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Who Are You Not to Be?

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It is a gorgeous day here in the French Alps. I want to talk to you today about who you really are.

Something I hear from my clients as they start to move towards their desires is, "Who am I to be receiving this? Who do you think you are to do that?"

Sometimes we hear that voice externally (from family and friends) and sometimes we hear it internally (from ourselves).

It stops us in our tracks from being able to fully receive our desires.

If you're waiting for someone else to give you permission and approval, you'll never get it.

Here's what I do when that voice comes up, "Who do you think you are?"

I think: Who am I NOT to do it? What if this was gifted to to me, and I DON'T do it?

Who are you NOT to do it?

Feel that for a minute. It's a completely different energy.

Whatever you're stepping into: the lingerie line, the high-end clients, the traveling, the being on the stage: Write down WHO YOU ARE. You're Indie will assist this for you.

Instead of running away from the voice, engage with that voice. Your Indie can assist you in this.

1) Respond with "Who am I not to do this?"

2) Journal about Who you really are.

Let me know: When that voice comes up for you, how do you respond to that it?

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