My first instinct was to push harder, get stricter, take away every coveted piece of clothing in her closet--to show her who's boss. But who does that best serve? Her ... or me?

Is it necessary to start caring about aesthetics at such a young age of seven or eight? It seems excessive to take such a young girl to have her leg hair removed. A difference in opinions.

Looking for an inspirational project to participate in with pre-teen or teenage girls? I just found out about a great idea that may interest you.

In my research, what was so startling was how aware all teenage girls were of their mother's hatred of aging. One girl said, "Every time I wrinkle my forehead, my mother points it out and tells me not to."

By taking 13-15 year old girls to a gynecologist before they are sexually active, parents are seizing an opportunity to tell their daughters, I care about your health and I respect you as a person.

In the last year, I joined the Board of Directors of Women's Expressive Theatre and Risk Takers. How could I not get involved? I have a daughter and I want her to know that she is unstoppable.