who would get to watch him collared on national television?
Tina Traster | Posted 09.24.2009 | Living
In America, fathers who can't pay child support are "deadbeats" rather than men who have become overwhelmed or sabotaged by unreasonable financial obligations ordered by family court judges.
Tina Traster | Posted 11.15.2009 | Living
The sweet yeasty aroma rising from the blessed creation stimulated my salivary glands and my memory. As I reached toward the loaf to tear off an end my husband tapped my hand as though I were an impetuous child: "No," he said, "You've got to wait for it to cool." I really was back in the kitchen with grandma, being taught the virtue of patience.
Tina Traster | Posted 10.18.2009 | Living
I saw myself gazing in the mirror, trying on Woodstock, and liking it.
Lita Smith-Mines | Posted 10.17.2009 | Business
In a formerly rural part of Long Island, many bountiful farm stands used to flourish. Now there are very few, as the land that had produced the harvests was sold during past abundant years to builders and developers.
Tina Traster | Posted 09.19.2009 | Living
When my husband suggested we take our seven-year-old daughter to see a local performance of Beauty and the Beast, I had to duel with my demons. Community theater? Me? "Shouldn't I rear my daughter on the Great White Way of Broadway plays and musicals?
Tina Traster | Posted 09.12.2009 | Living
Not playing by the rules is dicey in suburbia where children are raised in a culture of uniformity. I don't let my daughter go to birthday parties at Chuck E. Cheese or eat cafeteria school food or watch television during the week. This makes her different. This makes us different.
Tina Traster | Posted 09.05.2009 | Living
I have a thing for rescue. Put in certain circumstances I act before I think, especially when crises involve animals. It's a reflex.
Tina Traster | Posted 08.29.2009 | Living
Nothing could have frightened me more than moving out to suburbia with a man who was never home. I was too young and jaded to picture myself in the isolation of a commuter town.
Tina Traster | Posted 08.23.2009 | Living
I was once mentally and physically asphyxiated by my long-held beliefs that the sticks were filled with people who stopped going to independent films and who ate dinner before 7.
Dan Persons | Posted 08.02.2009 | Entertainment
Los Bastardos is a spare and brutal survey of the suburban wasteland.
nytimes.com | ALEC APPELBAUM | Posted 08.01.2009 | Green
From Vermont to central California, developers are creating subdivisions around organic farms to attract buyers. If you plant it, these developers bel...
Jane Minogue | Posted 06.06.2009 | Style
At the checkout in front of me was a frail, elderly lady in a gray sweat suit. Her liver-spotted hands shook as she put 2 jugs of wine onto the counter. One red, one white. Her drugs of choice.
Lita Smith-Mines | Posted 05.08.2009 | Style
I am wistful not because I miss Georgia's split pea soup (though I truly do), but because I'm expecting that such gleeful times in places like Deities may never occur again.
Lauren Cahn | Posted 09.26.2008 | Living
We moms find ourselves racing out of meetings, tearing off our tennis outfits, throwing down the great American novel we were writing. Mom is gone. In her place: The Chauffeur.
Martin Nolan | Posted 06.12.2008 | Politics
Barack Obama is pressured by Hillary Clinton to select her as VP, a mathematical question arises: why would he choose someone whom record numbers of Democrats have voted against?
Tina Traster | Posted 11.12.2009 | Living