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Tamar Abrams

Tamar Abrams

Posted: October 31, 2010 08:36 AM

Spendi ng two weeks in Indonesia earlier this month was a delight, despite searing poverty and torrential downpours, the eruption of a volcano, an earthquake and a tsumani nearby. The people were gracious and welcoming, the culture vibrant and the food interesting. It was on my return to Washington that I ran into my arch nemesis: United Airlines.

I managed to leave Jakarta just fine and on time, thanks to Singapore Airlines. On a flight of less than 90 minutes, beautifully clad "stewardesses" - a word they embraced - brought economy class passengers hot towels and a hot meal. We even had a choice between fish and rice or chicken and potatoes. We touched down in Singapore five minutes ahead of schedule, with full bellies and clean hands. I spent the night at the airport transit hotel and, at 5 a.m. headed to the United transfer desk to pick up my boarding passes for my flights to Tokyo and then Dulles Airport in Washington. I was clearly naive.

The United transfer area looked like the seventh ring of Hell in an otherwise empty airport. Toddlers were fussing, elderly passengers appeared to be comatose and two college-age students had buried their heads in their hands. Undeterred, I stepped up to one of the two women behind the desk and cheerfully asked for my boarding pass for flight 804. Miss Chin, the clearly overwhelmed and surly UAL representative, said through clenched teeth, "It is cancelled. You can leave tomorrow." When I inquired as to why it was cancelled, she said, "Mechanical difficulties" in a tone that demanded I back away slowly.

She didn't know that I had a compelling reason to return home as scheduled: My comedy heroes Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert were holding a rally in Washington and I had left a meeting two days early to be among the crowd. But Miss Chin did not seem to follow my reasoning and insisted I go hang out somewhere for another 24 hours. She clearly thought her rudeness would counter my determination. But she had met her match: Soon I boarded a United flight bound for Hong Kong. Sure, I knew it wasn't getting me much closer to Washington but I was counting on the fact that Miss Chin wouldn't be at the transfer desk in Hong Kong. Unfortunately, a close relative of hers was.

I talked my way onto a flight to San Francisco, reasoning that I would at least be on the right continent as my destination. But I paid a high price - the agent informed me that my upgrade to Economy Plus - for which I had paid dearly weeks before - was no longer in play. My requested vegetarian meals were gone and I would have to content myself with a middle seat in the last row of the plane. She told me several times I was lucky they were even putting me on a plane to a state thousands of miles away from my original destination.

So, lucky me, I wedged myself into a middle seat near the busy lavatory and spent 12 hungry hours refusing to eat the chicken or beef that was proffered. Once in San Francisco, I learned that some suspicious packages had been sent from Yemen that day and so I was required to endure two additional TSA screenings in San Francisco. Go Giants! I also learned that United had graciously booked me on a red eye back to Washington that night even though it was only 8:30 a.m. in San Francisco. Apparently Miss Chin's influence crosses the Pacific.

So here I am, finally resting up at home after surviving United Airlines. I missed the Stewart/Colbert rally though I did watch it on Comedy Central. The good news is that United managed to get my suitcase home with me. The bad news is that I ever chose to fly on United in the first place. As we increasingly become global travelers, wouldn't it be a good idea for airlines like United to concede that there is more to their obligation than getting us from Point A to Point B at some point in time? Shouldn't some effort be made to treat us courteously, to honor our carefully made travel plans to the best of their abilities? If they cancel our flights, shouldn't they still try to find a good way to get us home in the seats we had originally paid for? And, like the Indonesians who ask often, "How can I help you?" shouldn't United employees treat us with some modicum of civility? I'm just asking...

 
 
 
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07:11 PM on 11/01/2010
Never mind answering "iwillinclinemy" of his/her questions. United obviously asked and answered many of the same questions already to their own satisfaction. Nevertheless, you have received your pleasantly worded apology, hopefully also answering "iwillinclinemy" most important question of the status of Miss Chin with "we will certainly remind our colleagues".... thank you for not firing Miss Chin, United. May God bless you, Tamar.
06:05 PM on 11/01/2010
Tamar,
We are sorry you had a less than stellar experience flying with United. Please understand that, in those instances when we have to cancel flights, we are doing so to ensure the safety of our customers and our co-workers. While irregular operations are inconvenient, our intention is to minimize disruption while getting the greatest number of customers to their final destinations as quickly, safely and cheerfully as possibly. We will certainly remind our colleagues along the points of your journey how important a smile and kind word are to helping customers when plans change unexpectedly. And we hope you’ll give us another opportunity to earn your business.
05:24 PM on 11/01/2010
WOW ! This article is sad on so many levels. First, there are no more stewardesses. That is a sexist statement they are flight attendants. Secondly, so the Singapore flight attendants were beautiful? Good to here; do you know that it is one of the most prestigious jobs in their country. To be a flight attendant is like being a rock star (not kidding). One catch Miss Abrams when they get to their thirties they are terminated because people like you prefer your "stewardesses beautiful".
In addition, to compare Singapore Airline to an American carrier is like me comparing your writings to Katharine Grahams'. Is it to much to ask for just a little research before you vent? If you haven't noticed since 911 their have been big changes for these American Carriers. The industry will never be what we use to know it as. Unlike Singapore, United is not supported nor controlled by the government.
Lastly, Miss Chin is most likely not even a United employee but a contract worker with a United uniform. Surprise, airlines have had to cut cost every where because the consumer demands one thing first above EVERYTHING and thats price. How pleasant would you have been after most likely being berated by hundreds of passengers who are using you as their source of anger for something out of your control.
I've flown over a million miles and have learned that being pleasant goes both ways.
Frankly, you sound whinny and need to grow up.
03:57 PM on 11/01/2010
Moreover, when you got to SFO did they not offer you a day room at a local hotel or a day pass to their Red Carpet Lounge? Did you ask, or did you standby for earlier flts?

The worst part of this whole stoy is this: your very gifted talent of writing may well have caused an unsuspecting Singaporean woman her job. I hope you feel justified by your English words against a Chinese woman of Chinese descent who speaks Chinese fluently, and probably broken but understandable English at best.
03:51 PM on 11/01/2010
Nearly all airlines offer complimentary accomodations and meals when the cancellation is due to "mechanical difficulties." Did they not offer these to you and the other paxs, if you indeed gave them the opportunity to do so? Also, none of the words of Miss Chin that you cited sounded rude or uncaring, but rather, your own words in your post offered comments about your perception of her body language and facial expressions that appeared to "speak" to you. neverthertheless, you were put on a flt to Hong Kong. Did Miss Chin do this? What class of service did you fly in? Did you eat the food? Was it delayed or on-time? You managed to get on a UA flt to SFO in coach class. As for the food, you certainly realized that there was little or any chance of getting a Veg meal on this flt. Didn't you have several minutes to stop and get some veg food for the flt? Moreover, did you briefly explain your food dilemna to the UA flight attendants--most of whom would have gladly attempted to get you some nuts, fruit, cheese, crackers, etc. A couple of those UA flight attendants were probably paramount in helping to rid the USA of its age and gender bias and discrimination in the airline business during the 60's and 70's. Did you, as a self-purported feminist, stop to thank them? Airlines such as Singapore continue to practice age and gender bias and discrimination.
11:43 AM on 11/01/2010
AHHHH welcome to US aviation. What else can you expect for as little as you pay. What do you really expect from employees whose pensions are gone, slave type work rules, underfed tired pilots, etc, all while upper management earns in the the tens of millions. What you see from the outside goes into what has become the norm in US aviation due to a decade of feeding your employees nothing but bad news and under constant threat of a job loss. I challenge everyone who has a "bad" flying experience to do even a cursory analysis of the US airline industry and you will easily understand. Next time you have a bad experience with an airline employee, just tell them "I understand your situation and am truly sorry what is happening." You will probably then get better service.
01:13 PM on 11/01/2010
Travelers need to be more self reliant by having their own contingency plans and not depending on conveyance providers for everything such as bringing their own appropriate high energy snacks, cover-ups, head and back cushions, earplugs, sanitary wipes, reading material etc. when traveling. Also, try being more all inclusive in your view of such situations, it isn't all about you.
07:40 AM on 11/01/2010
Ok, the mechanical problem was purely United. But the travel nightmare was your own. They could have put you on a flight the next day. That would have given them time to meet your food and quite possible seating requirements. Sadly, they just do not keep extra planes sitting for you. So no, you forced them to route you all over the planet AND you still did not make it home in time. A extra day and restful night OR travel hell. You chose hell.
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08:53 AM on 11/01/2010
Sadly, true.
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09:01 AM on 11/01/2010
Even sadder -- creating my own nightmare by wanting to go home when I was supposed to.
09:23 PM on 10/31/2010
There are a couple of things that I can identify with the article, bad services and food on United flights. Everyone wants to do good job. The problems are the management and the economy. US airliners are all bad compared with most foreign airliners. The best solution is to lower your expectation, then you will be happier when you get to the other end.

More than once I hoped United went bankrupt. I am a frequent flier. I logged 3 millions miles on United. I live in Bay Area, which is virtually "owned" by United. United treated me well because of my elite status, but I dislike many things about Untied. The poor food quality is an insult to civilized human being. I It is almost better to fly domestically because there is no free food.

I see many United employees every week. Many of them do good job and are nice people. I have to say if you get good services, you are lucky because you happen to be in good hands of nice persons who happen to work for Untied. If you ran into bad services, it is situation normal. If you fly long enough, you will have more understanding how airline operates. Other than the two lonely agents at Singapore counter, there are many agents working behind the scene in bad situations. Miss Chin was overwhelmed. United was at fault for not having a system in place to contract more temporary help in situation like this.
03:07 PM on 10/31/2010
Sorry about your bad experience. I would just like to speak about what it's like to work in the Airline industry for almost 20 years now (I started when I was 19), and left it for a bit after having becoming overstressed and losing hope in humanity, after dealing with rude people day in and day out. I personally use to work for United also. The counter people in foreign countries for the most part are contract agents. The airlines have what is called a "contract of carriage", which basically means they are contracted to get you from point a to b, and if there are delays, to get you on the next avail. flight. It sounds like this was done. The rude behavior was no excuse on the agents behalf, but can you imagine what it is like to deal with people yelling at you all day? You begin to shut down. If there is a mechanical delay, you should be due some compensation from the ariline. Weather delays are considered out of the airlines control, and unfortunately the passenger is on their own when that happens. You don't know how many times I have wanted to say to a rude passenger, screaming my head off, because of something that is beyond anyones control and they are being unreasonable, "S*#t HAPPENS." Our society has become a society of "I want it, and I want it now", and when something doesn't go their way, they freak out.
04:00 PM on 10/31/2010
Amen!
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04:11 PM on 10/31/2010
I agree that rudeness is wrong on both the part of the passenger and the ticket agent. And I totally understand how frustrating it must be to be behind the counter when an entire plane-load of people is finding out that they are not going where they are supposed to go when they expect to go there. But we need to talk about this, to continue to have high expectations and to figure out how to meet them. Thanks so much for the explanation and for sharing your side of the story.
02:02 PM on 10/31/2010
I sympathize with Ms. Abrams! I stopped flying United almost 7 years ago because of their consistently rude personnel at check-in. I was fortunate enough not to be flying from across the world so I can't imagine how upsetting that must have been. Yes these days airlines have to deal with incidents out of their control but no reason to forget to be helpful to the customer. This is something obviously not communicated to their personnel whether in the U.S. or in Asia by management. They just don't care.
02:00 PM on 10/31/2010
Wow. Tell you all what, take your own advice, never complain against poor treatment, never say a word on your own behalf. But by the same token, don't expect one thing to change. And if for some reason, you paid and still got squat - and don't think it can't happen even on business class - don't for a moment expect to get a bit of empathy, much less sympathy. 'Cuz hey, them's the breaks.

As for the food thing - seriously? The writer seems to have done everything she was supposed to well in advance. Life does happen to both the airline and the passenger, but what if she was Jewish and couldn't eat the food because only vegetarian food is reliably kosher? What if she had allergies - and not peanuts, you could be allergic to other things and if you pay and tell ahead of time, their job is to keep you from starving or be poorly fed for 12 hours. Unless of course, you'd rather she suck it up, and be sick - or worse - at cruising altitude over miles of ocean with no where for anyone to go. That would just be so much more grown up and convenient for everyone, right?
01:54 PM on 10/31/2010
I would like to apologize to you for the service you received>> Please let me introduce myself to you ~ My name is Missy Diamond and I work in the Honolulu Reservations Office for United Airlines ~ I would like to be able to look into your reservation and offer you compensation for your unpleasant experience on MY airline. If you are okay with me looking into this for you I would like to be able to contact you directly and get some additional information. Once again I do apologize for my co-workers and really do hope that you will give me the opportunity to make this right! Malama Pono = Take care of you and a Hui Hou = Until we meet again.. Mahalo for your time.

Live Aloha n Give Aloha
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02:20 PM on 10/31/2010
Missy, all I want at this point is an apology and some sense that United passengers will be treated kindly. Your email made my day. Thank you.
01:23 PM on 10/31/2010
Tara, It's a shame you had a nightmarish experience with International travel. Bad enough it happens all too much here in the US too. For the most part, the whole flying experience is not what it used to be, and never will be again. I sure you have witnessed this in your travels.

After 33 years working Customer Service at 3 airlines, I have found there is no excuse for rudeness on the part of the employee OR the customer. However, I invite you to spend a day on the job with me at the Ticket Counter or Boarding gate, let's say a Friday evening or Sunday afternoon, and I think you'll find there are many Miss Chins out there, on both sides of the counter!
12:55 PM on 10/31/2010
You get what you pay for. You must have lived in a cave the last ten years to miss the errosion of service at US airlines. They have cut costs to the bone, what more do you expect from a counter agent that probably gets paid $3 an hour. At least there was an agent there instead of a sign instructing you to call a number in India. You should of forked out the money for a ticket on Singapore. You got to where you were going alive, with your bag, and less than a half day late, what are you complaining about?
12:46 PM on 10/31/2010
Next time you fly this route, try booking on an Asian carrier such as Singapore, EVA, China Air, Thai, etc. I think you will be pleasantly surprised. Flying with these carriers is more like what air travel is supposed to be. I have always been impressed with their service.