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Suffering

Hit and Run

Amy Oraefo | Posted 06.04.2013 | Healthy Living
Amy Oraefo

Pain is relative and suffering is optional. Do not choose to suffer through anything in silence. Who knows, you could be the driving force responsible for assisting a person in completely recovering or even avoiding their next personal crisis.

You Do Not Have to Suffer

Morty Lefkoe | Posted 05.30.2013 | Healthy Living
Morty Lefkoe

Because it is the meaning we give events that produces most of our suffering, by no longer giving meaning to events, you can stop your suffering.

Who Invented Memorial Day?

Jim Downs | Posted 05.27.2013 | Politics
Jim Downs

As America recognizes the 150th anniversary of the Emancipation Proclaimation, we would do well to revisit the origins of Memorial Day among freedpeople in Charleston.

It Shouldn't Be as Painful as It Is

Stephenie Zamora | Posted 05.24.2013 | Healthy Living
Stephenie Zamora

If you're experiencing pain on any level, I want you to take a good look at the level of resistance that you may be creating. Where do you need to face your problems head on? Where do you need to accept them? And where do you need to release?

Answering God's Call

Chief Rabbi Lord Sacks | Posted 05.18.2013 | Religion
Chief Rabbi Lord Sacks

In crisis, the wrong question to ask is, "What have I done to deserve this?" The right one is, "What am I now being summoned to do?" Each of us has a task. Every life has a purpose. We can bear the pain of the past when we discover the future we are called on to make.

Complain to Me, Please!

Jane Roper | Posted 05.16.2013 | Healthy Living
Jane Roper

Perspective is important. We should all keep in mind that our problems could be worse, and that all suffering is relative. This can help us feel less overwhelmed by our own challenges, more grateful for our many blessings, and more compelled to empathize with and help others.

Right View: Seeing The World Through Buddha's Eyes

Lewis Richmond | Posted 05.15.2013 | Religion
Lewis Richmond

Seeing the world through Buddha's eyes is the work of a lifetime, one that constantly needs to be renewed at every life stage and in every societal circumstance.

Recognize Suffering in Others

Rick Hanson, Ph.D. | Posted 05.13.2013 | Healthy Living
Rick Hanson, Ph.D.

Watch and listen to those closest to you. What's hurting over there? Face it, even if you have to admit that you are one of its causes. If appropriate, ask some questions, and talk about the answers.

The Pain of Others

Marjorie Faulstich Orellana | Posted 05.13.2013 | Los Angeles
Marjorie Faulstich Orellana

How can we feel not just the pain of mothers who look like people we love, or who live in places that look like places we know, but the pain of all people everywhere -- including our presumed enemies?

Is God Guilty?

Rabbi Levi Welton | Posted 05.01.2013 | Religion
Rabbi Levi Welton

If God is so Great, why can't He just create a world without any pain whatsoever? I don't want people to stop talking to God. I'm not even angry at God for something terrible like cancer. I just want people to think.

Why Does God Allow Evil?

Deepak Chopra | Posted 04.22.2013 | Religion
Deepak Chopra

Every senseless, horrific act of violence brings up the question of good vs. evil, and when you read that children have died by violence there's even more reason to shudder and doubt.

Dear God, Do You Ever Get Discouraged?

Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry | Posted 06.16.2013 | Religion
Rev. Ruth Hawley-Lowry

My heart is breaking. I wept when I heard of the bombs in Boston. My heart had been celebrating before the news, but even that joy is tinged with sorrow.

Getting Through Your Gethsemanes

Robert C. Crosby, D.Min. | Posted 06.11.2013 | Religion
Robert C. Crosby, D.Min.

The final week in Jesus' life included especially great depths and heights: He faced a dark night of the soul in Gethsemane, a torturous cross and, ultimately, a glorious resurrection. Identifying with Jesus in His journey keeps us focused and faithful in ours.

The Magic Of No Self

Mack Paul | Posted 06.09.2013 | Religion
Mack Paul

We experience ourselves as so very real and distinct, and we are so consumed by desire, that the notion that it is all empty is just confusing. But impermanence is actually a wonderful thing.

Treating Depression With Psychiatry And Faith

Christine A. Scheller | Posted 06.08.2013 | Religion
Christine A. Scheller

I encourage patients to continue seeking spiritual support from their pastor or spiritual director and continue finding solace in the Scriptures. Spiritual exercises and practices are perfectly compatible with things like taking a medication and going to psychotherapy. They can all work hand in hand.

When Easter Is No Comfort: A Jesus For The Darkest Times

John Backman | Posted 06.03.2013 | Religion
John Backman

Not only does God stand with those who are suffering. God also stands with those who are suffering and cannot return the favor. Whether I could drag myself to church made not one iota of difference to this solidarity.

Monday Morning Coming Down

Ron Nikkel | Posted 06.02.2013 | Religion
Ron Nikkel

As I left church following yesterday's service, my heart was filled to overflowing with gratitude and joy. By Monday morning the warm glow of joy and celebration was only a memory as I looked at my schedule and my longer than normal to do list.

The Easter Question

Eben Alexander, M.D. | Posted 05.29.2013 | Religion
Eben Alexander, M.D.

I now find myself regularly confronted with that question I so dreaded as a surgeon: Why did my child die? Though it is asked every day, in every part of the world, by people of countless different faiths, it is a question that for Christians comes into especially sharp focus on Easter.

How Easter And Passover Can Make Your Family Happier

Bruce Feiler | Posted 05.22.2013 | Religion
Bruce Feiler

Over the next week, tens of millions of people will do something so familiar it's easy to forget how radical it is: They will commemorate the worst moments of their past. What rightful people put their most ignoble days at the heart of their identity? The answer: a people that wants to survive.

Why Do Evil and Suffering Exist?

Jeffrey Small | Posted 03.08.2013 | TED Weekends
Jeffrey Small

2013-01-18-TEDplayvideoCan we combine the insights from religion and science in making sense of death and suffering?

And The Oscar Goes To Stories Of Loss And Hope..

Greg Garrett | Posted 04.22.2013 | Religion
Greg Garrett

Great stories make us feel as though we are not alone, and these stories offer us the opportunity to enter into stories of great suffering -- and to cultivate the fervent belief that suffering will somehow, someday, pass.

Animal Shelter Numbers Tell Only a Part of the Story

Ruth Steinberger | Posted 04.10.2013 | Impact
Ruth Steinberger

Shifting our current practice from the collection and dispersal of homeless animals to preventing their births can stop the suffering and abate the need for building or expanding shelters. It can be done.

Kris Carr: Rethinking Your Sense Of Purpose

Kris Carr | Posted 06.06.2013 | Healthy Living
Kris Carr

Just thinking about "finding your purpose" exercises can make folks sweat and pace -- especially this time of year. Like it or not, we're at a precipice. We're being called to leap into new beginnings and all that jazz.

Aging in a Foreign Land: An Elderly Vietnamese Woman Speaks

Andrew Lam | Posted 03.13.2013 | Women
Andrew Lam

Author's note: Growing old in America can mean growing more isolated, and that's particularly tough on immigrants whose home cultures stress strong fa...

Religion’s Most Repellent Idea

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach | Posted 03.17.2013 | Religion
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

Any attempts to infuse suffering with rich meaning shows callous indifference to the heartache of fellow humans. Suffering does not leave us ennobled but broken, morose and bitter.