Tao of Dating

9 Reasons Why Dating Actors is a Bad Idea

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 11.13.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

I've been living in Los Angeles for some years, and have gone out with enough actresses to know what it's really like. If you're seeking a fulfilling relationship, I present to you why dating an actor is a Bad Idea.

Everyday Grace At Trader Joe's: Who You Really Are

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 11.06.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

You're born naked and you leave the same way. Can't take it with you, chief. And if the economic crisis of the past year has taught us anything, it's "easy come, easy go." You can't own stuff.

How to Be a Multiorgasmic Man, Pt 1

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 10.16.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

Just in case it's not patently obvious to you why becoming a multiorgasmic man is a Good Thing, here are some reasons (or just watch the video).

Travel as Therapy, Pt 2: 10 Ways to Heal the Soul & Expand the Mind

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 11.23.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

Your brain is supremely skilled at filtering out the familiar and telling you only about what matters - namely, change. Travel bypasses that filter and awakens your senses by confronting you with the unfamiliar.

The Tao of Dating: 5 Principles to Overcome Any Challenge in Your Love Life

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 08.08.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

I get many letters like this from readers (both male and female): "I met this guy, and he took me to dinner, and it was really romantic, but he did/d...

A Good Day for Gratitude: What's Happening in Iran Now

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 07.19.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

Say a prayer for the youth of Iran in their moment of crisis -- for all the unarmed kids who got beat up and shot at just for wanting to be heard. Pray for their protection, safety and resolve.

The Ten Commandments of Modern Dating

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 06.15.2009 | Style


Dr. Alex Benzer

I've been on the receiving end of enough stories from men and women to notice some consistent patterns of self-sabotage in the mating dance.

How Rich Guys Screw Up Their Chances with Women

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 05.03.2009 | Style


Dr. Alex Benzer

Everyone else assumes that the successful dudes get all the babes, but it turns out that's not always the case. So I had to look into what was going on here.

How to Be A Modern Goddess...According to a Guy

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 04.27.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

I've seen the goddess and know what she looks like. But I don't want you to just listen to me and accept everything I say - if the principles work for you, use them. If not, use something else.

Smart, Meet Heart: 5 Remedies for Smart People's Dating Woes

Dr. Alex Benzer | Posted 04.16.2009 | Living


Dr. Alex Benzer

Dating challenges are not just specific to smart people. They're specific to people in general. Smart, successful folks simply get a little extra wallop of them.